Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread Jim Lubin
I thinking it's because, being paralyzed from the neck down and dependent
on a ventilator to breathe, I always have someone around me to feed me,
brush my teeth, wash my cloths, etc. Just been fortunate ​my bowel routine.
I don't own a van so use a service anytime I have gone anywhere. Chair
broke down at home but got transferred back to bed.


Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread wheelchair
Sex, sex and sex
Best Wishe
 
 
In a message dated 10/13/2015 2:23:29 P.M. Central Daylight Time,  
lwillis82...@gmail.com writes:

More quad quickies to meditate. Feel free to contribute.


Have you ever
1. Not eaten for a long time because you dread the bowel ritual.
2. Not brushed your teeth because of the hassle.
3. Worn dirty clothes because no one would/could do the laundry.
4. Had chips for a meal because there was nothing else that you could  fix.
5. Sat for hours after your chair/van broke down.
6. Had a bowel/bladder accident in a public place with no way to  
exit.church, theater, class, work.
7. Fallen from your chair while home alone.
8. Become choked or congested and unable to cough.
9. Been cursed, belittled by a caregiver.
10. Had a public confrontation with a stranger.
11. Gone over a week without a bowel movement.
12. Prayed to God that you won't wake up.
13. Been so depressed you lose all interest in living.
14. Wrecked your van.
15. Been stuck at the bottom of the stairs with no offer of  help.
Larry Willis  
Retired and proud of it




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From: Gmail <_bobbiehumphreys7@gmail.com_ 
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Date:  October 13, 2015 at 1:55:19 PM EDT
To: Larry Willis <_lwillis82153@gmail.com_ (mailto:lwillis82...@gmail.com) >
Cc:  "_quad-list@eskimo.com_ (mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com) " 
<_quad-list@eskimo.com_ (mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com) >
Subject:  Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem





I do.  Bobbie

Smile Everyday

On Oct 13, 2015, at 1:28 PM, Larry Willis <_lwillis82153@gmail.com_ 
(mailto:lwillis82...@gmail.com) >  wrote:




The opening line of your poem is a grabber. How many of us on here  
actually do that? I do. Often.

Larry Willis  
Retired and proud of it




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From: Gmail <_bobbiehumphreys7@gmail.com_ 
(mailto:bobbiehumphre...@gmail.com) >
Date:  October 13, 2015 at 12:21:47 PM EDT
To: Larry Willis <_lwillis82153@gmail.com_ (mailto:lwillis82...@gmail.com) >
Cc:  "_quad-list@eskimo.com_ (mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com) " 
<_quad-list@eskimo.com_ (mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com) >
Subject:  Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem





Wow, right on the mark. Especially as the years and decades pass  by.


It's quite indescribable, but you came pretty  fucking close. 
Bobbie 




On Oct 13, 2015, at 6:56 AM, Larry Willis <_lwillis82153@gmail.com_ 
(mailto:lwillis82...@gmail.com) >  wrote:




Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly. Exactly.

Larry Willis  
Retired and proud of it




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Resent-From: _quad-list@eskimo.com_ (mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com) 
From:  RONALD L PRACHT <_r.pracht@sbcglobal.net_ 
(mailto:r.pra...@sbcglobal.net) >
Date:  October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
To: Quad-list Post  <_quad-list@eskimo.com_ (mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com) >
Subject:  [QUAD-L] Quick poem
Reply-To: RONALD L PRACHT  <_r.pracht@sbcglobal.net_ 
(mailto:r.pra...@sbcglobal.net) >





 
Quad Life 


Every night when I go  to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.


As morning comes, I always  get scared, because another day must be beared. 


People say to look above,  but all I get is abused and shoved.


Life took a young man with  hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing as 
so it seems.


I try as I may to  still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the 
hell that  quad life demands.


Everyones forgotten  who I was , and treat me like shit just 
because. 


I started strong in  this game, but when I think...who is to blame?


Was I just another  victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I have 
no  chance?


As the years go by  it means less and less because I am still human 
nevertheless.










Ron 











=


Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread wheelchair
I personally would hate to see you leave because of a single post.   Life 
varies among Quads.  Some work 8 hours a day and others lay in bed for  8 
hours a day.  And then there are so many in between those extremes.   Michelle, 
I wish we knew more about YOU and what YOU are doing.
I hope you will reconsider as this group changes several times during the  
year.
 
Best Wishes
 
 
In a message dated 10/13/2015 5:02:09 P.M. Central Daylight Time,  
hotwheelsmiche...@gmail.com writes:

How can I be removed from this email list?


Thanks,
Michelle

Sent from my iPhone

On Oct 13, 2015, at 3:59 PM, nichole rohling <_zoocrew1@windstream.net_ 
(mailto:zoocr...@windstream.net) >  wrote:



   
 
Yes,  5, 8, 9, 10, 11 
I’m  blessed because I can see all of those being very  possible. 
add 
got  stuck outside in your chair and no one to help 
had  to call someone in the middle of the night to get you on a shower 
chair  because you had diarrhea 
sat  at home because van door is broken J 
Nicki 
 
 
From: Larry Willis  [mailto:lwillis82...@gmail.com]  
Sent: Tuesday, October 13, 2015 2:23 PM
To: _quad-list@eskimo.com_ (mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com) 
Subject:  Fwd: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

 
More quad quickies to meditate. Feel free to  contribute.
 

 
Have you ever
 
1. Not eaten for a long time because you dread the bowel  ritual.
 
2. Not brushed your teeth because of the  hassle.
 
3. Worn dirty clothes because no one would/could do the  laundry.
 
4. Had chips for a meal because there was nothing else  that you could fix.
 
5. Sat for hours after your chair/van broke  down.
 
6. Had a bowel/bladder accident in a public place with no  way to 
exit.church, theater, class, work.
 
7. Fallen from your chair while home  alone.
 
8. Become choked or congested and unable to  cough.
 
9. Been cursed, belittled by a  caregiver.
 
10. Had a public confrontation with a  stranger.
 
11. Gone over a week without a bowel  movement.
 
12. Prayed to God that you won't wake  up.
 
13. Been so depressed you lose all interest in  living.
 
14. Wrecked your van.
 
15. Been stuck at the bottom of the stairs with no offer  of help.
Larry Willis 
 
Retired and proud of it
 


 

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From: Gmail <_bobbiehumphreys7@gmail.com_ 
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Date:  October 13, 2015 at 1:55:19 PM EDT
To: Larry Willis <_lwillis82153@gmail.com_ (mailto:lwillis82...@gmail.com) >
Cc:  "_quad-list@eskimo.com_ (mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com) " 
<_quad-list@eskimo.com_ (mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com) >
Subject:  Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem


 
 
I do.  Bobbie

Smile  Everyday
 

On Oct 13, 2015, at  1:28 PM, Larry Willis <_lwillis82153@gmail.com_ 
(mailto:lwillis82...@gmail.com) >  wrote:

 
 
The opening line of your poem is a grabber. How many  of us on here 
actually do that? I do. Often.

