Re: [Tango-L] shocking - Miracle shirts

2009-03-04 Thread Crrtango
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Re: [Tango-L] shocking - Miracle shirts

2009-03-04 Thread Jay Rabe

Hi Steve,
I don't wear a tee shirt under. I don't think it would defeat anything, but it 
would make you much warmer, without any real benefit, IMO.

J


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Re: [Tango-L] shocking - Miracle shirts

2009-03-04 Thread Steve Littler
Hi Jay,

Does one wear a cotton tee shirt under neath that shirt - or would that 
defeat how it works?

Steve

Jay Rabe wrote:
> Hi joe,
>
> I wear them with everything from jeans to slacks. They work fine IMO. I've 
> worn them with a jacket, but don't think I've ever worn a tie with one. 
> There's only one style available, though in both short and long sleeves. It's 
> true the collar is a little soft, with no stiffener, and the fabric is very 
> flexible, slightly stretchy, I think there's Lycra in it. I got a private 
> post saying there are some other manufacturers offering shirts with the same 
> or similar fabric under the brand name CoolMax, but my web search didn't find 
> any black dress shirts, nor any better selection of colors. Regardless of the 
> cut, if you sweat a lot, they're the only thing I've ever found that 
> completely keeps you dry. They work.
>
>  J
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Re: [Tango-L] shocking - Miracle shirts

2009-03-04 Thread Jay Rabe

Hi joe,

I wear them with everything from jeans to slacks. They work fine IMO. I've worn 
them with a jacket, but don't think I've ever worn a tie with one. There's only 
one style available, though in both short and long sleeves. It's true the 
collar is a little soft, with no stiffener, and the fabric is very flexible, 
slightly stretchy, I think there's Lycra in it. I got a private post saying 
there are some other manufacturers offering shirts with the same or similar 
fabric under the brand name CoolMax, but my web search didn't find any black 
dress shirts, nor any better selection of colors. Regardless of the cut, if you 
sweat a lot, they're the only thing I've ever found that completely keeps you 
dry. They work.

 J



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Re: [Tango-L] shocking - Miracle shirts

2009-03-03 Thread Jay Rabe

I know this is bordering on a commercial, but I think every tanguero that has a 
sweat problem needs to know about this Very Effective solution. I have no 
financial or emotional attachment to them, other than when I see someone 
dripping and soggy, I feel bad for them and their partners, knowing these 
shirts are truly magical in their effectiveness.

http://TangueroDesigns.com

Enjoy.

   J


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Re: [Tango-L] shocking

2009-03-02 Thread Vince Bagušauskas

I also remember my tango teacher in Canberra and who used to teach all sorts of 
dances in Brisbane who kept a tray of deodorants and wipes in the men's toilets 
with a sign that said something about having respect for others, and to use the 
toiletries on hand.
 

Cheers!
 
Vince
 



 
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Re: [Tango-L] Shocking "close embrace"

2009-03-01 Thread Jay Rabe

> Fortunately, Japanese do not usually smell, their 
> sweat glands are smaller and they eat differently and bathe and shower 
> all the time too.

Wetness is one thing, for which I have no input. I know some men and women 
perspire a lot and get wet, but what it is in their makeup or diet or exercise 
or lack therof that creates their propensity is a mystery to me.

Odor, however, is a different story. Not bathing regularly or recently leaves 
bacteria on your skin that creates odor when it gets wet with new sweat. 
There's also diet and emotional contributions. People who are anxious or 
nervous, or people who drink a lot of coffee (or mate?) tend to have acrid 
sweat that has a much stronger and very unpleasant odor. Clean sweat on clean 
skin is almost odorless, and even contains pheromones that are reputed to be 
attractive, in an animalistic way, as in, "let's get hot and sweaty."

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Re: [Tango-L] Shocking "close embrace"

2009-02-28 Thread Steve Littler
Coconut oil soaks into the skin in a few minutes like skin conditioner. 
You won't be slippery.

Steve

Astrid wrote:
>
> And Greg, I suggest, you try powder instead of oil, oil might just 
> make you slippery in addition to being wet.
>
> Astrid
>
>
> Endzone 102 wrote:
>> I can't wear a suit and tie.  I overheat very badly if I wear long 
>> sleeves.
>> (Yes, I know I'm a border case, and not typical in this at all).  I 
>> usually
>> have to change my a-shirt after a milonga tanda.  I'll look in to 
>> coconut
>> oil.  That sounds interesting.
>>
>> -Greg G
>>
>>   
>
>
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Re: [Tango-L] shocking

2009-02-28 Thread Noughts
How gracious of you all to be so accepting of others and their  
personal habits...

