Re: [Gendergap] Calling all neutral user names She?

2011-09-08 Thread Emily Monroe
I've been both mistaken for a male, and usually kind-hardheartedly teased for being female ever since, I believe, I got on the internet. So yeah. I'm not even embarrassed about it anymore. From, Emily On Thu, Sep 8, 2011 at 2:19 PM, wrote: > I used to use they, but with all these "she's" late

Re: [Gendergap] Calling all neutral user names She?

2011-09-08 Thread carolmooredc
I used to use they, but with all these "she's" lately, and some editors calling her "he", I thought... why not. Someone mentioned privately http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender-neutral_pronoun#Modern_solutions So options is best way to go, and let nature take its course as what seems most appro

Re: [Gendergap] Calling all neutral user names She?

2011-09-08 Thread Daniel and Elizabeth Case
> Feel free. I'm going to continue to use "they", which usually fits > without violating gender grammar too much. I use "they" when referring to the third person of a gender-unknown someone I'm not expecting to join the conversation and "s/he" when I am (possibly as a prod to clarification on sa

Re: [Gendergap] Calling all neutral user names She?

2011-09-08 Thread Fred Bauder
> Having just now read through a long paragraph on ANI of a user saying > he or she and him or her about an editor, I say, for less complexities > sake, let's do it. See what happens. Feel free. I'm going to continue to use "they", which usually fits without violating gender grammar too much. Fr

Re: [Gendergap] Calling all neutral user names She?

2011-09-08 Thread Sarah Stierch
I'm game. This will be fun, especially with my pals on Commons ;-) Sent via iPhone - I apologize in advance for my shortness or errors! :) On Sep 8, 2011, at 1:27 PM, carolmoor...@verizon.net wrote: > Having just now read through a long paragraph on ANI of a user saying he or > she and him or

Re: [Gendergap] Calling all neutral user names She?

2011-09-08 Thread carolmooredc
Having just now read through a long paragraph on ANI of a user saying he or she and him or her about an editor, I say, for less complexities sake, let's do it. See what happens. On 9/8/2011 12:48 PM, Sarah Stierch wrote: I actually would love to follow the reactions of people when you call th

Re: [Gendergap] Calling all neutral user names She?

2011-09-08 Thread Sarah Stierch
I actually would love to follow the reactions of people when you call them "she" and you're wrong. How would they reply? Kaldari says he's been called "she" a number of times! :) Sarah On Thu, Sep 8, 2011 at 12:37 PM, wrote: > Recently two users I thought were he's turned out to be she's. And

[Gendergap] Calling all neutral user names She?

2011-09-08 Thread carolmooredc
Recently two users I thought were he's turned out to be she's. And then I identified a user with a neutral sounding name as a he - though looking again at name, probably is a she. Then it occurred to me, why assume they are male anyway? Why not call all neutral user names she from now on? He