Re: Miriam's Song

2003-02-21 Thread Eliezer Kaplan
Since (the text of) Miriam's song echoes verse 1 of the chapter, one may speculate that there was call and response between the men and the women.                                     ek   - Original Message - From: Marvin Margoshes To: World music from a Jewish slant

Re: Miriam's Song

2003-02-21 Thread Marvin Margoshes
  - Original Message - From: Sam Weiss To: World music from a Jewish slant Sent: Friday, February 21, 2003 2:51 PM Subject: Miriam's Song At 02:26 PM 2/21/03, Fred Blumenthal wrote: Is there scripture saying that the Hebrew men excused themselves when M

Re: here we go again....

2003-02-21 Thread Sam Weiss
At 12:46 AM 2/21/03, Judith R Cohen wrote: I was brought up to see Judaism as full of adult choices and one's own concscience. That is indeed one of several approaches to Judaism. A much older understanding has it that adults face an overwhelming range of choices, and that in a healthy human bein

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Jordan Hirsch
Title: Re: kol isha in action on 2/21/03 11:53 AM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] at [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: There is no question but that someone decided to make policies that had not been considered and made my the committee that organized the benefit.  Obviously, they need to sit down together and decid

Re: Miriam's Song

2003-02-21 Thread MaxwellSt
In a message dated 2/21/2003 2:07:29 PM Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Fred, that's an argument for the wrong side of the debate. Yes, Miriam's singing was clearly only for the women. Exodus 15:20-21. Debbie Friedman's song makes a nice female celebration out of it: And the w

My latest record column

2003-02-21 Thread George Robinson
Khaverim -- I hate to interrupt the quarterly renewal of the kol isha battle -- and I won't bore you with a repetition of my position on it -- but my latest record column, which has only been sitting on my editor's desk since the beginning of December (I love this business) is viewable at: htt

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Eliezer Kaplan
I apologize if you found it condescending- it was meant to be funny. - Original Message - From: "avi finegold" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "World music from a Jewish slant" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Friday, February 21, 2003 10:19 AM Subject: Re: kol isha in action > > --- Eliezer Kaplan <[E

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Eliezer Kaplan
Rabbi's tend to be more lenient in cases of d'rabbanan- for example, safek d'rabbana l'kula (in the case of a doubt regarding a rabbinic prohibition, the ruling goes towards leniency). But this isn't the place for that discussion. - Original Message - From: "avi finegold" <[EMAIL PROTECTE

Miriam's Song

2003-02-21 Thread Sam Weiss
At 02:26 PM 2/21/03, Fred Blumenthal wrote: Is there scripture saying that the Hebrew men excused themselves when Miriam sang by the sea of reeds? Fred, that's an argument for the wrong side of the debate. Yes, Miriam's singing was clearly only for the women. Exodus 15:20-21. __

Re: Kol Isha

2003-02-21 Thread avi finegold
--- Fred Blumenthal <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > I get the list in digest form, which is messy. I > suggest all posts NOT > contain the preceeding list, as most posts wind up > appearing numerous > times. And somehow, mixed into the discussion of > Kol Isha and the > accompanying extraneous H

Kol Isha

2003-02-21 Thread Fred Blumenthal
I get the list in digest form, which is messy.  I suggest all posts NOT contain the preceeding list, as most posts wind up appearing numerous times.  And somehow, mixed into the discussion of Kol Isha and the accompanying extraneous HTML clutter, appears "Love, Rosa Parks," numerous times.  I woul

RE: here we go again....