Who has the right to tell you to change shirts? Why should we wash 30  
shirts a week as opposed to 5?  I used to, but then realised that it  
wasn't really doing any good anyway.  The ladies I danced with were  
not protected by a new dry shirt that was within 3 mins a wet drenched  
one... And I still had another 3 songs to go...

I usually wear a jacket, even when it's hot, but not always...

People dance with me cause they want to, not cause I'm dry or wearing  
a scent.  Doesn't mean I not trying to be dry or smell nice, but this  
is life - no?


Sent from my iPhone, from somewhere...
>>
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Re: [Tango-L] shocking

2009-02-28 Thread Vince Bagušauskas


Let me say, that backless ladies, especially after a milonga tanda, are often 
covered in moisture.  Icky yes.  But I get over it. So should they.  
 
There is a difference in smell between a work-out sweat and those men AND women 
who hve not showered for a day or more and reek of old sweat.  Not accceptable 
on any counts.
 
 
 
 
When I did Ceroc, it was a code and taught by the particular teacher I had, 
that men are to bring along a small face towel to dances.  If they sweat a real 
lot then a change of shirt was required.



Cheers!



Vince



> To: TANGO-L@mit.edu
> Date: Fri, 27 Feb 2009 17:36:40 -0500
> From: sherp...@aol.com
> Subject: [Tango-L] shocking
>
> the ladies are lucky , they get to be sleeveless, backless, in short skirts 
> and waving fans
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Re: [Tango-L] Shocking "close embrace"

2009-02-28 Thread Astrid
I live in Tokyo where summer is basically like a cross between a green 
house and a sauna, and all the milongas are air conditioned.
Still, I know exactly who tends to sweat in the milongas and who 
doesn't. I know that after dancing close embrace with a certain man all 
the hair in and near my face will be dripping with the sweat that ran 
from his hair into mine. Do I mind?
Obviously, it is a matter of personal sympathy or not, and,very 
important, smell. Fortunately, Japanese do not usually smell, their 
sweat glands are smaller and they eat differently and bathe and shower 
all the time too.
I have a friend and colleague who does not even sweat much, but he likes 
to dress up in shirts, ties and suits, and more often than not those 
shirts are made of polyester and he obviously does not wear deodorant 
and is from the West,  which means, the polyester makes him disaster 
prone in this way. So, even though dancing with him can be fun, I 
usually try to wriggle out of it after 2 or 3 songs, as I cannot take it 
any longer than that, I cannot dance and hold my breath half of the time.
I know another guy who likes to burn a huge amount of energy on the 
dance floor, rushing around the room in huge steps, quick turns, spins 
and so on and he is a little chubby too and soon sweats profusely while 
he does it. He does not smell, he is Japanese, he is fun to dane with, 
but you end up getting wet too while dancing with him. Fortunately he 
has the good sense of wearing cotton, t shirts, mostly, and he always 
comes to the milongas with a Boston bag in which he carries all his 
extra shirts, and he changes them in the bathroom every time he got 
drenched again which I much appreciate. And he does not embrace you too 
closely when he is dripping.

Now, I very much doubt that posture or core muscles have anything to do 
with this problem, I do believe that keeping a proper diet with more 
vegetables and less red meat, less beer and trying to maintain a healthy 
or at least healthier weight would make a lot of difference.
Dressing up in suits and ties can be counter productive as they make you 
feel hot, do not ever wear anything knitted to a milonga (it feels awful 
to the partner even if you do not sweat), do bring a change of clothes, 
and the hosts should make sure that a reasonably cool, fresh climate is 
maintained in the room by using air conditioning, opening the windows or 
whatever is possible.
Yes, and if you go dancing while being hugely overweight and retaining 
plenty of water in your body, well...food for thought. Skinny people do 
not really sweat much, so maybe this is one more reason I am so lucky 
living in Japan where people live mainly on fish, rice, shredded raw 
cabbage, tofu and water.

And Greg, I suggest, you try powder instead of oil, oil might just make 
you slippery in addition to being wet.