Larry  Willis 
 
Retired and proud of it
 


 

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From: Gmail  <_bobbiehumphreys7@gmail.com_ 
(mailto:bobbiehumphre...@gmail.com) >
Date:  October 13, 2015 at 12:21:47 PM EDT
To: Larry Willis <_lwillis82153@gmail.com_ (mailto:lwillis82...@gmail.com) >
Cc:  "_quad-list@eskimo.com_ (mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com) " 
<_quad-list@eskimo.com_ (mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com) >
Subject:  Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem


 
 
Wow, right on the mark. Especially as the years and  decades pass by.
 

 
It's quite indescribable, but you came pretty  fucking close. 
 
Bobbie 
 

 

On Oct 13, 2015, at  6:56 AM, Larry Willis <_lwillis82153@gmail.com_ 
(mailto:lwillis82...@gmail.com) >  wrote:

 
 
Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly.  Exactly.

Larry Willis 
 
Retired and proud of it
 


 

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Resent-From:  _quad-list@eskimo.com_ (mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com) 
From:  RONALD L PRACHT <_r.pracht@sbcglobal.net_ 
(mailto:r.pra...@sbcglobal.net) >
Date:  October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
To: Quad-list Post  <_quad-list@eskimo.com_ (mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com) >
Subject:  [QUAD-L] Quick poem
Reply-To: RONALD L PRACHT  <_r.pracht@sbcglobal.net_ 
(mailto:r.pra...@sbcglobal.net) >


 
 
 
Quad  Life 
 

 
Every  night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up  dead.
 

 
As  morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be  
beared. 
 

 
People  say to look above, but all I get is abused and  shoved.
 

 
Life  took a young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing  
as so it seems.
 

 
I try  as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the  
hell that quad life demands.
 

 
Everyones  forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit just  
because. 
 

 
I  started strong in this game, but when I think...who is to  blame?
 

 
Was I  just another victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I  
have no chance?
 

 
As the  years go by it means less and less because I am still human  
nevertheless.
 

 

 

 

 

 
Ron 














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Fwd: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread Larry Willis
Jim, how in the world have you gone so long without experiencing any of these? 
Amazing!

Larry Willis
Retired and proud of it


Begin forwarded message:

> From: Jim Lubin 
> Date: October 13, 2015 at 8:51:37 PM EDT
> To: Larry Willis 
> Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
> 
> The 15 situations would definitely suck big time. I've been a quad 26 years 
> and fortunately have never experienced any of those. 
> 
> On my list:
> 
> 1. ventilator stopped working while in van on the road (happened twice)
> 2. ventilator disconnecting in van while on freeway
> 
> I've been in bed 24/7 for a 19 months now. Does it suck? No. I have been 
> sleep better than when I was getting out of bed everyday. why? because I can 
> wake-up when I am rested not when I need to so the nurse can transfer me to 
> my chair before leaving. It also use to take an hour to put cloths on and 
> transfer to the wheelchair, about 30 minutes to transfer back to bed at 
> night. I now have that time to be on the computer or just watch tv. 
> 
> Use to just sit at the computer all day, watch tv on my computer. Now I'm in 
> bed, use my computer and watch tv on a 42" tv. Life hasn't changed much, just 
> have more time to do what I enjoy.
> 
>> On Tue, Oct 13, 2015 at 12:22 PM, Larry Willis  
>> wrote:
>> More quad quickies to meditate. Feel free to contribute.
>> 
>> Have you ever
>> 1. Not eaten for a long time because you dread the bowel ritual.
>> 2. Not brushed your teeth because of the hassle.
>> 3. Worn dirty clothes because no one would/could do the laundry.
>> 4. Had chips for a meal because there was nothing else that you could fix.
>> 5. Sat for hours after your chair/van broke down.
>> 6. Had a bowel/bladder accident in a public place with no way to 
>> exit.church, theater, class, work.
>> 7. Fallen from your chair while home alone.
>> 8. Become choked or congested and unable to cough.
>> 9. Been cursed, belittled by a caregiver.
>> 10. Had a public confrontation with a stranger.
>> 11. Gone over a week without a bowel movement.
>> 12. Prayed to God that you won't wake up.
>> 13. Been so depressed you lose all interest in living.
>> 14. Wrecked your van.
>> 15. Been stuck at the bottom of the stairs with no offer of help.
>> Larry Willis
>> Retired and proud of it
>> 
>> 
>> Begin forwarded message:
>> 
>>> From: Gmail 
>>> Date: October 13, 2015 at 1:55:19 PM EDT
>>> 
>>> To: Larry Willis 
>>> Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
>>> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
>>> 
>>> I do.  Bobbie
>>> 
>>> Smile Everyday
>>> 
 On Oct 13, 2015, at 1:28 PM, Larry Willis  wrote:
 
 The opening line of your poem is a grabber. How many of us on here 
 actually do that? I do. Often.
 
 Larry Willis
 Retired and proud of it
 
 
 Begin forwarded message:
 
> From: Gmail 
> Date: October 13, 2015 at 12:21:47 PM EDT
> To: Larry Willis 
> Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
> 
> Wow, right on the mark. Especially as the years and decades pass by.
> 
> It's quite indescribable, but you came pretty fucking close. 
> Bobbie 
> 
> 
> 
>> On Oct 13, 2015, at 6:56 AM, Larry Willis  wrote:
>> 
>> Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly. Exactly.
>> 
>> Larry Willis
>> Retired and proud of it
>> 
>> 
>> Begin forwarded message:
>> 
>>> Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
>>> From: RONALD L PRACHT 
>>> Date: October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
>>> To: Quad-list Post 
>>> Subject: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
>>> Reply-To: RONALD L PRACHT 
>>> 
>>> Quad Life
>>> 
>>> Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.
>>> 
>>> As morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be 
>>> beared. 
>>> 
>>> People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved.
>>> 
>>> Life took a young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing 
>>> as so it seems.
>>> 
>>> I try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all 
>>> the hell that quad life demands.
>>> 
>>> Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit just 
>>> because. 
>>> 
>>> I started strong in this game, but when I think...who is to blame?
>>> 
>>> Was I just another victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I 
>>> have no chance?
>>> 
>>> As the years go by it means less and less because I am still human 
>>> nevertheless.
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> Ron 
> 


Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread RONALD L PRACHT
There is much positive here and if you read through the poem the end leaves 
hope. Ive done some amazing things as a quad, but right now Ive hit a buzzsaw. 
Nothing is all positive nor negative. The poem is how I felt at that moment. If 
you have no negative expressed than you have a bias list. I was thinking of 
making a follow up poem when things get better. Stick around girl!
Ron 


 On Tuesday, October 13, 2015 6:37 PM, Michelle Harkness 
 wrote:
   

 I just joined the list maybe a month ago. I have dark days, but not that dark. 
I wasn't looking for something like this I guess. I understand life happens, 
but I'm a positive person who focuses on the positive, even if I can't help 
myself with basic bodily functions.  Everyone has struggles, it's called life. 
Some have more then others and I get that. I don't want my email blown up with 
crap like this. We still have choices. We can choose to be a victim or choose 
to direct our own lives. You choose how you respond to situations.  If anyone 
wants to have an issue with me wanting to leave because of this, that's sad, 
because you don't need to waste your time over me not agreeing with you. I just 
wanted an out and you can all go on your merry way. I haven't even had time to 
respond to anything other then this, so it's not like you'll miss me. 😉 Thanks 
for the out Dan - I'll make sure and deposit the blood...