2003-02-21 Thread PHAB Music US
Please unsuscribe me from this list. Thank you for allowing me to be a part in the past. PHAB MUSIC US -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of avi finegold Sent: Friday, February 21, 2003 11:41 AM To: World music from a Jewish slant Subject: Re: here

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Ari Davidow
I think it is good that this discussion comes up periodically. It is a reminder to all of us of something that divides many of us, and of something that directly affects many of us. I have strong, not so tolerant feelings on the subject, myself, but they have already been well represented by ear

Re: NOA (Achinoam Nini) Tours the U.S. Feb 25 - March2

2003-02-21 Thread Judy Ginsburgh
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Re: NOA (Achinoam Nini) Tours the U.S. Feb 25 - March2

2003-02-21 Thread mendels
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Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread avi finegold
--- Bob Wiener <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > It seems to me that if a meal is part of the even, > especially if the simcha involves a seudat mitzvah > ("mitzvah meal") the early departure solution > typically creates the following problem: > Presence through the birkat hamazo

dancing for disabilities

2003-02-21 Thread Helen Winkler
I'm doing some programming tomorrow for teens with Down syndrome and have adapted a couple of Yiddish and Israeli dances for use with this group. I've also got a program of adapted wheel chair dances for people with mobility/cognitive disorders, which I use with work in a Jewish old age home. I

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread MaxwellSt
In a message dated 2/21/2003 11:40:14 AM Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: It seems to me that if a meal is part of the even, especially if the simcha involves a seudat mitzvah ("mitzvah meal") the early departure solution typically creates the following problem: Presence through t

NOA (Achinoam Nini) Tours the U.S. Feb 25 - March2

2003-02-21 Thread Musiconnections
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Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Bob Wiener
[EMAIL PROTECTED]   It seems to me that if a meal is part of the even, especially if the simcha involves a seudat mitzvah ("mitzvah meal") the early departure solution typically creates the following problem: Presence through the birkat hamazon ("grace after meals") (including, for example,

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread avi finegold
> still disagree, how is it that in certain cases we > can break rabbinic > law if we *have* to but we still avoid breaking > torah law? Examples of > this are equipment used in hospitals on shabbat > (monstly in israel), > another example is the electric wheelchair that my > friend can use on >

RE: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread avi finegold
--- Leonard Koenick <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > "in > this case some people cannot allow themselves > halachically to hear a woman singing and therefore a > concession must be made to ensure that no one will > feel uncomfortable." > > . > avi > > That's the same tired old argument that always c

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Alex Jacobowitz
B"H Munich > > > At what point does > > a speaking voice become singing? Where is the > line? > > hmmm thats actually a good one. NO, It´s a bad one! the definition is a woman´s VOICE (KOL ISHA), not her singing, though the two, I´m told, are linked. For crying out loud... Alex _

Re: Kol Isha: striking a balance

2003-02-21 Thread avi finegold
--- Bob Wiener <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > 3. Perhaps making even more sense, if the concern > for kol isha is really hearing the kol isha (and not > mar'at ayin -- the appearance to others present), > why not provide ear plugs? (If attendees observe > that they came to hear music, just not tha

Out of action

2003-02-21 Thread Alex Jacobowitz
B"H Munich A gitn Shabbos, yidn! Avraham Baruch __ Do you Yahoo!? Yahoo! Mail Plus - Powerful. Affordable. Sign up now. http://mailplus.yahoo.com -- [EMAIL PROTECTED] -+ Hosted by Shamash: The Jewish Network

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread avi finegold
Just don't do > > it on a list about Jewish Music. > > But that's what this point is about, Jordan--Jewish > Music. well at least we stand together on something Lori, i mean this is where jewish law and musical performance intersect, why shouldnt we talk about it > At what point does > a

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Marvin Margoshes
- Original Message - From: "avi finegold" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "World music from a Jewish slant" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Friday, February 21, 2003 11:26 AM Subject: Re: kol isha in action > > > > That is the esssence of my objection to the > > practice. A woman is hurt > > because

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread MaxwellSt
At the risk of making a very long thread even longer, I wish to mention that I wrote my comment on this subject without seeing that Lorele's original posting had to do with a public concert which was not under Orthodox sponsorship.  I need to ammend my last note accordingly. There is no question b

Re: striking a balance

2003-02-21 Thread avi finegold
--- [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > Lox & Vodka has performed at non-orthodox, private > functions where orthodox > Jews would be present. The food was kosher and the > men covered their heads. > We have been asked to hold off with any female > vocals or music that would > encourage mixed dancing

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Dan Jacobs
> --- Dan Jacobs <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > On Thu, 20 Feb 2003, avi finegold wrote: > > > > > all it says int he torah is that you should not > > cook a > > > kid in its mothers milk. > > > > Not true, it gives lists of Animals that are kosher > > and that are not, but > > I agree with your po

Re: here we go again....

