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Hi Nan and all It was very interesting to read about your involvement with the miniature horses as I too have been involved with horses, both before my injury and afterwards. My breed Is Pony Of America's and we have been involved with them since 1980. I have also been first a Foster parent and now a Non-family host home provider since 1977. We have had over 25 developmentally delayed and/or physically handicapped children and adults in our home over the years. I now have two men who had been with me for 30 years and more who help me as much as I help them I am proud to say that they have both far succeeded their initial diagnoses and are both contributing back to the community. We took our two interests and for many years combined them and initiated and facilitated classes for the handicapped at many of the open show circuits in the northern Nevada and California area. Many of these classes are still going today although I am no longer actively involved in the show management. I was a horseshoe manager after I broke my neck in 1990 and got a lot of satisfaction from watching the children (and adults) being very hesitant at the beginning of the show year-after all how people are there that drive an enormous electric chair with their chin, use the computer with a mouthstick, and are constantly having to be rescued from that pile of sand just because I knew that I could get through it if I just went fast enough-to the kids sitting on my lap, the parents making sure that I had something to drink and or eat, and the industrious 12 year old that devised a tow rope for my wheelchair to hook up to his horse to pull me out. By the way, it worked. I have always felt that it is a good day when I make someone laugh, learn something new, finish something that I have started, and most blessed of all had a hug from a loved one whether it is in person, on the Internet, or over the phone. As you say, there are many many opportunities to fill volunteer positions that no one else wants to do or has your unique ability to fulfill that need. Schools are always in need of people to help in the classroom, and in my case it does not take long for the kindergartner to learn to climb up in my lap, hold the book and turn pages for me so that I can read to them. By the way, there's that hug I mentioned above. It is very hard to stay down when you are giving of yourself to others. Enjoy each day, treasure those precious minutes that come along, and maybe stretch your comfort zone a little bit and find satisfaction in your own growth. Joan C4 complete 1990 fell off scaffolding while working on our new barn.
Re: [QUAD-L] Has anyone wondered
Perhaps there are 3 reasons: You are not doing enough Its not your time and I know there is a 3rd one... I just can't remember. Just be the one you are and do the best you can. Best Wishes In a message dated 11/12/2011 7:34:58 P.M. Central Standard Time, lilroamin...@verizon.net writes: I've been wonderin, since Ive been hurt Ive run across friends that have made a difference in my life and in others that make a difference in their lives then are takin away, but I'm still here but dont think I'm doing enough to make a difference does anyone else feel the same way? What do u do? How do you find out what your here for? gina Sent from Yahoo! Mail on Android
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Hi Gina. I've often pondered the same question. I am C5/6 post 43 years quad. I've done a lot in my life ... married, had kids, have grandkids, bred and showed miniature horses, traveled. But it was all stuff I wanted to do, for me. I've felt guilty about not doing more for others. As I have gotten older, and it's harder and harder to do the things I once took for granted, I regret not doing more ... until I really think about it. I am not a religious person per se, but I identify as spiritual. I feel that God/the Godddess/the spirit in the sky, whatever anyone wants to call it, allowed me to live And my obligation is to do just that. Live life. Live life to the fullest and to the best of your ability. As far as making a difference, I hope that I've been able to touch people, whether disabled or AB, by how I'm living my life. I hope that I inspire others to find joy in life, teach others how it's possible to find happiness despite all the obstacles. If you feel you need to do more, there are many, many volunteer opportunities out there. I chose to volunteer for the American Miniature Horse Registry (it's close to my heart). I worked with a woman named Genevieve DuPont, who was legally blind, to create the PMC (physically/mentally challenged) Division. We wrote the guidelines for the rulebook and worked with the AMHR to make sure shows offered these classes. We established this division back in the late '90s and it's still still flourishing today with PMC classes offered all the way up to the National Show. What started with just ViVi and I endures to this day and has attracted more people than we ever imagined. I haven't walked on the moon or received the Nobel Peace Prize, but I am proud of what I have accomplished. I love my life, despite the difficulties and set backs. I'm a good mom, a good GiGi and a good friend. I think that is making a difference. Good luck on your life journey. I know you'll find something that makes you feel like you too have made a difference. Nan From: Regina Fuller lilroamin...@verizon.net To: quad-list quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Saturday, November 12, 2011 8:34 PM Subject: [QUAD-L] Has anyone wondered I've been wonderin, since Ive been hurt Ive run across friends that have made a difference in my life and in others that make a difference in their lives then are takin away, but I'm still here but dont think I'm doing enough to make a difference does anyone else feel the same way? What do u do? How do you find out what your here for? gina Sent from Yahoo! Mail on Android