Sent from my iPhone
On Oct 13, 2015, at 5:08 PM, Danny Hearn  wrote:


You can't be removed.this list is blood in blood out !  LOL... 
Seriously though you must write to quad-list requ...@eskimo.com to be removed.  
Dan H** 


 On Tuesday, October 13, 2015 5:02 PM, Michelle Harkness 
 wrote:
   

 How can I be removed from this email list?
Thanks,Michelle

Sent from my iPhone
On Oct 13, 2015, at 3:59 PM, nichole rohling  wrote:



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addgot stuck outside in your chair and no one to helphad to call someone in the 
middle of the night to get you on a shower chair because you had diarrheasat at 
home because van door is broken J  Nicki   From: Larry Willis 
[mailto:lwillis82...@gmail.com] 
Sent: Tuesday, October 13, 2015 2:23 PM
To: quad-list@eskimo.com
Subject: Fwd: [QUAD-L] Quick poem  More quad quickies to meditate. Feel free to 
contribute.  Have you ever1. Not eaten for a long time because you 
dread the bowel ritual.2. Not brushed your teeth because of the hassle.3. Worn 
dirty clothes because no one would/could do the laundry.4. Had chips for a meal 
because there was nothing else that you could fix.5. Sat for hours after your 
chair/van broke down.6. Had a bowel/bladder accident in a public place with no 
way to exit.church, theater, class, work.7. Fallen from your chair while 
home alone.8. Become choked or congested and unable to cough.9. Been cursed, 
belittled by a caregiver.10. Had a public confrontation with a stranger.11. 
Gone over a week without a bowel movement.12. Prayed to God that you won't wake 
up.13. Been so depressed you lose all interest in living.14. Wrecked your 
van.15. Been stuck at the bottom of the stairs with no offer of help.
Larry WillisRetired and proud of it  
Begin forwarded message:
From: Gmail 
Date: October 13, 2015 at 1:55:19 PM EDT
To: Larry Willis 
Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

I do.  Bobbie

Smile Everyday
On Oct 13, 2015, at 1:28 PM, Larry Willis  wrote:
The opening line of your poem is a grabber. How many of us on here actually do 
that? I do. Often.

Larry WillisRetired and proud of it  
Begin forwarded message:
From: Gmail 
Date: October 13, 2015 at 12:21:47 PM EDT
To: Larry Willis 
Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
Su

Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread Jim Lubin
The 15 situations would definitely suck big time. I've been a quad 26 years
and fortunately have never experienced any of those.

On my list:

1. ventilator stopped working while in van on the road (happened twice)
2. ventilator disconnecting in van while on freeway

I've been in bed 24/7 for a 19 months now. Does it suck? No. I have been
sleep better than when I was getting out of bed everyday. why? because I
can wake-up when I am rested not when I need to so the nurse can transfer
me to my chair before leaving. It also use to take an hour to put cloths on
and transfer to the wheelchair, about 30 minutes to transfer back to bed at
night. I now have that time to be on the computer or just watch tv.

Use to just sit at the computer all day, watch tv on my computer. Now I'm
in bed, use my computer and watch tv on a 42" tv. Life hasn't changed much,
just have more time to do what I enjoy.

On Tue, Oct 13, 2015 at 12:22 PM, Larry Willis 
wrote:

> More quad quickies to meditate. Feel free to contribute.
>
> Have you ever
> 1. Not eaten for a long time because you dread the bowel ritual.
> 2. Not brushed your teeth because of the hassle.
> 3. Worn dirty clothes because no one would/could do the laundry.
> 4. Had chips for a meal because there was nothing else that you could fix.
> 5. Sat for hours after your chair/van broke down.
> 6. Had a bowel/bladder accident in a public place with no way to
> exit.church, theater, class, work.
> 7. Fallen from your chair while home alone.
> 8. Become choked or congested and unable to cough.
> 9. Been cursed, belittled by a caregiver.
> 10. Had a public confrontation with a stranger.
> 11. Gone over a week without a bowel movement.
> 12. Prayed to God that you won't wake up.
> 13. Been so depressed you lose all interest in living.
> 14. Wrecked your van.
> 15. Been stuck at the bottom of the stairs with no offer of help.
> Larry Willis
> Retired and proud of it
>
>
> Begin forwarded message:
>
> *From:* Gmail 
> *Date:* October 13, 2015 at 1:55:19 PM EDT
>
> *To:* Larry Willis 
> *Cc:* "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
> *Subject:* *Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem*
>
> I do.  Bobbie
>
> Smile Everyday
>
> On Oct 13, 2015, at 1:28 PM, Larry Willis  wrote:
>
> The opening line of your poem is a grabber. How many of us on here
> actually do that? I do. Often.
>
> Larry Willis
> Retired and proud of it
>
>
> Begin forwarded message:
>
> *From:* Gmail 
> *Date:* October 13, 2015 at 12:21:47 PM EDT
> *To:* Larry Willis 
> *Cc:* "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
> *Subject:* *Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem*
>
> Wow, right on the mark. Especially as the years and decades pass by.
>
> It's quite indescribable, but you came pretty fucking close.
> Bobbie
>
>
>
> On Oct 13, 2015, at 6:56 AM, Larry Willis  wrote:
>
> Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly. Exactly.
>
> Larry Willis
> Retired and proud of it
>
>
> Begin forwarded message:
>
> *Resent-From:* quad-list@eskimo.com
> *From:* RONALD L PRACHT 
> *Date:* October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
> *To:* Quad-list Post 
> *Subject:* *[QUAD-L] Quick poem*
> *Reply-To:* RONALD L PRACHT 
>
> Quad Life
>
> Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.
>
> As morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be beared.
>
> People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved.
>
> Life took a young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing as
> so it seems.
>
> I try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the
> hell that quad life demands.
>
> Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit just
> because.
>
> I started strong in this game, but when I think...who is to blame?
>
> Was I just another victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I have
> no chance?
>
> As the years go by it means less and less because I am still human
> nevertheless.
>
>
>
>
>
> Ron
>
>


Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread Gmail
16. Not being able to go to family holiday gatherings because the home it's in 
is not accessible.

Smile Everyday

> On Oct 13, 2015, at 3:22 PM, Larry Willis  wrote:
> 
> More quad quickies to meditate. Feel free to contribute.
> 
> Have you ever
> 1. Not eaten for a long time because you dread the bowel ritual.
> 2. Not brushed your teeth because of the hassle.
> 3. Worn dirty clothes because no one would/could do the laundry.
> 4. Had chips for a meal because there was nothing else that you could fix.
> 5. Sat for hours after your chair/van broke down.
> 6. Had a bowel/bladder accident in a public place with no way to 
> exit.church, theater, class, work.
> 7. Fallen from your chair while home alone.
> 8. Become choked or congested and unable to cough.
> 9. Been cursed, belittled by a caregiver.
> 10. Had a public confrontation with a stranger.
> 11. Gone over a week without a bowel movement.
> 12. Prayed to God that you won't wake up.
> 13. Been so depressed you lose all interest in living.
> 14. Wrecked your van.
> 15. Been stuck at the bottom of the stairs with no offer of help.
> Larry Willis
> Retired and proud of it
> 
> 
> Begin forwarded message:
> 
>> From: Gmail 
>> Date: October 13, 2015 at 1:55:19 PM EDT
>> To: Larry Willis 
>> Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
>> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
>> 
>> I do.  Bobbie
>> 
>> Smile Everyday
>> 
>>> On Oct 13, 2015, at 1:28 PM, Larry Willis  wrote:
>>> 
>>> The opening line of your poem is a grabber. How many of us on here actually 
>>> do that? I do. Often.
>>> 
>>> Larry Willis
>>> Retired and proud of it
>>> 
>>> 
>>> Begin forwarded message:
>>> 
 From: Gmail 
 Date: October 13, 2015 at 12:21:47 PM EDT
 To: Larry Willis 
 Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
 Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
 
 Wow, right on the mark. Especially as the years and decades pass by.
 