2003-02-21 Thread avi finegold
ok your central point seems to be twofold, one that orthodox people who have a problem with these concerts should just stay away. i could not agree with you more. like i mentioned above i have always the seen the reponsability to fall on the male not to attend an event rather than a woman to not

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread avi finegold
> > That is the esssence of my objection to the > practice. A woman is hurt > because some men (not all) are sexually aroused by > the sound of a woman's > voice. It would be better to teach those men how to > control an > inappropriate emotion. > > > do you think that every issue of modesty

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread avi finegold
--- Eliezer Kaplan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > IMO in the isolated yeshivish communities of Europe > the prohibition may have had lots of relevance- God > knows what might happen to the poor yeshiva bochrim > should they get turned on. But in modern society IMO > the prohibition loses it's releva

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread avi finegold
--- Eliezer Kaplan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > according to orthodoxy nothing was created by a > human > > > > Disagree- there is a definite distinction in the > Orthodox tradition between > d'rabbanan (from the rabbi's) and d'oraitha (from > the written or oral > traditions). > > yes but

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread MaxwellSt
In a message dated 2/21/2003 10:07:21 AM Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Why is there "uncomfortness" more important that the uncomfortness of those who oppose it or are subjected to the discrimination? This is a discussion that comes up annually--maybe it would be good to archi

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread avi finegold
--- Lori Cahan-Simon <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Dan, I appreciate your attempt at lightening up the > situation, but the > fact is, that is what it comes down to. I could go > into why kashrut > made sense at the time it was developed, but I'm > really too tired since > I get up at 5:30 to g

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread avi finegold
--- Dan Jacobs <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > On Thu, 20 Feb 2003, avi finegold wrote: > > > all it says int he torah is that you should not > cook a > > kid in its mothers milk. > > Not true, it gives lists of Animals that are kosher > and that are not, but > I agree with your point, most of Kash

RE: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Leonard Koenick
"in this case some people cannot allow themselves halachically to hear a woman singing and therefore a concession must be made to ensure that no one will feel uncomfortable."

Re: here we go again....

2003-02-21 Thread Marvin Margoshes
- Original Message - From: "Judith R Cohen" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "World music from a Jewish slant" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Friday, February 21, 2003 12:46 AM Subject: here we go again > some > Orthodox rabbis might be there. No, they could not possibly have a > woman sing at th

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Jordan Hirsch
on 2/21/03 6:30 AM, Lori Cahan-Simon at [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: >> Not because they are illegitimate. Not because I follow the >> restrictions of Kol Isha(which I do not) . Simply because a discussion >> of a principle of Halacha, even one with admittedly various >> interpretations, is fruitless

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Jordan Hirsch
on 2/21/03 6:30 AM, Lori Cahan-Simon at [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: >> Don't assume you don't have to be upfront about who is in your group, > > I was merely the hired hand for this job, and not present at the > organizers' meeting, therefore not able to address any of this, and when > I attempted t

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Jordan Hirsch
on 2/21/03 6:30 AM, Lori Cahan-Simon at [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: >> Quite frankly, I think that Lori should find a feminist support group >> to vent her feelings. > > I don't think that was a necessary statement. I believe this is > absolutely the appropriate venue to discuss the issue. I know y

RE: striking a balance

2003-02-21 Thread Mel Korn
    I have been dismayed over the years at how readily we Jews will allow ourselves to treat each other with contempt and disrespect. I am very disappointed to see this happen on this list. I have not been around long enough to have witnessed this Kol Isha thread before, however I am dist

