Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital
He will be missedSent from my Samsung Galaxy , an AT&T LTE smartphone Original message From: Jay Jorden Date: 11/24/18 4:43 PM (GMT-06:00) To: Cavers Texas Subject: Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital All - Christmas music is playing everywhere this weekend, but I'm sad beyond words at hearing this. Lee Jay was a great friend who's gone too soon - and way too suddenly. It was a privilege to serve with Lee Jay on the TCMA board. He was a passionate advocate for us and made a real difference for Central Texas caving and cave conservation over the years. He truly knew the meaning behind volunteerism and giving back. I got to visit with Lee Jay this summer, but he was too sick to come to our last board meeting earlier this month. I will miss his friendship and unique perspective. Justin, many thanks for the heads-up on this, keeping us posted and for being there for him at the end. And thanks to George for a wonderful tribute to Lee Jay - and to others who share his stories. Unfortunately, I'll be out-of-state for the gathering next weekend. But please give my condolences to Lee Jay's family, and pass along any funeral arrangements when you can. Jay At 9:15 this morning, Lee Jay Graves moved on to his next big adventure. Mimi, myself, and two of his sisters were there to pass on everyone's warm regards and wish him well on this new journey. Lee Jay held a fascination for the world that drove his thirst for knowledge and attention to detail, and he touched the lives of many with his kindness and conversation. We will miss you, friend.In celebration of our great times with LJ, we will have an impromptu gathering around a fire tonight at the Ediger compound on Mockingbird. Fire starts at sunset (7:11). Please park on the road.In his honor, there will also be a caver-style celebration of Lee Jay's life and times on the 1st of December (that's next Saturday, folks). Details coming soon.On Nov 23, 2018, at 19:33, Justin Shaw wrote:Lee Jay Graves has suffered a massive stroke with subarachnoid bleeding. His condition continues to deteriorate and he is not expected to recover. If you would like to visit him he is at the main St. David’s hospital on 32nd St. here in Austin. He is on the 5th floor, room 555. Nurses recommend coming tonight or early tomorrow. There are no restrictions on visiting hours. Though he seems unresponsive, the sense of hearing is often the last to go. His family is aware, and his sisters are in route and expected to arrive tonight or early tomorrow morning.If you would like details, I’m willing to talk on the phone. 512-593-2283With Love, Justin(apologies for such a heavy post, however when you’ve touched as many lives as LJ did, there’s too many people who’ll want to be in the loop for me to even think of everyone, much less directly contact everyone)___ Texascavers mailing list | http://texascavers.com Texascavers@texascavers.com | Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/texascavers@texascavers.com/ http://lists.texascavers.com/listinfo/texascavers ___ Texascavers mailing list | http://texascavers.com Texascavers@texascavers.com | Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/texascavers@texascavers.com/ http://lists.texascavers.com/listinfo/texascavers
Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital
All - Christmas music is playing everywhere this weekend, but I'm sad beyond words at hearing this. Lee Jay was a great friend who's gone too soon - and way too suddenly. It was a privilege to serve with Lee Jay on the TCMA board. He was a passionate advocate for us and made a real difference for Central Texas caving and cave conservation over the years. He truly knew the meaning behind volunteerism and giving back. I got to visit with Lee Jay this summer, but he was too sick to come to our last board meeting earlier this month. I will miss his friendship and unique perspective. Justin, many thanks for the heads-up on this, keeping us posted and for being there for him at the end. And thanks to George for a wonderful tribute to Lee Jay - and to others who share his stories. Unfortunately, I'll be out-of-state for the gathering next weekend. But please give my condolences to Lee Jay's family, and pass along any funeral arrangements when you can. Jay At 9:15 this morning, Lee Jay Graves moved on to his next big adventure. Mimi, myself, and two of his sisters were there to pass on everyone's warm regards and wish him well on this new journey. Lee Jay held a fascination for the world that drove his thirst for knowledge and attention to detail, and he touched the lives of many with his kindness and conversation. We will miss you, friend. In celebration of our great times with LJ, we will have an impromptu gathering around a fire tonight at the Ediger compound on Mockingbird. Fire starts at sunset (7:11). Please park on the road. In his honor, there