 It's quite indescribable, but you came pretty fucking close. 
 Bobbie 
 
 
 
> On Oct 13, 2015, at 6:56 AM, Larry Willis  wrote:
> 
> Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly. Exactly.
> 
> Larry Willis
> Retired and proud of it
> 
> 
> Begin forwarded message:
> 
>> Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
>> From: RONALD L PRACHT 
>> Date: October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
>> To: Quad-list Post 
>> Subject: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
>> Reply-To: RONALD L PRACHT 
>> 
>> Quad Life
>> 
>> Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.
>> 
>> As morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be 
>> beared. 
>> 
>> People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved.
>> 
>> Life took a young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing 
>> as so it seems.
>> 
>> I try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the 
>> hell that quad life demands.
>> 
>> Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit just 
>> because. 
>> 
>> I started strong in this game, but when I think...who is to blame?
>> 
>> Was I just another victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I 
>> have no chance?
>> 
>> As the years go by it means less and less because I am still human 
>> nevertheless.
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> Ron 


[QUAD-L] Please remove from list

2015-10-13 Thread ntpgrnmtn



Nancy Pritchard 
802-355-3449
Pall Spera Company Realtors, LLC
PO Box 507
Morrisville, Vermont 05661
nancy.pritch...@pallspera.com




Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread Michelle Harkness
I just joined the list maybe a month ago. I have dark days, but not that dark. 
I wasn't looking for something like this I guess. I understand life happens, 
but I'm a positive person who focuses on the positive, even if I can't help 
myself with basic bodily functions.  Everyone has struggles, it's called life. 
Some have more then others and I get that. I don't want my email blown up with 
crap like this. We still have choices. We can choose to be a victim or choose 
to direct our own lives. You choose how you respond to situations.  If anyone 
wants to have an issue with me wanting to leave because of this, that's sad, 
because you don't need to waste your time over me not agreeing with you. I just 
wanted an out and you can all go on your merry way. I haven't even had time to 
respond to anything other then this, so it's not like you'll miss me. 😉 Thanks 
for the out Dan - I'll make sure and deposit the blood...

Sent from my iPhone

> On Oct 13, 2015, at 5:08 PM, Danny Hearn  wrote:
> 
> You can't be removed.this list is blood in blood out !  LOL... 
> Seriously though you must write to quad-list requ...@eskimo.com to be 
> removed.  Dan H**
> 
> 
> 
> On Tuesday, October 13, 2015 5:02 PM, Michelle Harkness 
>  wrote:
> 
> 
> How can I be removed from this email list?
> 
> Thanks,
> Michelle
> 
> Sent from my iPhone
> 
>> On Oct 13, 2015, at 3:59 PM, nichole rohling  wrote:
>> 
> 
> Yes, 5, 8, 9, 10, 11
>  
> I’m blessed because I can see all of those being very possible.
>  
> add
> got stuck outside in your chair and no one to help
> had to call someone in the middle of the night to get you on a shower chair 
> because you had diarrhea
> sat at home because van door is broken J
>  
> Nicki
>  
> From: Larry Willis [mailto:lwillis82...@gmail.com] 
> Sent: Tuesday, October 13, 2015 2:23 PM
> To: quad-list@eskimo.com
> Subject: Fwd: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
>  
> More quad quickies to meditate. Feel free to contribute.
>  
> Have you ever
> 1. Not eaten for a long time because you dread the bowel ritual.
> 2. Not brushed your teeth because of the hassle.
> 3. Worn dirty clothes because no one would/could do the laundry.
> 4. Had chips for a meal because there was nothing else that you could fix.
> 5. Sat for hours after your chair/van broke down.
> 6. Had a bowel/bladder accident in a public place with no way to 
> exit.church, theater, class, work.
> 7. Fallen from your chair while home alone.
> 8. Become choked or congested and unable to cough.
> 9. Been cursed, belittled by a caregiver.
> 10. Had a public confrontation with a stranger.
> 11. Gone over a week without a bowel movement.
> 12. Prayed to God that you won't wake up.
> 13. Been so depressed you lose all interest in living.
> 14. Wrecked your van.
> 15. Been stuck at the bottom of the stairs with no offer of help.
> Larry Willis
> Retired and proud of it
>  
> 
> Begin forwarded message:
> From: Gmail 
> Date: October 13, 2015 at 1:55:19 PM EDT
> To: Larry Willis 
> Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
> I do.  Bobbie
> 
> Smile Everyday
> 
> On Oct 13, 2015, at 1:28 PM, Larry Willis  wrote:
> The opening line of your poem is a grabber. How many of us on here actually 
> do that? I do. Often.
> 
> Larry Willis
> Retired and proud of it
>  
> 
> Begin forwarded message:
> From: Gmail 
> Date: October 13, 2015 at 12:21:47 PM EDT
> To: Larry Willis 
> Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
> Wow, right on the mark. Especially as the years and decades pass by.
>  
> It's quite indescribable, but you came pretty fucking close. 
> Bobbie 
>  
> 
> On Oct 13, 2015, at 6:56 AM, Larry Willis  wrote:
> Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly. Exactly.
> 
> Larry Willis
> Retired and proud of it
>  
> 
> Begin forwarded message:
> Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
> From: RONALD L PRACHT 
> Date: October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
> To: Quad-list Post 
> Subject: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
> Reply-To: RONALD L PRACHT 
> Quad Life
>  
> Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.
>  
> As morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be beared. 
>  
> People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved.
>  
> Life took a young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing as so 
> it seems.
>  
> I try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the hell 
> that quad life demands.
>  
> Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit just because. 
>  
> I started strong in this game, but when I think...who is to blame?
>  
> Was I just another victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I have no 
> chance?
>  
> As the years go by it means less and less because I am still human 
> nevertheless.
>  
>  
>  
>  
>  
> Ron 
> 
> 


Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread RONALD L PRACHT
A simple poem gets people to quit the list? I would expect more from people 
that have been through as much life experience.
Ron 


 On Tuesday, October 13, 2015 5:08 PM, Danny Hearn  
wrote:
   

 You can't be removed.this list is blood in blood out !  LOL... 
Seriously though you must write to quad-list requ...@eskimo.com to be removed.  
Dan H** 


 On Tuesday, October 13, 2015 5:02 PM, Michelle Harkness 
 wrote:
   

 How can I be removed from this email list?
Thanks,Michelle

Sent from my iPhone
On Oct 13, 2015, at 3:59 PM, nichole rohling  wrote:



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addgot stuck outside in your chair and no one to helphad to call someone in the 
middle of the night to get you on a shower chair because you had diarrheasat at 
home because van door is broken J  Nicki   From: Larry Willis 
[mailto:lwillis82...@gmail.com] 
Sent: Tuesday, October 13, 2015 2:23 PM
To: quad-list@eskimo.com
Subject: Fwd: [QUAD-L] Quick poem  More quad quickies to meditate. Feel free to 
contribute.  Have you ever1. Not eaten for a long time because you 
dread the bowel ritual.2. Not brushed your teeth because of the hassle.3. Worn 
dirty clothes because no one would/could do the laundry.4. Had chips for a meal 
because there was nothing else that you could fix.5. Sat for hours after your 
chair/van broke down.6. Had a bowel/bladder accident in a public place with no 
way to exit.church, theater, class, work.7. Fallen from your chair while 
home alone.8. Become choked or congested and unable to cough.9. Been cursed, 
belittled by a caregiver.10. Had a public confrontation with a stranger.11. 
Gone over a week without a bowel movement.12. Prayed to God that you won't wake 
up.13. Been so depressed you lose all interest in living.14. Wrecked your 
van.15. Been stuck at the bottom of the stairs with no offer of help.
Larry WillisRetired and proud of it  
Begin forwarded message:
From: Gmail 
Date: October 13, 2015 at 1:55:19 PM EDT
To: Larry Willis 
Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

I do.  Bobbie

Smile Everyday
On Oct 13, 2015, at 1:28 PM, Larry Willis  wrote:
The opening line of your poem is a grabber. How many of us on here actually do 
that? I do. Often.

Larry WillisRetired and proud of it  
Begin forwarded message:
From: Gmail 
Date: October 13, 2015 at 12:21:47 PM EDT
To: Larry Willis 
Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

Wow, right on the mark. Especially as the years and decades pass by.  It's 
quite indescribable, but you came pretty fucking close. Bobbie   
On Oct 13, 2015, at 6:56 AM, Larry Willis  wrote:
Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly. Exactly.

Larry WillisRetired and proud of it  
Begin forwarded message:
Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
From: RONALD L PRACHT 
Date: October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
To: Quad-list Post 
Subject: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
Reply-To: RONALD L PRACHT 

Quad Life   Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.  As 
morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be beared.   
People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved.  Life took a 
young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing as so it seems.  I 
try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the hell 
that quad life demands.  Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit 
just because.   I started strong in this game, but when I 
think...who is to blame?  Was I just another victim of circumstance or from 
the beginning did I have no chance?  As the years go by it means less and less 
because I am still human nevertheless.          Ron 






   

  

Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread Danny Hearn
You can't be removed.this list is blood in blood out !  LOL... 
Seriously though you must write to quad-list requ...@eskimo.com to be removed.  
Dan H** 


 On Tuesday, October 13, 2015 5:02 PM, Michelle Harkness 
 wrote:
   

 How can I be removed from this email list?
Thanks,Michelle

Sent from my iPhone
On Oct 13, 2015, at 3:59 PM, nichole rohling  wrote:



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addgot stuck outside in your chair and no one to helphad to call someone in the 
middle of the night to get you on a shower chair because you had diarrheasat at 
home because van door is broken J  Nicki   From: Larry Willis 
[mailto:lwillis82...@gmail.com] 
Sent: Tuesday, October 13, 2015 2:23 PM
To: quad-list@eskimo.com
Subject: Fwd: [QUAD-L] Quick poem  More quad quickies to meditate. Feel free to 
contribute.  Have you ever1. Not eaten for a long time because you 
dread the bowel ritual.2. Not brushed your teeth because of the hassle.3. Worn 
dirty clothes because no one would/could do the laundry.4. Had chips for a meal 
because there was nothing else that you could fix.5. Sat for hours after your 
chair/van broke down.6. Had a bowel/bladder accident in a public place with no 
way to exit.church, theater, class, work.7. Fallen from your chair while 
home alone.8. Become choked or congested and unable to cough.9. Been cursed, 
belittled by a caregiver.10. Had a public confrontation with a stranger.11. 
Gone over a week without a bowel movement.12. Prayed to God that you won't wake 
up.13. Been so depressed you lose all interest in living.14. Wrecked your 
van.15. Been stuck at the bottom of the stairs with no offer of help.
Larry WillisRetired and proud of it  
Begin forwarded message:
From: Gmail 
Date: October 13, 2015 at 1:55:19 PM EDT
To: Larry Willis 
Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

I do.  Bobbie

Smile Everyday
On Oct 13, 2015, at 1:28 PM, Larry Willis  wrote:
The opening line of your poem is a grabber. How many of us on here actually do 
that? I do. Often.

Larry WillisRetired and proud of it  
Begin forwarded message:
From: Gmail 
Date: October 13, 2015 at 12:21:47 PM EDT
To: Larry Willis 
Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

Wow, right on the mark. Especially as the years and decades pass by.  It's 
quite indescribable, but you came pretty fucking close. Bobbie   
On Oct 13, 2015, at 6:56 AM, Larry Willis  wrote:
Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly. Exactly.

Larry WillisRetired and proud of it  
Begin forwarded message:
Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
From: RONALD L PRACHT 
Date: October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
To: Quad-list Post 
Subject: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
Reply-To: RONALD L PRACHT 

Quad Life   Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.  As 
morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be beared.   
People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved.  Life took a 
young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing as so it seems.  I 
try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the hell 
that quad life demands.  Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit 
just because.   I started strong in this game, but when I 
think...who is to blame?  Was I just another victim of circumstance or from 
the beginning did I have no chance?  As the years go by it means less and less 
because I am still human nevertheless.          Ron 






  

Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread Michelle Harkness
How can I be removed from this email list?

