[FairfieldLife] Re: More on Polyamory - For Those Who Care

2014-11-27 Thread s3raph...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
Re failed relationships gravitate to such arrangements. : Ann, that could be the case for some. I suspect another difference is how you view relationships at the fundamental level. If you think primarily in terms of physical satisfaction, maybe it makes good sense to have lots of partners; if

[FairfieldLife] Re: More on Polyamory - For Those Who Care

2014-11-27 Thread awoelfleba...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, s3raphita@... wrote : Re failed relationships gravitate to such arrangements. : Ann, that could be the case for some. I suspect another difference is how you view relationships at the fundamental level. If you think primarily in terms of physical

[FairfieldLife] Re: More on Polyamory - For Those Who Care

2014-11-26 Thread steve.sun...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
I think I'm ready to call it a cult. I'd say it definitely has a nudist camp, swinger vibe to it, this noble bill of rights, notwithstanding. (-: Maybe the rule of 3's does apply. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote : Values[edit

[FairfieldLife] Re: More on Polyamory - For Those Who Care

2014-11-26 Thread s3raph...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
Re Polyamorists cite the human tendency towards jealousy and possessiveness as major hurdles in polyamory, and also as personal limitations to overcome.: Good luck with that one. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote : Values[edit

[FairfieldLife] Re: More on Polyamory - For Those Who Care

2014-11-26 Thread steve.sun...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
the advocates are quite open about these issues, and how they deal with them. but it appears that much work is needed to overcome issues along these lines which inevitably come up. and then, after you work to resolve one issue along these lines, the same, or similar issue may come up, a

[FairfieldLife] Re: More on Polyamory - For Those Who Care

2014-11-26 Thread s3raph...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
I have very much a live and let live attitude. For *me* (just little old me) this whole scenario wouldn't tempt me as what they call possessiveness I would see as loyalty. Different strokes for different folks. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote : the

[FairfieldLife] Re: More on Polyamory - For Those Who Care

2014-11-26 Thread steve.sun...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
Don't we all, for the most part, have that same attitude, live and let live Fidelity in a relationship is important, even if it's not easy. You can call fidelity, possessiveness, but for most people, it just won't fly. We know what is fidelity, and we know is possessiveness. But if

[FairfieldLife] Re: More on Polyamory - For Those Who Care

2014-11-26 Thread awoelfleba...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote : I think I'm ready to call it a cult. I'd say it definitely has a nudist camp, swinger vibe to it, this noble bill of rights, notwithstanding. (-: Maybe the rule of 3's does apply. I think those that have had

[FairfieldLife] Re: More on polyamory

2013-02-15 Thread Richard J. Williams
turquoiseb: Since I'm having fun rapping about this subject, and because I suspect it'll push a few buttons here ( and you know how I love that :-), So, it's all about sex, Uncle Tantra. LoL! I'll continue to use up my posts for this week early before heading into Amsterdam for the

[FairfieldLife] Re: More on polyamory

2013-02-15 Thread obbajeeba
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=agLGiMBqbPE --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Richard J. Williams richard@... wrote: turquoiseb: Since I'm having fun rapping about this subject, and because I suspect it'll push a few buttons here ( and you know how I love that :-), So, it's