Astrid


Endzone 102 wrote:
> I can't wear a suit and tie.  I overheat very badly if I wear long sleeves.
> (Yes, I know I'm a border case, and not typical in this at all).  I usually
> have to change my a-shirt after a milonga tanda.  I'll look in to coconut
> oil.  That sounds interesting.
>
> -Greg G
>
>   

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Re: [Tango-L] Shocking ( Richard's complaint)

2009-02-28 Thread Richard Isaacs
I called a friend who is an exercise physiologist. He said that the
sweating he has observed in tango dancers, male and female, is
unlikely to be caused by lack of aerobic training. because social
tango is not physically demanding enough for that to be an issue.

Rather, he felt, it was caused by bad posture and core muscle issues.

Regards/Richard


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Re: [Tango-L] shocking sweat

2009-02-28 Thread macfroggy

Sometimes still an old milonguero will keep folded handkerchiefs in 
each palm as he embraces the woman, to avoid getting his sweat on her 
back or her right hand. Nice.

cherie





"it?is your responsibility to find followers who do not drape 
themselves over you
and who do not have an axis...how do you choose a dance parnter, what 
are your
dance prioritiesif you were more descriminating, you would neither 
sweat nor
be so bitter, sherrie"




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Re: [Tango-L] Shocking ( Richard's complaint)

2009-02-27 Thread Richard Isaacs
Nancy -

Women who sweat are no more "awful" than men who sweat. With both it
may reflect on the amount of aerobic exercise they choose to do, but I
think you are mistaken to make it a character issue.

Regards/Richard
1-212-695-1759

Friday, February 27, 2009, 6:28:28 PM, you wrote:

N> --- Richard Isaacs  wrote:

>> And yet we leaders are plagued with women who not only are unable
>> to maintain their own axis, but insist on draping themselves over
>> us (in an attempt to send us to the chiropractor), while leaving a
>> stain of deodorant on our jackets as they clutch our hand with
>> their sweaty palms.

N> YOU 1) invite  or 2) accept an invitation to dance
N> with those awful women.


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Re: [Tango-L] shocking

2009-02-27 Thread Richard Isaacs
Friday, February 27, 2009, 5:36:40 PM, you wrote:

sac> the ladies are lucky , they get to be sleeveless, backless, in
sac> short skirts and waving fans.

And yet we leaders are plagued with women who not only are unable to
maintain their own axis, but insist on draping themselves over us (in
an attempt to send us to the chiropractor), while leaving a stain of
deodorant on our jackets as they clutch our hand with their sweaty
palms.

Considering how un-aerobic tango is, I think more tangeros and
tangeras should be getting some actual exercise, and avoiding
this problem altogether.

Regards/Richard
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Re: [Tango-L] Shocking "close embrace"

2009-02-27 Thread Endzone 102
I can't wear a suit and tie.  I overheat very badly if I wear long sleeves.
(Yes, I know I'm a border case, and not typical in this at all).  I usually
have to change my a-shirt after a milonga tanda.  I'll look in to coconut
oil.  That sounds interesting.

-Greg G

On Fri, Feb 27, 2009 at 4:39 PM, Steve Littler  wrote:

> I wear a suit and tie and the ladies really appreciate it. In addition
> to unscented deodorant, I cover my skin with extra virgin coconut oil.
> The coconut odor dissipates long before I arrive at the milonga and the
> antimicrobial properties keep me pretty unscented all night long.
>
>
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Re: [Tango-L] Shocking "close embrace"

2009-02-27 Thread joanneprochaska
Steve,
Thanks for setting such a great example for others to follow.
Joanne Pogros
Cleveland, Ohio
www.tangocleveland.com


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To: Tango-L 
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Subject: Re: [Tango-L] Shocking "close embrace"



I wear a suit and tie and the ladies really appreciate it. In addition 
to unscented deodorant, I cover my skin with extra virgin coconut oil. 
The coconut odor dissipates long before I arrive at the milonga and the 
antimicrobial properties keep me pretty unscented all night long.

Steve

Trini y Sean (PATangoS) wrote:
>  One of my partners always wears a suit jacket so that the woman doesn't 
contact his sweat.  Chivalry isn't quite dead, yet.
>
>
>
>   
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Re: [Tango-L] Shocking "close embrace"

2009-02-27 Thread Steve Littler
I wear a suit and tie and the ladies really appreciate it. In addition 
to unscented deodorant, I cover my skin with extra virgin coconut oil. 
The coconut odor dissipates long before I arrive at the milonga and the 
antimicrobial properties keep me pretty unscented all night long.

