Re: [TMIC] Re: [QUAD-L] 35 year anniversary

2009-08-01 Thread JHarper33
Jude, looking back at the posts preceding your  comments, none of them were 
on the TMIC. The address listed on them is _quad-l...@eskimo.com_ 
(mailto:quad-l...@eskimo.com) , not the TMIC address. Did  you inadvertently 
subscribe to the Quad list and get it confused with the TMIC? 
 
And don't you even think about going anywhere. You are a vital  part of the 
TMIC. You made a mistake, apologized, and asked forgiveness -- now  just 
receive it, let's put all this behind us, and move on.
 
There will likely be more comments as too often  people will read the first 
note in a thread and respond before seeing that  the issue has been 
resolved, but if they keep reading they'll see that it  has. 
 
Barbara H.
_http://barbarah.wordpress.com_ (http://barbarah.wordpress.com) 
 
 
In a message dated 8/1/2009 1:06:37 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time,  
heyjude48...@aol.com writes:
 
 
 
Will you people whom do not have  TM along with being  quads  please 
create a site of your own  and use it.  You are breaking into a site for people 
who have a  disease called Transverse Myelitis, and unless you have it, I 
feel you  ought not be here because you will never understand the things we 
talk  about.  Some of the topics you will be able to relate to, simply  
because you are paralyzed or have a similar disability, but you ought to  
create a 
site for Quads all of your own.
 
I am sorry for saying these  things.  I wish I didn't feel the way I do.  
Those of you with  Transverse Myelitis, stay...the rest of you, please begin 
your own web  site and do not clutter up the TM Site.  It very well may 
confuse a  person with new TM who needs a place to go to find solace, to vent 
their  anger, to find the exact same people who have the same problems as they 
 do.  
 
This a TRANSVERSE MYELITIS  site...not simply for paraplegics, 
quadriplegics, or people with  diseases similar to ours.  Unless you have 
Transverse 
Myelitis, you  do not belong here.
 
I am sorry that I feel this  way.  I don't even know why I feel so strongly 
about this.  It  seems that I am the only person on our site who feels this 
way since no  once has written in to back me up.
 
Regardless, I feel that you  ought to have your own site and that means 
that it is time for you to  create your own site, and move on.;  Please respect 
our  site.
 
Thank you  quads,
I love  you,
Jude...Wait a minute.  I just went back to see where you had  
addressed your email and it is addressed to a site that is not this  one.  I 
wonder why all of your mail is being sent to out  site.?  
 
Please accept my apology for all  of the things I have said.  I am so 
sorry.  Why didn't one of  you come on board to correct me? 
 
With my deepest  regrets,
Jude, (big  mouth)
 
In a message dated 7/28/2009 3:53:14 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,  
lilroamin...@verizon.net writes:


Hey Dana  quadriplegics on 35 yrs. I'm only at 10yrs July 31. I, too, have  
been pretty healthy.( I'm a c6-7 quad. I can't stay still  for long plus I 
do get in a manual as often as possible mainly  for excercise and to keep my 
weight down. I went from 205 to 125  now holding at 130. I've broken my 
right leg 3 times ( shoot  almost can't keep count) LOL Mainly from trying 
things, but if  you don't try, how will you know if you can, right.) For those  
of you who don't know me.
By the way I'm about to be a  grandma, my daughter is 7 mos and its a girl 
(woohoo) I'm so  excited.
 
Oh Dana by the way What I'm  worried the most about the medicare/medicaid 
is they  (government)want to stop in-home care.
One thing I have heard is The  Governor of Texas is really looking into the 
healthcare, like he  did the stimulus thing. He didn't take all the money 
only enough  to help the unemployment and welfare n few other things. What I  
don't understand with the Healthcare is with its hard enough  with getting 
things with medicare/ medicaid I hope and pray  they don't screw it up worse.
 
Regina

Life's greatest  accomplishments are those that at first seem impossible  
and
No one can know what they can do until they  try.

--- On Mon, 7/27/09, dav...@aol.com  dav...@aol.com wrote:



From:  dav...@aol.com dav...@aol.com
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L]  35 year anniversary
To: quad-l...@eskimo.com
Date:  Monday, July 27, 2009, 10:25 AM


congrats on being a tuff ol' goat  DAANO.  I've  had only one close call 
with a uti -  I've been unusually  healthy since 5-24-1967.  yupper 42 years.  
(I had  to think for a minute of the exact date - that's gotta tell  you 
something )  looks like this sci stuff isn't nearly  as deadly as one might 
think.
azdave
 
Young people  talk of the future because they have no past, 
while old  people talk of the past because they have no future. 
_Dave  Patty's Grandkids_ (http://ocgrands.com/)   

