[Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS

2005-07-04 Thread George Pinto
Why are so many married men reading the Cybermatrimonials in such detail? Most of those who have commented on the 'RC Brahmin' [SIC] post are married men. Hmmm. ;-))) Regards, George

[Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS

2005-07-05 Thread luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC Brahmin", now what would you say for the advertisements that appears in local newspapers for recruitment's in Government Services. Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is Govt

[Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS

2005-07-06 Thread Frederick Noronha (FN)
Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied -- and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN > Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC > Brahmin", now what would you say for the > advertisements that appe

[Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS

2005-07-06 Thread luis rodrigues
I don't agree to this. The discrimination were meted out to the ancestors of SC/ST. But why the benefit is given to the present generation. And if the discrimination were carried out by the RC Brahmin for those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new generation of RC Brahmin. You visit a

[Goanet]re: cybermatrimonials

2005-07-08 Thread Eugene Correia
Can't understand the hullabaloo over mention of caste in cybermatrimonials. If one puts an ad asking for particular caste, the person is within his/her rights. Maybe the person wants to marrying within his/her caste. Banning of adverts requesting that prospective partners meet the requirements is n

[Goanet]Re: cybermatrimonials

2005-07-08 Thread George Pinto
--- halur rasho <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > In the US most personals have a race preference, for example a woman may > describe herself > as SWF (single white female) seeking a SWM (single white male). Are such > people racists? No. Race is a biological construct and if it is not used to discr

[Goanet]Re: cybermatrimonials

2005-07-09 Thread George Pinto
--- halur rasho <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > First, caste is, like it or not, a part of Hinduism. If it has no legitimate > basis in religion, > as you say, you would have to convert every indian hindu to islam or > catholiscism. Ready to take > on the task, King George? I have heard a number o

[Goanet]Re: cybermatrimonials

2005-07-09 Thread George Pinto
Which one is it? If it is a part of Hinduism as you write below, then is the 'establishment' as you also write below violating Hinduism by trying to 'erode caste'. Is the establishment anti-Hindu? --- halur rasho <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > First, caste is, like it or not, a part of Hinduism

[Goanet]Re: cybermatrimonials

2005-07-10 Thread Eugene Correia
Can't understand the hullabaloo over mention of caste in cybermatrimonials. If one puts an ad asking for particular caste, the person is within his/her rights. Maybe the person wants to marrying within his/her caste. Banning of adverts requesting that prospective partners meet the requirements i

[Goanet] Re: *** CYBERMATRIMONIALS

2006-05-03 Thread rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr eeeeeeeeeeee
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Re: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS

2005-07-05 Thread Gabe Menezes
On 05/07/05, George Pinto <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Why are so many married men reading the Cybermatrimonials in such detail? > Most of those who have > commented on the 'RC Brahmin' [SIC] post are married men. > > Hmmm. ;-))) > > Regards, > George RESPONSE: I was thinking the same ;-)

Re: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS

2005-07-06 Thread halur rasho
Are you serious? Reservation for scheduled caste/tribes is to undo (in a small way) for discrimination they suffered for centuries. A Brahmin who proclaims his caste as a sign of superiority is indulging in discrimination, albeit with much less effect today. As for the strange hybrid known as RC Br

RE: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS

2005-07-06 Thread Cip Fernandes
Whatever, STOP POSTING IMMEDIATELY CYBERMATRIMONIALS MENTIONING THEIR CASTES Cip UK -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of Frederick Noronha (FN) Sent: 06 July 2005 07:46 To: goanet@goanet.org Subject: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS Do we accept

Re: [Goanet]re: cybermatrimonials

2005-07-08 Thread halur rasho
In the US most personals have a race preference, for example a woman may describe herself as SWF (single white female) seeking a SWM(single white male). Are such people racists? --- Eugene Correia <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Can't understand the hullabaloo over mention of > caste > in cybermatri

Re: [Goanet]Re: cybermatrimonials

2005-07-09 Thread halur rasho
Your knowledge of the indian scene is rather poor! Read a good work on caste . First, caste is, like it or not, a part of Hinduism. If it has no legitimate basis in religion, as you say,you would have to convert every indian hindu to islam or catholiscism. Ready to take on the task, King George? Bu

Re: [Goanet]Re: cybermatrimonials

2005-07-09 Thread halur rasho
Before making sweeping statements , which can betray your ignorance of the topic, perhaps studying the caste system might be helpful? Its origins are very much racial. Today with all the inter-mixing , one cannot tell, but its origins are indeed racial. It is like the blond haired german or russian

Re: [Goanet]Re: cybermatrimonials

2005-07-09 Thread halur rasho
Hindusim is to be defined by 'white' hindus? caste is institutionalised in Hinduism. If you do not know this , you know very little about India. Catholicism is rooted in european history and european social practices, just as hinduism is rooted in indian history and social practices. This is just t

RE: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS - Institutional casteism

2005-07-07 Thread Bernado Colaco
Luis has made some interesting comments on the caste issue. In 61 Goans were supposed to have been emancipated from the caste. Education was for all. But why do the puppets allocate areas for the caste system? Is this not institutional casteism? Where is the anti-Portuguese lobby now? Do they h

Re: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS - Institutional casteism

2005-07-08 Thread cornel
hursday, July 07, 2005 3:29 AM Subject: RE: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS - Institutional casteism Luis has made some interesting comments on the caste issue. In 61 Goans were supposed to have been emancipated from the caste. Education was for all. But why do the puppets allocate areas for the caste

Re: [Goanet]re: cybermatrimonials (and caste)

2005-07-08 Thread Viviana
I agree with Eugene and find Halur's point interesting. Does anyone really believe that a mother from a SC/ST would actively look for an RC Goan Brahmin for her daughter?? Don't you think she'd look around for someone within her own ethnic/cultural/racial group? Presuming that she does want som

[Goanet]Re: Cybermatrimonials * Valentine Day 2005

2005-02-14 Thread George Pinto
Hi Fred Thanks for including my Valentine Day story below in the Cybermatrimonial column. (I changed it to V-DAY Musings from Museum which you had earlier - seemingly an error). In any case, to those of you who did not figure it out, the story is fictional (including all the names) and I am n

[Goanet]RE: CYBERMATRIMONIALS and Goan RC Brahmin spinster

2005-07-05 Thread Alfred de Tavares
>From: Aloysius D'Souza <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >If "caste & community no bar" why does she specify that she is >"Brahmin" > Elementary, my dear Aloysius, quite so... Being a conscientious young lady she refuses to become a victim of inverted discrimination: Far from flaunting the caste whic