Steve

Trini y Sean (PATangoS) wrote:
>  One of my partners always wears a suit jacket so that the woman doesn't 
> contact his sweat.  Chivalry isn't quite dead, yet.
>
>
>
>   
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Re: [Tango-L] Shocking "close embrace"

2009-02-27 Thread Trini y Sean (PATangoS)


--- On Fri, 2/27/09, Endzone 102  wrote:


   Oh, dear.  Let me tell you something.  I sweat.  I sweat wearing shorts
in the winter.  Being in a dance hall or studio that's over 68 degress
makes
me sweat, even before I start dancing.  But thanks for generalizing.

 ~~~

I did say "might".  I'm sure someone like yourself who is aware of himself 
takes care to bring a change of shirt or something so that the woman isn't 
soaked.  One of my partners always wears a suit jacket so that the woman 
doesn't contact his sweat.  Chivalry isn't quite dead, yet.

Trini de Pittsburgh



  

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Re: [Tango-L] Shocking "close embrace"

2009-02-27 Thread Endzone 102
On Fri, Feb 27, 2009 at 7:00 AM, Trini y Sean (PATangoS)  wrote:

>
>
> --- On Thu, 2/26/09, Kristina Bohm  wrote:
> > What do you think of "close embrance" after a guy
> > has been dancing several hours and is totally soaked in his sweat?... I,
> personally love both, close and open embrace. But recently I had to say 'no'
> to a great dancer whom I smelled already from 5 meters approaching me. (and
> yes, I smiled and said that I was tired...:) )
>
> Good answer.  By the way, anyone who has to work so hard that he sweats
> that much, might not be such a great dancer.
>

   Oh, dear.  Let me tell you something.  I sweat.  I sweat wearing shorts
in the winter.  Being in a dance hall or studio that's over 68 degress makes
me sweat, even before I start dancing.  But thanks for generalizing.

>
> > Another dancer, also at the end of milonga, after several
> > open embrace
> > tangos, told me that "he prefers close embrace"
> > and almost forced me to the
> > close position.
>
> I would have made an excuse and left in the middle of a tanda if someone
> tried that with me and I wanted to dance with him another time.  Otherwise,
> I would have just thanked him and left him on the dance floor.  If, however,
> you asked him to dance and you knew that he preferred close-embrace, then
> that's a different story.
>

   That's what your left elbow is for.  Lock it off if you really don't want
to dance in close.  But otherwise, I agree with Trini here.  Bail out if
you're not comfortable being in close with someone.

-Greg G
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Re: [Tango-L] Shocking "close embrace"

2009-02-27 Thread Jay Rabe

Kris wrote: What do you think of "close embrance" after a guy has been dancing 
several
> hours and is totally soaked in his sweat?...

The guy needs one of Portland tanguera Bonnie Lee's Miracle shirts. They're 
gortex and wick away moisture, and the sweatiest dancer always feels dry, and 
odorless too. (I have no financial connection to Bonnie Lee). Her company is 
Tanguero Designs, but unfortunately she's apparently moving her website and the 
link that I have no longer works. I'll see if I can find a good link and post 
it later.

  J


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Re: [Tango-L] Shocking "close embrace"

2009-02-27 Thread Trini y Sean (PATangoS)


--- On Thu, 2/26/09, Kristina Bohm  wrote:
> What do you think of "close embrance" after a guy
> has been dancing several hours and is totally soaked in his sweat?... I, 
> personally love both, close and open embrace. But recently I had to say 'no' 
> to a great dancer whom I smelled already from 5 meters approaching me. (and 
> yes, I smiled and said that I was tired...:) )

Good answer.  By the way, anyone who has to work so hard that he sweats that 
much, might not be such a great dancer.  

> Another dancer, also at the end of milonga, after several
> open embrace
> tangos, told me that "he prefers close embrace"
> and almost forced me to the
> close position.

I would have made an excuse and left in the middle of a tanda if someone tried 
that with me and I wanted to dance with him another time.  Otherwise, I would 
have just thanked him and left him on the dance floor.  If, however, you asked 
him to dance and you knew that he preferred close-embrace, then that's a 
different story.


> I remeber one gentelman, who had a different shirt for
> every partner he danced with. Maybe it was little bit too extreme, but for 
> sure, tangos felt like heaven with him!
> 


There's a lot of fish in the ocean.  Don't sweat the guys who don't have the 
decency to present themselves nicely to you.  Think the next guy asking you to 
dance will enjoy being soaked by you soaked by someone else?


Trini de Pittsburgh


  
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