Thanks,
Michelle

Sent from my iPhone

> On Oct 13, 2015, at 3:59 PM, nichole rohling  wrote:
> 
> Yes, 5, 8, 9, 10, 11
>  
> I’m blessed because I can see all of those being very possible.
>  
> add
> got stuck outside in your chair and no one to help
> had to call someone in the middle of the night to get you on a shower chair 
> because you had diarrhea
> sat at home because van door is broken J
>  
> Nicki
>  
> From: Larry Willis [mailto:lwillis82...@gmail.com] 
> Sent: Tuesday, October 13, 2015 2:23 PM
> To: quad-list@eskimo.com
> Subject: Fwd: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
>  
> More quad quickies to meditate. Feel free to contribute.
>  
> Have you ever
> 1. Not eaten for a long time because you dread the bowel ritual.
> 2. Not brushed your teeth because of the hassle.
> 3. Worn dirty clothes because no one would/could do the laundry.
> 4. Had chips for a meal because there was nothing else that you could fix.
> 5. Sat for hours after your chair/van broke down.
> 6. Had a bowel/bladder accident in a public place with no way to 
> exit.church, theater, class, work.
> 7. Fallen from your chair while home alone.
> 8. Become choked or congested and unable to cough.
> 9. Been cursed, belittled by a caregiver.
> 10. Had a public confrontation with a stranger.
> 11. Gone over a week without a bowel movement.
> 12. Prayed to God that you won't wake up.
> 13. Been so depressed you lose all interest in living.
> 14. Wrecked your van.
> 15. Been stuck at the bottom of the stairs with no offer of help.
> Larry Willis
> Retired and proud of it
>  
> 
> Begin forwarded message:
> 
> From: Gmail 
> Date: October 13, 2015 at 1:55:19 PM EDT
> To: Larry Willis 
> Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
> 
> I do.  Bobbie
> 
> Smile Everyday
> 
> On Oct 13, 2015, at 1:28 PM, Larry Willis  wrote:
> 
> The opening line of your poem is a grabber. How many of us on here actually 
> do that? I do. Often.
> 
> Larry Willis
> Retired and proud of it
>  
> 
> Begin forwarded message:
> 
> From: Gmail 
> Date: October 13, 2015 at 12:21:47 PM EDT
> To: Larry Willis 
> Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
> 
> Wow, right on the mark. Especially as the years and decades pass by.
>  
> It's quite indescribable, but you came pretty fucking close. 
> Bobbie 
>  
> 
> 
> On Oct 13, 2015, at 6:56 AM, Larry Willis  wrote:
> 
> Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly. Exactly.
> 
> Larry Willis
> Retired and proud of it
>  
> 
> Begin forwarded message:
> 
> Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
> From: RONALD L PRACHT 
> Date: October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
> To: Quad-list Post 
> Subject: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
> Reply-To: RONALD L PRACHT 
> 
> Quad Life
>  
> Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.
>  
> As morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be beared. 
>  
> People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved.
>  
> Life took a young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing as so 
> it seems.
>  
> I try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the hell 
> that quad life demands.
>  
> Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit just because. 
>  
> I started strong in this game, but when I think...who is to blame?
>  
> Was I just another victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I have no 
> chance?
>  
> As the years go by it means less and less because I am still human 
> nevertheless.
>  
>  
>  
>  
>  
> Ron 


RE: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread nichole rohling
Yes, 5, 8, 9, 10, 11

 

I’m blessed because I can see all of those being very possible.

 

add

got stuck outside in your chair and no one to help

had to call someone in the middle of the night to get you on a shower chair 
because you had diarrhea

sat at home because van door is broken J

 

Nicki

 

From: Larry Willis [mailto:lwillis82...@gmail.com] 
Sent: Tuesday, October 13, 2015 2:23 PM
To: quad-list@eskimo.com
Subject: Fwd: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

 

More quad quickies to meditate. Feel free to contribute.

 

Have you ever

1. Not eaten for a long time because you dread the bowel ritual.

2. Not brushed your teeth because of the hassle.

3. Worn dirty clothes because no one would/could do the laundry.

4. Had chips for a meal because there was nothing else that you could fix.

5. Sat for hours after your chair/van broke down.

6. Had a bowel/bladder accident in a public place with no way to 
exit.church, theater, class, work.

7. Fallen from your chair while home alone.

8. Become choked or congested and unable to cough.

9. Been cursed, belittled by a caregiver.

10. Had a public confrontation with a stranger.

11. Gone over a week without a bowel movement.

12. Prayed to God that you won't wake up.

13. Been so depressed you lose all interest in living.

14. Wrecked your van.

15. Been stuck at the bottom of the stairs with no offer of help.
Larry Willis

Retired and proud of it

 


Begin forwarded message:

From: Gmail 
Date: October 13, 2015 at 1:55:19 PM EDT
To: Larry Willis 
Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

I do.  Bobbie

Smile Everyday


On Oct 13, 2015, at 1:28 PM, Larry Willis  wrote:

The opening line of your poem is a grabber. How many of us on here actually do 
that? I do. Often.

Larry Willis

Retired and proud of it

 


Begin forwarded message:

From: Gmail 
Date: October 13, 2015 at 12:21:47 PM EDT
To: Larry Willis 
Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

Wow, right on the mark. Especially as the years and decades pass by.

 

It's quite indescribable, but you came pretty fucking close. 

Bobbie 

 


On Oct 13, 2015, at 6:56 AM, Larry Willis  wrote:

Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly. Exactly.

Larry Willis

Retired and proud of it

 


Begin forwarded message:

Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
From: RONALD L PRACHT 
Date: October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
To: Quad-list Post 
Subject: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
Reply-To: RONALD L PRACHT 

Quad Life 

 

Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.

 

As morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be beared. 

 

People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved.

 

Life took a young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing as so 
it seems.

 

I try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the hell 
that quad life demands.

 

Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit just because. 

 

I started strong in this game, but when I think...who is to blame?

 

Was I just another victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I have no 
chance?

 

As the years go by it means less and less because I am still human nevertheless.

 

 

 

 

 

Ron 



Fwd: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread lwillis821
Alice, did I insult you? What on that list is not true? I am no Pollyanna. And 
I have been a quad for 44 years.

Sent from my iPad

Begin forwarded message:

> Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
> From: ntpgrn...@aol.com
> Date: October 13, 2015 at 3:35:17 PM EDT
> To: Larry Willis 
> Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
> 
> Wow..
> Please remove me from the list.
> 
> 
> 
> Nancy 
> 
> 
> 
>> On Oct 13, 2015, at 3:22 PM, Larry Willis  wrote:
>> 
>> More quad quickies to meditate. Feel free to contribute.
>> 
>> Have you ever
>> 1. Not eaten for a long time because you dread the bowel ritual.
>> 2. Not brushed your teeth because of the hassle.
>> 3. Worn dirty clothes because no one would/could do the laundry.
>> 4. Had chips for a meal because there was nothing else that you could fix.
>> 5. Sat for hours after your chair/van broke down.
>> 6. Had a bowel/bladder accident in a public place with no way to 
>> exit.church, theater, class, work.
>> 7. Fallen from your chair while home alone.
>> 8. Become choked or congested and unable to cough.
>> 9. Been cursed, belittled by a caregiver.
>> 10. Had a public confrontation with a stranger.
>> 11. Gone over a week without a bowel movement.
>> 12. Prayed to God that you won't wake up.
>> 13. Been so depressed you lose all interest in living.
>> 14. Wrecked your van.
>> 15. Been stuck at the bottom of the stairs with no offer of help.
>> Larry Willis
>> Retired and proud of it
>> 
>> 
>> Begin forwarded message:
>> 
>>> From: Gmail 
>>> Date: October 13, 2015 at 1:55:19 PM EDT
>>> To: Larry Willis 
>>> Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
>>> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
>>> 
>>> I do.  Bobbie
>>> 
>>> Smile Everyday
>>> 
 On Oct 13, 2015, at 1:28 PM, Larry Willis  wrote:
 
 The opening line of your poem is a grabber. How many of us on here 
 actually do that? I do. Often.
 