 
In a message dated 7/27/2009 7:28:02 A.M. US Mountain  Standard Time, 
daa...@aol.com writes:

I can't believe I made it to my 35 th year  anniversary.  My parents were 
told after each  

Re: [TMIC] Re: [QUAD-L] 35 year anniversary

2009-08-01 Thread Laurie Zissimos

 Heyjude - I've only been a TM for 3 yrs and have been reading the emails for a 
couple of weeks deciding whether or not I want to join in.?? I've been quite 
surprised by some of the things I've read and applaud you even though you were 
slightly off point.? Maybe someone can tell me what I am missing because so far 
this site seems like a fraternity with way too many personal messages clogging 
up the email cyber waves.? Curious?? lz


 


 

-Original Message-
From: heyjude48...@aol.com
To: lilroamin...@verizon.net; TMIC-List@eskimo.com
Sent: Sat, Aug 1, 2009 1:05 am
Subject: [TMIC] Re: [QUAD-L] 35 year anniversary


















  

  



  

  
Will you people whom do not have 
  TM along with being? quads? please create a site of your own 
  and use it.? You are breaking into a site for people who have a 
  disease called Transverse Myelitis, and unless you have it, I feel you 
  ought not be here because you will never understand the things we talk 
  about.? Some of the topics you will be able to relate to, simply 
  because you are paralyzed or have a similar disability, but you ought to 
  create a site for Quads all of your own.

  
?

  
I am sorry for saying these 
  things.? I wish I didn't feel the way I do.? Those of you with 
  Transverse Myelitis, stay...the rest of you, please begin your own web 
  site and do not clutter up the TM Site.? It very well may confuse a 
  person with new TM who needs a place to go to find solace, to vent their 
  anger, to find the exact same people who have the same problems as they 
  do.? 

  
?

  
This a TRANSVERSE MYELITIS 
  site...not simply for paraplegics, quadriplegics, or people with diseases 
  similar to ours.? Unless you have Transverse Myelitis, you do not 
  belong here.

  
?

  
I am sorry that I feel this 
  way.? I don't even know why I feel so strongly about this.? It 
  seems that I am the only person on our site who feels this way since no 
  once has written in to back me up.

  
?

  
Regardless, I feel that you ought 
  to have your own site and that means that it is time for you to create 
  your own site, and move on.;? Please respect our 
  site.

  
?

  
Thank you 
  quads,

  
I love you,

  
Jude...Wait a minute.? I just went back to see where you had 
  addressed your email and it is addressed to a site that is not this 
  one.? I wonder why all of your mail is being sent to out site.?? 
  

  
?

  
Please accept my apology for all 
  of the things I have said.? I am so sorry.? Why didn't one of 
  you come on board to correct me? 

  
?

  
With my deepest 
  regrets,

  
Jude, (big 
  mouth)

  

  
In a message dated 7/28/2009 3:53:14 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, 
  lilroamin...@verizon.net writes:

  



  

  



  

Hey Dana 
  quadriplegics on 35 yrs. I'm only at 10yrs July 31. I, too, have 
  been pretty healthy.( I'm a c6-7 quad.?I can't stay still for 
  long plus I do get in a manual as often as possible mainly for 
  excercise and to keep my weight down. I went from 205 to 125 now 
  holding at 130. I've broken my right leg 3 times ( shoot almost 
  can't keep count) LOL Mainly from trying things, but if you don't 
  try, how will you know if you can, right.) For those of you who 
  don't know me.

  
By the way I'm about to be a 
  grandma, my daughter is 7 mos and its a girl (woohoo) I'm so 
  excited.

  
?

  
Oh Dana by the way What I'm worried 
  the most about the?medicare/medicaid?is they 
  (government)want to stop in-home care.

  
One thing I have heard is The 
  Governor of Texas is really looking into the healthcare, like he 
  did the stimulus thing. He didn't take all the money only enough 
  to help the unemployment and welfare n few other things. What I 
  don't understand with the Healthcare is with its hard enough with 
  getting things with medicare/ medicaid?I hope and pray they 
  don't screw it up worse.

  
?

  
Regina

  

Life's greatest 
  accomplishments are those that at first seem impossible and
No 
  one can know what they can do until they try.

--- On 
  Mon, 7/27/09, dav...@aol.com dav...@aol.com 
  wrote:


  

From: 
dav...@aol.com dav...@aol.com
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] 
35 year anniversary
To: quad-l...@eskimo.com
Date: Monday, 
July 27, 2009, 10:25 AM





congrats

[TMIC] Re: [QUAD-L] 35 year anniversary

2009-07-31 Thread Heyjude48458
 
 
Will you people whom do not have  TM along with being  quads  please 
create a site of your own  and use it.  You are breaking into a site for people 
who have a  disease called Transverse Myelitis, and unless you have it, I 
feel you  ought not be here because you will never understand the things we 
talk  about.  Some of the topics you will be able to relate to, simply  
because you are paralyzed or have a similar disability, but you ought to  
create a 
site for Quads all of your own.
 
