Re: [XFree86] Re: Mailing list behaviour and etiquette, in general

2003-07-11 Thread gabe f
Not advocating change, just criticizing something that essentially
creates unnecessary traffic, like your criticism?
On Friday, July 11, 2003, at 12:30 AM, Jay R. Ashworth wrote:

On Fri, Jul 11, 2003 at 01:33:10AM -0400, Mike A. Harris wrote:

As such, it is extremely pointless to demand that a given list
should change it's policy on this issue, regardless of what
datapoints you'd like to raise.  You won't raise even a single
datapoint that the list maintainers, and the majority of
subscribers are not already fully 100% aware of.  They just
disagree with you, and are not likely to change their line of
thinking no matter how much you disagree or how big of a flamewar
you'd like to make about it.  The best you can do, is agree to
disagree and then move on to another topic - or unsubscribe.
Pretty sure that I did *not* advocate *this list* changing anything, 
Mike.

Go re-check the thread.

Was merely expressing an opinion.

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Re: [XFree86] Re: Mailing list behaviour and etiquette, in general

2003-07-10 Thread Jay R. Ashworth
On Fri, Jul 11, 2003 at 01:33:10AM -0400, Mike A. Harris wrote:
> The bare fact is, that reply-to munging flamewar threads have
> occured on mailing lists since the first days that reply-to
> munging started happening.  I must have been on at least 200 if
> not 500 mailing lists which have had this exact same flamewar,
> and not just once, but several times a year/month, and it creeps
> back up again occasionally.  Not just on lists like this one
> which set Reply-to to the list, but also on lists that *dont*,
> where people are arguing that the list *should*.

I see the former all the time, as to you.

I've only ever seen the latter, maybe twice in 15 years.

I'd actually be fairly interested to see the relative percentages.

> Regardless of what *any* one person or 500 people think, this is
> a completely preferential and controversial issue.  As
> controversial as abortion, capital punishment, vi vs. emacs, or 
> whatever your favourite 50/50 split flamewar is.

Given safety (which is, admittedly, only an accurate description of the
benefit gained on certain types of mailing lists) versus convenience (which
is how *I* describe making easier for users something their *MUA* should be
making easier for them instead), it seems to be as obvious to me as the
smoking in bars issue -- for the smokers, it's only convenience, they're
gonna die of lung cancer *anyway*... but the non-smokers *weren't*. 

It isn't just the convenience issue the smokers paint it as, and they're
trumped.

> The bottom line, is that 50/50 split flamewars (or any ratio from 
> about 40/60 to 60/40 or so) end up almost always in the end, 
> or at least 99.9% of the time ending with no list change 
> occuring.  Changing behaviour pisses off more people than it 
> pleases, in particular if a list has had a certain behaviour for 
> a long time.

*That* I can't argue with.

> As such, it is extremely pointless to demand that a given list
> should change it's policy on this issue, regardless of what
> datapoints you'd like to raise.  You won't raise even a single
> datapoint that the list maintainers, and the majority of
> subscribers are not already fully 100% aware of.  They just
> disagree with you, and are not likely to change their line of
> thinking no matter how much you disagree or how big of a flamewar
> you'd like to make about it.  The best you can do, is agree to 
> disagree and then move on to another topic - or unsubscribe.

Pretty sure that I did *not* advocate *this list* changing anything, Mike.

Go re-check the thread.

Was merely expressing an opinion.

> Regardless of how a particular mailing list is ran with respect 
> to Reply-To, _anyone_ who is bothered by a given list's policy, 
> can easily change it on their end to suit their own preference.  

Well, not always.  *This* list permits user set RT's to go through, but some
lists do *not*, and in that case, your assertion is incorrect.

> If you prefer Reply-To to point back to the mailing list, but the 
> list does not do that, a simple procmail filter which moves any 
> existing Reply-To to Cc, and puts the list address from From: or 
> another header into the Reply-To will accomplish that (that's 
> what I do).

Note that the issue here is "what does my message get to *list subscribers*
with a RT set to?" -- an item I *cannot* control if the list doesn't permit
it.

I don't mind having my opinion ignored on this topic on lists... but let's
all be clear, shall we?

> If you prefer Reply-To: never replying to the list, then have 
> procmail strip out the Reply-To: header, and optionally munge 
> From: or CC: to Reply-To to simulate putting it back.

Why would I want to bother?  If I could run procmail, I'd just run mutt (or,
likely, one of the KDE mailers which probably also get it right) and not
worry about it.

> One thing is fairly certain however - you are very unlikely to
> to change long term list policies/preferences to your way of 
> doing things via flamewar, and not likely via any other 
> mechanism, so just deal with it, or unsubscribe.

Wasn't staring a flameware, Mike; not real pleased that you're trying to cast
me as *having* tried to start one...

and since the original question was "is there an automated way to make sure
the querent gets an answer" and *I've answered that twice, with an offer of
code and been ignored*, I reserve the right to be cranky for being bitched at
about the issue.

'k?

Cheers,
-- jra
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[XFree86] Re: Mailing list behaviour and etiquette, in general

2003-07-10 Thread Mike A. Harris
On Thu, 10 Jul 2003, Jay R. Ashworth wrote:

>category.  Munging the RT violates the Principle of Least Astonishment rather
>thoroughly, so even if it's a miswart, it's still worthy to be pointed out.

Personally, not that it matters at all in any way, but I prefer 
lists that do Reply-to pointing back to the list.  I wont go into 
my reasons, as they're identical to the reasoning of everyone 
else who prefers it this way.

The bare fact is, that reply-to munging flamewar threads have
occured on mailing lists since the first days that reply-to
munging started happening.  I must have been on at least 200 if
not 500 mailing lists which have had this exact same flamewar,
and not just once, but several times a year/month, and it creeps
back up again occasionally.  Not just on lists like this one
which set Reply-to to the list, but also on lists that *dont*,
where people are arguing that the list *should*.

Regardless of what *any* one person or 500 people think, this is
a completely preferential and controversial issue.  As
controversial as abortion, capital punishment, vi vs. emacs, or 
whatever your favourite 50/50 split flamewar is.

The bottom line, is that 50/50 split flamewars (or any ratio from 
about 40/60 to 60/40 or so) end up almost always in the end, 
or at least 99.9% of the time ending with no list change 
occuring.  Changing behaviour pisses off more people than it 
pleases, in particular if a list has had a certain behaviour for 
a long time.

As such, it is extremely pointless to demand that a given list
should change it's policy on this issue, regardless of what
datapoints you'd like to raise.  You won't raise even a single
datapoint that the list maintainers, and the majority of
subscribers are not already fully 100% aware of.  They just
disagree with you, and are not likely to change their line of
thinking no matter how much you disagree or how big of a flamewar
you'd like to make about it.  The best you can do, is agree to 
disagree and then move on to another topic - or unsubscribe.

Regardless of how a particular mailing list is ran with respect 
to Reply-To, _anyone_ who is bothered by a given list's policy, 
can easily change it on their end to suit their own preference.  

If you prefer Reply-To to point back to the mailing list, but the 
list does not do that, a simple procmail filter which moves any 
existing Reply-To to Cc, and puts the list address from From: or 
another header into the Reply-To will accomplish that (that's 
what I do).

If you prefer Reply-To: never replying to the list, then have 
procmail strip out the Reply-To: header, and optionally munge 
From: or CC: to Reply-To to simulate putting it back.

One thing is fairly certain however - you are very unlikely to
to change long term list policies/preferences to your way of 
doing things via flamewar, and not likely via any other 
mechanism, so just deal with it, or unsubscribe.



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Mike A. Harris


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