 Larry Willis
 Retired and proud of it
 
 
 Begin forwarded message:
 
> From: Gmail 
> Date: October 13, 2015 at 12:21:47 PM EDT
> To: Larry Willis 
> Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
> 
> Wow, right on the mark. Especially as the years and decades pass by.
> 
> It's quite indescribable, but you came pretty fucking close. 
> Bobbie 
> 
> 
> 
>> On Oct 13, 2015, at 6:56 AM, Larry Willis  wrote:
>> 
>> Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly. Exactly.
>> 
>> Larry Willis
>> Retired and proud of it
>> 
>> 
>> Begin forwarded message:
>> 
>>> Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
>>> From: RONALD L PRACHT 
>>> Date: October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
>>> To: Quad-list Post 
>>> Subject: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
>>> Reply-To: RONALD L PRACHT 
>>> 
>>> Quad Life
>>> 
>>> Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.
>>> 
>>> As morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be 
>>> beared. 
>>> 
>>> People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved.
>>> 
>>> Life took a young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing 
>>> as so it seems.
>>> 
>>> I try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all 
>>> the hell that quad life demands.
>>> 
>>> Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit just 
>>> because. 
>>> 
>>> I started strong in this game, but when I think...who is to blame?
>>> 
>>> Was I just another victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I 
>>> have no chance?
>>> 
>>> As the years go by it means less and less because I am still human 
>>> nevertheless.
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> Ron 


Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread ntpgrnmtn
Wow..
Please remove me from the list.



Nancy 



> On Oct 13, 2015, at 3:22 PM, Larry Willis  wrote:
> 
> More quad quickies to meditate. Feel free to contribute.
> 
> Have you ever
> 1. Not eaten for a long time because you dread the bowel ritual.
> 2. Not brushed your teeth because of the hassle.
> 3. Worn dirty clothes because no one would/could do the laundry.
> 4. Had chips for a meal because there was nothing else that you could fix.
> 5. Sat for hours after your chair/van broke down.
> 6. Had a bowel/bladder accident in a public place with no way to 
> exit.church, theater, class, work.
> 7. Fallen from your chair while home alone.
> 8. Become choked or congested and unable to cough.
> 9. Been cursed, belittled by a caregiver.
> 10. Had a public confrontation with a stranger.
> 11. Gone over a week without a bowel movement.
> 12. Prayed to God that you won't wake up.
> 13. Been so depressed you lose all interest in living.
> 14. Wrecked your van.
> 15. Been stuck at the bottom of the stairs with no offer of help.
> Larry Willis
> Retired and proud of it
> 
> 
> Begin forwarded message:
> 
>> From: Gmail 
>> Date: October 13, 2015 at 1:55:19 PM EDT
>> To: Larry Willis 
>> Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
>> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
>> 
>> I do.  Bobbie
>> 
>> Smile Everyday
>> 
>>> On Oct 13, 2015, at 1:28 PM, Larry Willis  wrote:
>>> 
>>> The opening line of your poem is a grabber. How many of us on here actually 
>>> do that? I do. Often.
>>> 
>>> Larry Willis
>>> Retired and proud of it
>>> 
>>> 
>>> Begin forwarded message:
>>> 
 From: Gmail 
 Date: October 13, 2015 at 12:21:47 PM EDT
 To: Larry Willis 
 Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
 Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
 
 Wow, right on the mark. Especially as the years and decades pass by.
 
 It's quite indescribable, but you came pretty fucking close. 
 Bobbie 
 
 
 
> On Oct 13, 2015, at 6:56 AM, Larry Willis  wrote:
> 
> Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly. Exactly.
> 
> Larry Willis
> Retired and proud of it
> 
> 
> Begin forwarded message:
> 
>> Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
>> From: RONALD L PRACHT 
>> Date: October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
>> To: Quad-list Post 
>> Subject: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
>> Reply-To: RONALD L PRACHT 
>> 
>> Quad Life
>> 
>> Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.
>> 
>> As morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be 
>> beared. 
>> 
>> People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved.
>> 
>> Life took a young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing 
>> as so it seems.
>> 
>> I try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the 
>> hell that quad life demands.
>> 
>> Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit just 
>> because. 
>> 
>> I started strong in this game, but when I think...who is to blame?
>> 
>> Was I just another victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I 
>> have no chance?
>> 
>> As the years go by it means less and less because I am still human 
>> nevertheless.
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> Ron 


Fwd: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread Larry Willis
More quad quickies to meditate. Feel free to contribute.

Have you ever
1. Not eaten for a long time because you dread the bowel ritual.
2. Not brushed your teeth because of the hassle.
3. Worn dirty clothes because no one would/could do the laundry.
4. Had chips for a meal because there was nothing else that you could fix.
5. Sat for hours after your chair/van broke down.
6. Had a bowel/bladder accident in a public place with no way to 
exit.church, theater, class, work.
7. Fallen from your chair while home alone.
8. Become choked or congested and unable to cough.
9. Been cursed, belittled by a caregiver.
10. Had a public confrontation with a stranger.
11. Gone over a week without a bowel movement.
12. Prayed to God that you won't wake up.
13. Been so depressed you lose all interest in living.
14. Wrecked your van.
15. Been stuck at the bottom of the stairs with no offer of help.
Larry Willis
Retired and proud of it


Begin forwarded message:

> From: Gmail 
> Date: October 13, 2015 at 1:55:19 PM EDT
> To: Larry Willis 
> Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
> 
> I do.  Bobbie
> 
> Smile Everyday
> 
>> On Oct 13, 2015, at 1:28 PM, Larry Willis  wrote:
>> 
>> The opening line of your poem is a grabber. How many of us on here actually 
>> do that? I do. Often.
>> 
>> Larry Willis
>> Retired and proud of it
>> 
>> 
>> Begin forwarded message:
>> 
>>> From: Gmail 
>>> Date: October 13, 2015 at 12:21:47 PM EDT
>>> To: Larry Willis 
>>> Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
>>> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
>>> 
>>> Wow, right on the mark. Especially as the years and decades pass by.
>>> 
>>> It's quite indescribable, but you came pretty fucking close. 
>>> Bobbie 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
 On Oct 13, 2015, at 6:56 AM, Larry Willis  wrote:
 
 Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly. Exactly.
 
 Larry Willis
 Retired and proud of it
 
 
 Begin forwarded message:
 
> Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
> From: RONALD L PRACHT 
> Date: October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
> To: Quad-list Post 
> Subject: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
> Reply-To: RONALD L PRACHT 
> 
> Quad Life
> 
> Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.
> 
> As morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be 
> beared. 
> 
> People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved.
> 
> Life took a young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing 
> as so it seems.
> 
> I try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the 
> hell that quad life demands.
> 
> Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit just 
> because. 
> 
> I started strong in this game, but when I think...who is to blame?
> 
> Was I just another victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I 
> have no chance?
> 
> As the years go by it means less and less because I am still human 
> nevertheless.
> 
> 
> 
> 
> 
> Ron 


Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread Gmail
I do.  Bobbie

Smile Everyday

> On Oct 13, 2015, at 1:28 PM, Larry Willis  wrote:
> 
> The opening line of your poem is a grabber. How many of us on here actually 
> do that? I do. Often.
> 
> Larry Willis
> Retired and proud of it
> 
> 
> Begin forwarded message:
> 
>> From: Gmail 
>> Date: October 13, 2015 at 12:21:47 PM EDT
>> To: Larry Willis 
>> Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
>> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
>> 
>> Wow, right on the mark. Especially as the years and decades pass by.
>> 
>> It's quite indescribable, but you came pretty fucking close. 
>> Bobbie 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>>> On Oct 13, 2015, at 6:56 AM, Larry Willis  wrote:
>>> 
>>> Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly. Exactly.
>>> 
>>> Larry Willis
>>> Retired and proud of it
>>> 
>>> 
>>> Begin forwarded message:
>>> 
 Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
 From: RONALD L PRACHT 
 Date: October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
 To: Quad-list Post 
 Subject: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
 Reply-To: RONALD L PRACHT 
 
 Quad Life
 
 Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.
 