Kol Isha: striking a balance

2003-02-21 Thread Bob Wiener
Perhaps this attempt to strike a balance is something of a fool's goal, but at the risk of being called foolish once again... 1. A pre-announced program would facilitate the execution of the idea of having a time devoted to kol isha . 2. At some events it might make more sense to have kol is

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Lori Cahan-Simon
Jordan wrote: I really wish all those who have not been through the Kol Isha wars on this list would check the old postings if they are available and consult them. Just because we've discussed an issue before doesn't mean there isn't room for another. I remember every round we've had over the

striking a balance

2003-02-21 Thread LOXVODKA
LOX & VODKA Widely Acclaimed Klezmer, Jewish & American music group 202/966-7270 http://www.LoxVodka.com I am always struck by the intensity to which we react to kol isha.  It is a law that hits a raw nerve for so many people on both sides of the issue.  While I too have very strong feelings about

Re: kol isha - my last word on the subject

2003-02-21 Thread Sylvia Schildt
Hi Yosl and Peggy and all my friends on the list, Having calmed down myself -- I was incensed at the insult this was for such a talented, dedicated colleague -- I want to summarize. For us, it's really not a discussion as to the validity of rabbinic claims, etc. Let's leave that to those for w

here we go again....

2003-02-21 Thread Judith R Cohen
> some > Orthodox rabbis might be there. No, they could not possibly have a > woman sing at this event. I still am utterly mystified about why the Orthodox men, rabbis or otherwise, who feel they can't listen to a women's voice, can't just stay away from the event, mind their own business, and

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Joe Kurland and Peggy Davis
I think another principle involved is that of not embarassing a person. If organizers of an event want to have only male singers, they should engage performers with that in mind from the beginning and make sure that they have done their homework as to who the vocalists are in each group. If the Ort

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Jordan Hirsch
Title: Re: kol isha in action on 2/20/03 11:08 PM, david lowther at [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I imagine this may be easy for you to write because you are a man.  These fundamentalist pinheads wouldn't have you wearing a burqa.  Let the would-be-offenders stuff their fingers into their ears, or l

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread david lowther
I imagine this may be easy for you to write because you are a man.  These fundamentalist pinheads wouldn't have you wearing a burqa.  Let the would-be-offenders stuff their fingers into their ears, or leave the room to stand outside in little disgruntled minyans, bewailing the manners of the

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Alex J. Lubet
I think Lori was right to post her story, because it was a news ite. I happen to be on her side, but frankly, the debate which is ensuing is one we've all heard before on this list and we're not going to get any new insights from it, although we may occasionally reach new heights of vitriol, a cat

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Jordan Hirsch
Title: Re: kol isha in action on 2/20/03 9:31 PM, Sylvie Braitman at [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Voice is a sensual thing. It's organic to the body and as such "speaks" about the body. This is why we feel so moved and deeply touched (we love it, we hate it), because of its organic nature. It does

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Marvin Margoshes
- Original Message - From: "Eliezer Kaplan" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "World music from a Jewish slant" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Thursday, February 20, 2003 8:26 PM Subject: Re: kol isha in action > > according to orthodoxy nothing was created by a human > > > > Disagree- there is a defin

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Marvin Margoshes
- Original Message - From: "Dan Jacobs" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "World music from a Jewish slant" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Thursday, February 20, 2003 8:02 PM Subject: Re: kol isha in action > Lori, > > I agree with your sentiment here, however Kashrut does not make sense and > also mos

RE: Radio Free Klezmer

2003-02-21 Thread Seth Rogovoy
This would be a great thing if it worked, but it doesn't. :-( Seth Rogovoy author, "The Essential Klezmer: A Music Lover's Guide to Jewish Roots and Soul Music" www.rogovoy.com > -Original Message- > From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of [EMAIL PROTECTED] >

Re: Radio Free Klezmer

2003-02-21 Thread MIAdler
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Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Carol Freeman
Lori Cahan-Simon wrote: One can say they > come from the divine, but this one surely sounds like an excuse to > propagate male control to me. This practice also takes opportunities to work at earning one's living away from for female vocalists and puts them into the hands of (sometimes less-qu