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Where have you been Nan? You were here when I came on board 13+ years ago! Glad to see you post! Nicki From: Nan [mailto:nlg52...@yahoo.com] Sent: Sunday, November 13, 2011 12:10 PM To: quad-list@eskimo.com Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Has anyone wondered Hi Gina. I've often pondered the same question. I am C5/6 post 43 years quad. I've done a lot in my life ... married, had kids, have grandkids, bred and showed miniature horses, traveled. But it was all stuff I wanted to do, for me. I've felt guilty about not doing more for others. As I have gotten older, and it's harder and harder to do the things I once took for granted, I regret not doing more ... until I really think about it. I am not a religious person per se, but I identify as spiritual. I feel that God/the Godddess/the spirit in the sky, whatever anyone wants to call it, allowed me to live And my obligation is to do just that. Live life. Live life to the fullest and to the best of your ability. As far as making a difference, I hope that I've been able to touch people, whether disabled or AB, by how I'm living my life. I hope that I inspire others to find joy in life, teach others how it's possible to find happiness despite all the obstacles. If you feel you need to do more, there are many, many volunteer opportunities out there. I chose to volunteer for the American Miniature Horse Registry (it's close to my heart). I worked with a woman named Genevieve DuPont, who was legally blind, to create the PMC (physically/mentally challenged) Division. We wrote the guidelines for the rulebook and worked with the AMHR to make sure shows offered these classes. We established this division back in the late '90s and it's still still flourishing today with PMC classes offered all the way up to the National Show. What started with just ViVi and I endures to this day and has attracted more people than we ever imagined. I haven't walked on the moon or received the Nobel Peace Prize, but I am proud of what I have accomplished. I love my life, despite the difficulties and set backs. I'm a good mom, a good GiGi and a good friend. I think that is making a difference. Good luck on your life journey. I know you'll find something that makes you feel like you too have made a difference. Nan From: Regina Fuller lilroamin...@verizon.net To: quad-list quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Saturday, November 12, 2011 8:34 PM Subject: [QUAD-L] Has anyone wondered I've been wonderin, since Ive been hurt Ive run across friends that have made a difference in my life and in others that make a difference in their lives then are takin away, but I'm still here but dont think I'm doing enough to make a difference does anyone else feel the same way? What do u do? How do you find out what your here for? gina Sent from Yahoo! Mail on Android
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Nan, I've known of you for a long time. We go back more then a decade. I am so proud of you and the things you have accomplished and those who you have inspired. May you continue to be blessed. By comparison, if I may, I wonder how lil Mandy is doing these days. Best Wishes In a message dated 11/13/2011 12:10:46 P.M. Central Standard Time, nlg52...@yahoo.com writes: Hi Gina. I've often pondered the same question. I am C5/6 post 43 years quad. I've done a lot in my life ... married, had kids, have grandkids, bred and showed miniature horses, traveled. But it was all stuff I wanted to do, for me. I've felt guilty about not doing more for others. As I have gotten older, and it's harder and harder to do the things I once took for granted, I regret not doing more ... until I really think about it. I am not a religious person per se, but I identify as spiritual. I feel that God/the Godddess/the spirit in the sky, whatever anyone wants to call it, allowed me to live And my obligation is to do just that. Live life. Live life to the fullest and to the best of your ability. As far as making a difference, I hope that I've been able to touch people, whether disabled or AB, by how I'm living my life. I hope that I inspire others to find joy in life, teach others how it's possible to find happiness despite all the obstacles. If you feel you need to do more, there are many, many volunteer opportunities out there. I chose to volunteer for the American Miniature Horse Registry (it's close to my heart). I worked with a woman named Genevieve DuPont, who was legally blind, to create the PMC (physically/mentally challenged) Division. We wrote the guidelines for the rulebook and worked with the AMHR to make sure shows offered these classes. We established this division back in the late '90s and it's still still flourishing today with PMC classes offered all the way up to the National Show. What started with just ViVi and I endures to this day and has attracted more people than we ever imagined. I haven't walked on the moon or received the Nobel Peace Prize, but I am proud of what I have accomplished. I love my life, despite the difficulties and set backs. I'm a good mom, a good GiGi and a good friend. I think that is making a difference. Good luck on your life journey. I know you'll find something that makes you feel like you too have made a difference. Nan From: Regina Fuller lilroamin...@verizon.net To: quad-list quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Saturday, November 12, 2011 8:34 PM Subject: [QUAD-L] Has anyone wondered I've been wonderin, since Ive been hurt Ive run across friends that have made a difference in my life and in others that make a difference in their lives then are takin away, but I'm still here but dont think I'm doing enough to make a difference does anyone else feel the same way? What do u do? How do you find out what your here for? gina Sent from Yahoo! Mail on Android