 As morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be beared. 
 
 People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved.
 
 Life took a young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing as 
 so it seems.
 
 I try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the 
 hell that quad life demands.
 
 Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit just 
 because. 
 
 I started strong in this game, but when I think...who is to blame?
 
 Was I just another victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I have 
 no chance?
 
 As the years go by it means less and less because I am still human 
 nevertheless.
 
 
 
 
 
 Ron 


Fwd: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread Larry Willis
The opening line of your poem is a grabber. How many of us on here actually do 
that? I do. Often.

Larry Willis
Retired and proud of it


Begin forwarded message:

> From: Gmail 
> Date: October 13, 2015 at 12:21:47 PM EDT
> To: Larry Willis 
> Cc: "quad-list@eskimo.com" 
> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
> 
> Wow, right on the mark. Especially as the years and decades pass by.
> 
> It's quite indescribable, but you came pretty fucking close. 
> Bobbie 
> 
> 
> 
>> On Oct 13, 2015, at 6:56 AM, Larry Willis  wrote:
>> 
>> Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly. Exactly.
>> 
>> Larry Willis
>> Retired and proud of it
>> 
>> 
>> Begin forwarded message:
>> 
>>> Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
>>> From: RONALD L PRACHT 
>>> Date: October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
>>> To: Quad-list Post 
>>> Subject: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
>>> Reply-To: RONALD L PRACHT 
>>> 
>>> Quad Life
>>> 
>>> Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.
>>> 
>>> As morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be beared. 
>>> 
>>> People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved.
>>> 
>>> Life took a young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing as 
>>> so it seems.
>>> 
>>> I try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the 
>>> hell that quad life demands.
>>> 
>>> Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit just 
>>> because. 
>>> 
>>> I started strong in this game, but when I think...who is to blame?
>>> 
>>> Was I just another victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I have 
>>> no chance?
>>> 
>>> As the years go by it means less and less because I am still human 
>>> nevertheless.
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> Ron 


Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread Gmail
Wow, right on the mark. Especially as the years and decades pass by.

It's quite indescribable, but you came pretty fucking close. 
Bobbie 



> On Oct 13, 2015, at 6:56 AM, Larry Willis  wrote:
> 
> Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly. Exactly.
> 
> Larry Willis
> Retired and proud of it
> 
> 
> Begin forwarded message:
> 
>> Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
>> From: RONALD L PRACHT 
>> Date: October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
>> To: Quad-list Post 
>> Subject: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
>> Reply-To: RONALD L PRACHT 
>> 
>> Quad Life
>> 
>> Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.
>> 
>> As morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be beared. 
>> 
>> People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved.
>> 
>> Life took a young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing as 
>> so it seems.
>> 
>> I try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the 
>> hell that quad life demands.
>> 
>> Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit just because. 
>> 
>> I started strong in this game, but when I think...who is to blame?
>> 
>> Was I just another victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I have 
>> no chance?
>> 
>> As the years go by it means less and less because I am still human 
>> nevertheless.
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> Ron 


Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread jume9999
That was moving, sad and true 

Meredith 

- Original Message -

From: "RONALD L PRACHT"  
To: "quad-list"  
Sent: Tuesday, October 13, 2015 12:06:14 AM 
Subject: [QUAD-L] Quick poem 

Quad Life 

Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead. 

As morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be beared. 

People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved. 

Life took a young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing as so 
it seems. 

I try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the hell 
that quad life demands. 

Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit just because. 

I started strong in this game, but when I think...who is to blame? 

Was I just another victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I have no 
chance? 

As the years go by it means less and less because I am still human 
nevertheless. 





Ron 



[QUAD-L] Please remove from list

2015-10-13 Thread ntpgrnmtn
Although I know the quad life is a difficult one to say the least we need to 
think and share more good thoughts. Looking for more positive thoughts!
Not ever day is good but there is a little good in every day🙏


Nancy Pritchard 
802-355-3449
Pall Spera Company Realtors, LLC
PO Box 507
Morrisville, Vermont 05661
nancy.pritch...@pallspera.com




RE: [QUAD-L] Back on list

2015-10-13 Thread alcibiates2
Welcome back! Best Wishes, John s.

 Original message 
From: jume9...@comcast.net 
Date: 10/11/2015  4:56 PM  (GMT-05:00) 
To: quad-list  
Subject: [QUAD-L] Back on list 

Hi all,
How have you all been?
I was unable to receive mail from this list for awhile. Now I am just sending a 
test to see if I can receive posts again.

Meredith


Re: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread ntpgrnmtn
💕






> On Oct 13, 2015, at 6:56 AM, Larry Willis  wrote:
> 
> Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly. Exactly.
> 
> Larry Willis
> Retired and proud of it
> 
> 
> Begin forwarded message:
> 
>> Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
>> From: RONALD L PRACHT 
>> Date: October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
>> To: Quad-list Post 
>> Subject: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
>> Reply-To: RONALD L PRACHT 
>> 
>> Quad Life
>> 
>> Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.
>> 
>> As morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be beared. 
>> 
>> People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved.
>> 
>> Life took a young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing as 
>> so it seems.
>> 
>> I try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the 
>> hell that quad life demands.
>> 
>> Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit just because. 
>> 
>> I started strong in this game, but when I think...who is to blame?
>> 
>> Was I just another victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I have 
>> no chance?
>> 
>> As the years go by it means less and less because I am still human 
>> nevertheless.
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> Ron 


Fwd: [QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread Larry Willis
Wow, Ron, my feelings exactly. Exactly.

Larry Willis
Retired and proud of it


Begin forwarded message:

> Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
> From: RONALD L PRACHT 
> Date: October 13, 2015 at 3:06:14 AM EDT
> To: Quad-list Post 
> Subject: [QUAD-L] Quick poem
> Reply-To: RONALD L PRACHT 
> 
> Quad Life
> 
> Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.
> 
> As morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be beared. 
> 
> People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved.
> 
> Life took a young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing as so 
> it seems.
> 
> I try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the hell 
> that quad life demands.
> 
> Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit just because. 
> 
> I started strong in this game, but when I think...who is to blame?
> 
> Was I just another victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I have no 
> chance?
> 
> As the years go by it means less and less because I am still human 
> nevertheless.
> 
> 
> 
> 
> 
> Ron 


[QUAD-L] Quick poem

2015-10-13 Thread RONALD L PRACHT
 Quad Life 
Every night when I go to bed, I pray to god to wake up dead.
As morning comes, I always get scared, because another day must be beared. 
People say to look above, but all I get is abused and shoved.
Life took a young man with hopes and dreams, and reduced him to nothing as so 
it seems.
I try as I may to still be a man, during the bowell routines and all the hell 
that quad life demands.
Everyones forgotten who I was , and treat me like shit just because. 
I started strong in this game, but when I think...who is to blame?
Was I just another victim of circumstance or from the beginning did I have no 
chance?
As the years go by it means less and less because I am still human nevertheless.




Ron