I am sorry for saying these  things.  I wish I didn't feel the way I do.  
Those of you with  Transverse Myelitis, stay...the rest of you, please begin 
your own web  site and do not clutter up the TM Site.  It very well may 
confuse a  person with new TM who needs a place to go to find solace, to vent 
their  anger, to find the exact same people who have the same problems as they 
 do.  
 
This a TRANSVERSE MYELITIS  site...not simply for paraplegics, 
quadriplegics, or people with diseases  similar to ours.  Unless you have 
Transverse 
Myelitis, you do not  belong here.
 
I am sorry that I feel this  way.  I don't even know why I feel so strongly 
about this.  It  seems that I am the only person on our site who feels this 
way since no  once has written in to back me up.
 
Regardless, I feel that you ought  to have your own site and that means 
that it is time for you to create  your own site, and move on.;  Please respect 
our  site.
 
Thank you  quads,
I love you,
Jude...Wait a minute.  I just went back to see where you had  
addressed your email and it is addressed to a site that is not this  one.  I 
wonder why all of your mail is being sent to out site.?   

Please accept my apology for all  of the things I have said.  I am so 
sorry.  Why didn't one of  you come on board to correct me? 
 
With my deepest  regrets,
Jude, (big  mouth)
 
In a message dated 7/28/2009 3:53:14 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,  
lilroamin...@verizon.net writes:


Hey Dana  quadriplegics on 35 yrs. I'm only at 10yrs July 31. I, too, have  
been pretty healthy.( I'm a c6-7 quad. I can't stay still for  long plus I 
do get in a manual as often as possible mainly for  excercise and to keep my 
weight down. I went from 205 to 125 now  holding at 130. I've broken my 
right leg 3 times ( shoot almost  can't keep count) LOL Mainly from trying 
things, but if you don't  try, how will you know if you can, right.) For those 
of you who  don't know me.
By the way I'm about to be a  grandma, my daughter is 7 mos and its a girl 
(woohoo) I'm so  excited.
 
Oh Dana by the way What I'm worried  the most about the medicare/medicaid 
is they  (government)want to stop in-home care.
One thing I have heard is The  Governor of Texas is really looking into the 
healthcare, like he  did the stimulus thing. He didn't take all the money 
only enough  to help the unemployment and welfare n few other things. What I  
don't understand with the Healthcare is with its hard enough with  getting 
things with medicare/ medicaid I hope and pray they  don't screw it up worse.
 
Regina

Life's greatest  accomplishments are those that at first seem impossible and
No  one can know what they can do until they try.

--- On  Mon, 7/27/09, dav...@aol.com dav...@aol.com  wrote:



From:  dav...@aol.com dav...@aol.com
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L]  35 year anniversary
To: quad-l...@eskimo.com
Date: Monday,  July 27, 2009, 10:25 AM


congrats on being a tuff ol' goat  DAANO.  I've  had only one close call 
with a uti -  I've been unusually  healthy since 5-24-1967.  yupper 42 years.  
(I had to  think for a minute of the exact date - that's gotta tell you  
something )  looks like this sci stuff isn't nearly as  deadly as one might 
think.
azdave
 
Young people  talk of the future because they have no past, 
while old  people talk of the past because they have no future. 
_Dave  Patty's Grandkids_ (http://ocgrands.com/)   

 
In a message dated 7/27/2009 7:28:02 A.M. US Mountain  Standard Time, 
daa...@aol.com writes:

I can't believe I made it to my 35 th year  anniversary.  My parents were 
told after each  hospitalization I might not make.  It seems I was strong  
enough to defeat their predictions even though I appeared to  be weak at the 
time.  I was given a tracheostomy after  each of my surgeries, but it was 
removed before I came  home.  I had so many long hospitalizations trying to get 
 off the ventilator and over pneumonia.  I was given  another tracheostomy 
during a pneumonia in 88, which they  changed to a trach button before I 
left the  hospital.  It has  kept me out of the hospital  except for a UTI that 
got into my bloodstream causing a coma  for 13 days.  I had a  pneumonia 
last year.   The trach buttonallows me to get over the bronchitis at  home.  I 
didn't want it, but it turned out to be a good  thing for me and not very 
noticeable.  It is mostly  capped, unless I have a lot allergies or 
congestion and might  need suctioned as needed.  It is easy