will also be a caver-style celebration of Lee Jay's life and times on the 1st of December (that's next Saturday, folks). Details coming soon. On Nov 23, 2018, at 19:33, Justin Shaw wrote: Lee Jay Graves has suffered a massive stroke with subarachnoid bleeding. His condition continues to deteriorate and he is not expected to recover. If you would like to visit him he is at the main St. David’s hospital on 32nd St. here in Austin. He is on the 5th floor, room 555. Nurses recommend coming tonight or early tomorrow. There are no restrictions on visiting hours. Though he seems unresponsive, the sense of hearing is often the last to go. His family is aware, and his sisters are in route and expected to arrive tonight or early tomorrow morning. If you would like details, I’m willing to talk on the phone. 512-593-2283 With Love, Justin (apologies for such a heavy post, however when you’ve touched as many lives as LJ did, there’s too many people who’ll want to be in the loop for me to even think of everyone, much less directly contact everyone) ___ Texascavers mailing list | http://texascavers.com Texascavers@texascavers.com | Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/ texascavers@texascavers.com/ http://lists.texascavers.com/listinfo/texascavers ___ Texascavers mailing list | http://texascavers.com Texascavers@texascavers.com | Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/texascavers@texascavers.com/ http://lists.texascavers.com/listinfo/texascavers
Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital
At 9:15 this morning, Lee Jay Graves moved on to his next big adventure. Mimi, myself, and two of his sisters were there to pass on everyone's warm regards and wish him well on this new journey. Lee Jay held a fascination for the world that drove his thirst for knowledge and attention to detail, and he touched the lives of many with his kindness and conversation. We will miss you, friend. In celebration of our great times with LJ, we will have an impromptu gathering around a fire tonight at the Ediger compound on Mockingbird. Fire starts at sunset (7:11). Please park on the road. In his honor, there will also be a caver-style celebration of Lee Jay's life and times on the 1st of December (that's next Saturday, folks). Details coming soon. > On Nov 23, 2018, at 19:33, Justin Shaw wrote: > > Lee Jay Graves has suffered a massive stroke with subarachnoid bleeding. His > condition continues to deteriorate and he is not expected to recover. > > If you would like to visit him he is at the main St. David’s hospital on 32nd > St. here in Austin. He is on the 5th floor, room 555. Nurses recommend coming > tonight or early tomorrow. There are no restrictions on visiting hours. > Though he seems unresponsive, the sense of hearing is often the last to go. > > His family is aware, and his sisters are in route and expected to arrive > tonight or early tomorrow morning. > > If you would like details, I’m willing to talk on the phone. 512-593-2283 > > With Love, >Justin > > > > (apologies for such a heavy post, however when you’ve touched as many lives > as LJ did, there’s too many people who’ll want to be in the loop for me to > even think of everyone, much less directly contact everyone) > ___ Texascavers mailing list | http://texascavers.com Texascavers@texascavers.com | Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/texascavers@texascavers.com/ http://lists.texascavers.com/listinfo/texascavers
Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital
I will miss you, Lee Jay. And thank you, George, for an elegant eulogy. Alex ___ Texascavers mailing list | http://texascavers.com Texascavers@texascavers.com | Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/texascavers@texascavers.com/ http://lists.texascavers.com/listinfo/texascavers
Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital
Sad news. Thanks for letting us know, Justin. I'm contacting some people who are not on Texascavers. Fortunate that the list is back online. Logan On 11/23/2018 7:33 PM, Justin Shaw wrote: Lee Jay Graves has suffered a massive stroke with subarachnoid bleeding. His condition continues to deteriorate and he is not expected to recover. If you would like to visit him he is at the main St. David’s hospital on 32nd St. here in Austin. He is on the 5th floor, room 555. Nurses recommend coming tonight or early tomorrow. There are no restrictions on visiting hours. Though he seems unresponsive, the sense of hearing is often the last to go. His family is aware, and his sisters are in route and expected to arrive tonight or early tomorrow morning. If you would like details, I’m willing to talk on the phone. 512-593-2283 With Love, Justin (apologies for such a heavy post, however when you’ve touched as many lives as LJ did, there’s too many people who’ll want to be in the loop for me to even think of everyone, much less directly contact everyone) ___ Texascavers mailing list | http://texascavers.com Texascavers@texascavers.com | Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/texascavers@texascavers.com/ http://lists.texascavers.com/listinfo/texascavers ___ Texascavers mailing list | http://texascavers.com Texascavers@texascavers.com | Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/texascavers@texascavers.com/ http://lists.texascavers.com/listinfo/texascavers
Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital
Thank you George, you speak for many of us at this sad moment. Life is short, dont waste your's or others time with pointless BS. Go outside and enjoy the splendor of this fantastic creation where we are blessed to dwell. Fly up and catch your dreams before they slip away. Grubbsi - Original Message - From: "George Veni" To: "texascavers" Sent: Friday, November 23, 2018 11:41:45 PM Subject: Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital Lee Jay and I never caved much together recreationally. We worked together for many years on countless karst consulting projects until I moved to Carlsbad 12 years ago. Everyone knows he is a talker, and more than once I had to tell him "Enough talking. We need to get to work." But I found that when I listened to him, he was amazingly well read and informed on a diverse range of topics. Lee Jay is a generalist who finds all that's in the world interesting. That is probably what makes him most valuable on a caving team. He has an eye for detail because he is fascinated by everything. He would produce great sketches and notes that were key to making good decisions on how to evaluate and manage a certain cave or karst feature. This attention to minutia allowed him to discover one of the tiniest and probably rarest spiders in Texas in a Williamson County cave. As a generalist, I could count on him for pretty much whatever was needed on our team. Once I asked him to bring his rifle for a karst evaluation. He thought I was joking but I assured him I serious. When we met in the field, we walked to an abandoned well that I needed to assess with my downhole camera, except that a rock was jammed in the well bore about 7 m down. Three shots from his rifle down the well shattered the rock and allowed us to look with the camera into a cave, which remains unexplored for lack of a humanly accessible entrance. Check out the attached photo. I find myself at the moment on the wrong side of the planet to go visit him in the hospital and tell him how much I appreciate his friendship and comradery. Perhaps more sad is that like with too many lost friends, we make time for final goodbyes at bedsides and funerals when it is too late, and not when they are alive and well to truly appreciate our words. The last time we saw each other, I knew I needed to visit with him more. It had been too long, but there was always "tomorrow." Lee Jay's final lesson to me and many us may be to remind us that sometimes there are no tomorrows, and to let those you care about know today how you feel. Thank you LJ, George George Veni, PhD Executive Director, National Cave and Karst Research Institute (NCKRI) and President, International Union of Speleology (UIS) NCKRI address (primary) 400-1 Cascades Avenue Carlsbad, New Mexico 88220 USA Office: +575-887-5517 Mobile: +210-863-5919 Fax: +575-887-5523 gv...@nckri.org www.nckri.org UIS address Titov trg 2 Postojna, 6230, Slovenia www.uis-speleo.org -Original Message- From: Texascavers On Behalf Of Justin Shaw Sent: Friday, November 23, 2018 18:33 To: CaveTex Subject: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital Lee Jay Graves has suffered a massive stroke with subarachnoid bleeding. His condition continues to deteriorate and he is not expected to recover. If you would like to visit him he is at the main St. David’s hospital on 32nd St. here in Austin. He is on the 5th floor, room 555. Nurses recommend coming tonight or early tomorrow. There are no restrictions on visiting hours. Though he seems unresponsive, the sense of hearing is often the last to go. His family is aware, and his sisters are in route and expected to arrive tonight or early tomorrow morning. If you would like details, I’m willing to talk on the phone. 512-593-2283 With Love, Justin (apologies for such a heavy post, however when you’ve touched as many lives as LJ did, there’s too many people who’ll want to be in the loop for me to even think of everyone, much less directly contact everyone) ___ Texascavers mailing list | http://texascavers.com Texascavers@texascavers.com | Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/texascavers@texascavers.com/ http://lists.texascavers.com/listinfo/texascavers ___ Texascavers mailing list | http://texascavers.com Texascavers@texascavers.com | Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/texascavers@texascavers.com/ http://lists.texascavers.com/listinfo/texascavers ___ Texascavers mailing list | http://texascavers.com Texascavers@texascavers.com | Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/texascavers@texascavers.com/ http://lists.texascavers.com/listinfo/texascavers
Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital
That is very sad news. Sorry to hear. John Brooks Sent from my iPhone > On Nov 23, 2018, at 11:57 PM, carl.kunath wrote: > > Well said, George! > ===Carl Kunath > > > > Sent from my Sprint Samsung Galaxy S® 6. > > Original message > From: George Veni > Date: 11/23/18 11:41 PM (GMT-06:00) > To: texascavers@texascavers.com > Subject: Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital > > Lee Jay and I never caved much together recreationally. We worked together > for many years on countless karst consulting projects until I moved to > Carlsbad 12 years ago. Everyone knows he is a talker, and more than once I > had to tell him "Enough talking. We need to get to work." But I found that > when I listened to him, he was amazingly well read and informed on a diverse > range of topics. Lee Jay is a generalist who finds all that's in the world > interesting. That is probably what makes him most valuable on a caving team. > He has an eye for detail because he is fascinated by everything. He would > produce great sketches and notes that were key to making good decisions on > how to evaluate and manage a certain cave or karst feature. This attention to > minutia allowed him to discover one of the tiniest and probably rarest > spiders in Texas in a Williamson County cave. > > As a generalist, I could count on him for pretty much whatever was needed on > our team. Once I asked him to bring his rifle for a karst evaluation. He > thought I was joking but I assured him I serious. When we met in the field, > we walked to an abandoned well that I needed to assess with my downhole > camera, except that a rock was jammed in the well bore about 7 m down. Three > shots from his rifle down the well shattered the rock and allowed us to look > with the camera into a cave, which remains unexplored for lack of a humanly > accessible entrance. Check out the attached photo. > > I find myself at the moment on the wrong side of the planet to go visit him > in the hospital and tell him how much I appreciate his friendship and > comradery. Perhaps more sad is that like with too many lost friends, we make > time for final goodbyes at bedsides and funerals when it is too late, and not > when they are alive and well to truly appreciate our words. The last time we > saw each other, I knew I needed to visit with him more. It had been too long, > but there was always "tomorrow." > > Lee Jay's final lesson to me and many us may be to remind us that sometimes > there are no tomorrows, and to let those you care about know today how you > feel. > > Thank you LJ, > > George > > > George Veni, PhD > Executive Director, National Cave and Karst Research Institute (NCKRI) > and > President, International Union of Speleology (UIS) > > NCKRI address (primary) > 400-1 Cascades Avenue > Carlsbad, New Mexico 88220 USA > Office: +575-887-5517 > Mobile: +210-863-5919 > Fax: +575-887-5523 > gv...@nckri.org > www.nckri.org > > UIS address > Titov trg 2 > Postojna, 6230, Slovenia > www.uis-speleo.org > > -Original Message- > From: Texascavers On Behalf Of Justin > Shaw > Sent: Friday, November 23, 2018 18:33 > To: CaveTex > Subject: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital > > Lee Jay Graves has suffered a massive stroke with subarachnoid bleeding. His > condition continues to deteriorate and he is not expected to recover. > > If you would like to visit him he is at the main St. David’s hospital on 32nd > St. here in Austin. He is on the 5th floor, room 555. Nurses recommend coming > tonight or early tomorrow. There are no restrictions on visiting hours. > Though he seems unresponsive, the sense of hearing is often the last to go. > > His family is aware, and his sisters are in route and expected to arrive > tonight or early tomorrow morning. > > If you would like details, I’m willing to talk on the phone. 512-593-2283 > > With Love, > Justin > > > > (apologies for such a heavy post, however when you’ve touched as many lives > as LJ did, there’s too many people who’ll want to be in the loop for me to > even think of everyone, much less directly contact everyone) > > ___ > Texascavers mailing list | http://texascavers.com Texascavers@texascavers.com > | Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/texascavers@texascavers.com/ > http://lists.texascavers.com/listinfo/texascavers > > ___ > Texascavers mailing list | http://texascavers.com > Texascavers@texascavers.com | Archives: > http://www.mail-archive.com/texascavers@texascavers.com/ > http://lists.texascavers.com/listinfo/texascavers > ___ > Texascavers mailing list | http://texascavers.com > Texascavers@texascavers.com | Archives: > http://www.mail-archive.com/texascavers@texascavers.com/ > http://lists.texascavers.com/listinfo/texascavers ___