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Eliezer Kaplan
IMO in the isolated yeshivish communities of Europe the prohibition may have had lots of relevance- God knows what might happen to the poor yeshiva bochrim should they get turned on. But in modern society IMO the prohibition loses it's relevance. Can't walk out the door without being bombard

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Eliezer Kaplan
> according to orthodoxy nothing was created by a human > Disagree- there is a definite distinction in the Orthodox tradition between d'rabbanan (from the rabbi's) and d'oraitha (from the written or oral traditions). - Original Message - From: "avi finegold" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "Worl

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Lori Cahan-Simon
Dan, I appreciate your attempt at lightening up the situation, but the fact is, that is what it comes down to. I could go into why kashrut made sense at the time it was developed, but I'm really too tired since I get up at 5:30 to go to work every day, and it's really a book-length subject, as

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Sylvie Braitman
Voice is a sensual thing. It's organic to the body and as such "speaks" about the body. This is why we feel so moved and deeply touched (we love it, we hate it), because of its organic nature. It does not matter whether it's a male or female voice, there is always something very physical abo

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Dan Jacobs
On Thu, 20 Feb 2003, avi finegold wrote: > all it says int he torah is that you should not cook a > kid in its mothers milk. Not true, it gives lists of Animals that are kosher and that are not, but I agree with your point, most of Kashrut is Rabbinic. > Kol Isha was created by a human. > > acc

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Dan Jacobs
Lori, I agree with your sentiment here, however Kashrut does not make sense and also most of the Kashrut laws are Rabbinical. The point of Kol Isha is not about offending a man, it is about 'arousal' apparently as a man, I can't listen to you sing in case I get aroused and as we know, Men have no

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Dan Jacobs
On Thu, 20 Feb 2003, avi finegold wrote: > > --- Dan Jacobs <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Hi, > > > > It's not a custom it's Jewish law (a law that is > > offensive and > > un-necessary), > > > youre right about the law part but what makes you > think you have the right to pass judgement for > or

Re: kol isha in action (fwd)

2003-02-21 Thread Dan Jacobs
On Thu, 20 Feb 2003, Sylvia Schildt wrote: > Kol isha - makes the gorge rise. > > And it's not a custom common to all Orthodox Jewry. THIS IS AN IMPORTANT > POINT. As a British (modern) Orthodox Jew, I can say that Kol Isha is the mainstream here, certainly as far as the Rabbinate go. Also, Kol

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Dan Jacobs
Didn't mean to suggest that you were being dismissive, however I think that to win these arguments within the Orthodox world, we need to be very careful how we put the case forward. I totally agree that precedent is important, it is the best was to make change, as long as we are able to justify it

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread avi finegold
--- Lori Cahan-Simon <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > I don't think that using kashrut is a parallel > example. If you go to an > event with kosher food, everyone can still eat it. > Kashrut is spelled > out in the Torah. all it says int he torah is that you should not cook a kid in its mothers m

Re: Hilula in Meron

2003-02-21 Thread MIAdler
I'd love to. I have read about this very special event before. Unfortunately I don't get in to Lod until Monday afternoon coming from New York. -- [EMAIL PROTECTED] -+ Hosted by Shamash: The Jewish Network http://shamash.org A service of Hebrew College,

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Asissel
The answer seems obvious.  PUBLICITY regarding who is performing, including the vocalist of course.  Then those who may not feel comfortable do not have to attend and it saves lots of embarrassment, etc.  It is absolutely awful to tell a performer she will not be allowed to perform at the last minu

Re: kol isha in action

2003-02-21 Thread Sylvia Schildt
Title: Re: kol isha in action Maybe not parallel but definitely tangential. I spoke with a presenter who told me she couldn't abide the saltiness and dried out taste of kosher meat, so even there it can be an issue. She was glad to have an option. Even as halacha the kol isha thing is debatable