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I think most of us, when we think about what our purpose in life is, we tend to think about something really big when it doesn't necessarily have to be that way, sometimes little things that we do that we might not even realize can inspire and make a difference in the life of others, like Nan said, just the way we live our lives and the attitude we have towards life can touch other people. People often tell me that I inspire them because I always maintain a positive attitude and I just think that's the way it should be, you have to try to enjoy life no matter what, there's no sense in feeling sorry for yourself and it's just a waste of time. Every experience, good or bad, is meant to teach us something, so we should try and learn something from our experiences. Good day to all! Lissette Whitehead 1177 Broadway Suite #4 Chula Vista, CA 91911 www.lissettesgoaltowalk.synthasite.com www.lwgripgloves.com From: zoocr...@windstream.net To: nlg52...@yahoo.com; quad-list@eskimo.com Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] Has anyone wondered Date: Sun, 13 Nov 2011 12:15:46 -0600 Where have you been Nan? You were here when I came on board 13+ years ago! Glad to see you post! Nicki From: Nan [mailto:nlg52...@yahoo.com] Sent: Sunday, November 13, 2011 12:10 PM To: quad-list@eskimo.com Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Has anyone wondered Hi Gina.I've often pondered the same question. I am C5/6 post 43 years quad. I've done a lot in my life ... married, had kids, have grandkids, bred and showed miniature horses, traveled. But it was all stuff I wanted to do, for me. I've felt guilty about not doing more for others. As I have gotten older, and it's harder and harder to do the things I once took for granted, I regret not doing more ... until I really think about it. I am not a religious person per se, but I identify as spiritual. I feel that God/the Godddess/the spirit in the sky, whatever anyone wants to call it, allowed me to live And my obligation is to do just that. Live life. Live life to the fullest and to the best of your ability. As far as making a difference, I hope that I've been able to touch people, whether disabled or AB, by how I'm living my life. I hope that I inspire others to find joy in life, teach others how it's possible to find happiness despite all the obstacles. If you feel you need to do more, there are many, many volunteer opportunities out there. I chose to volunteer for the American Miniature Horse Registry (it's close to my heart). I worked with a woman named Genevieve DuPont, who was legally blind, to create the PMC (physically/mentally challenged) Division. We wrote the guidelines for the rulebook and worked with the AMHR to make sure shows offered these classes. We established this division back in the late '90s and it's still still flourishing today with PMC classes offered all the way up to the National Show. What started with just ViVi and I endures to this day and has attracted more people than we ever imagined. I haven't walked on the moon or received the Nobel Peace Prize, but I am proud of what I have accomplished. I love my life, despite the difficulties and set backs. I'm a good mom, a good GiGi and a good friend. I think that is making a difference. Good luck on your life journey. I know you'll find something that makes you feel like you too have made a difference. NanFrom: Regina Fuller lilroamin...@verizon.net To: quad-list quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Saturday, November 12, 2011 8:34 PM Subject: [QUAD-L] Has anyone wonderedI've been wonderin, since Ive been hurt Ive run across friends that have made a difference in my life and in others that make a difference in their lives then are takin away, but I'm still here but dont think I'm doing enough to make a difference does anyone else feel the same way? What do u do? How do you find out what your here for? ginaSent from Yahoo! Mail on Android
[QUAD-L] Has anyone wondered
I've been wonderin, since Ive been hurt Ive run across friends that have made a difference in my life and in others that make a difference in their lives then are takin away, but I'm still here but dont think I'm doing enough to make a difference does anyone else feel the same way? What do u do? How do you find out what your here for? gina Sent from Yahoo! Mail on Android
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Hi Gina, I think you've asked the ultimate question of our existence. I'm sure it's somewhat different for everyone, but the Beatles may have said it best: And in the end, the love you take, is equal to the love you make. Works for me on so many levels. Steve - C4, 23 years From: Regina Fuller [mailto:lilroamin...@verizon.net] Sent: Saturday, November 12, 2011 8:35 PM To: quad-list Subject: [QUAD-L] Has anyone wondered I've been wonderin, since Ive been hurt Ive run across friends that have made a difference in my life and in others that make a difference in their lives then are takin away, but I'm still here but dont think I'm doing enough to make a difference does anyone else feel the same way? What do u do? How do you find out what your here for? gina Sent from Yahoo! Mail on Android
