RE: [lace-chat] Gender of names

2006-08-28 Thread Avital
Re: Leslie/Lesley. It may be a generation/regional thing. When I was a child in southern Ontario in the 60s, in my pre-Avital incarnation, kids would say to me, "'Leslie'? That's a *boy's* name!" Yet, in the 70s, my high school phys ed class had *four* female Leslies. In fact I don't think I ever k

Re: [lace-chat] Gender of names

2006-08-28 Thread Martha Krieg
I agree with you about Marion/Marian - but my female cousin Leslie would be surprised! I don't know that there are many male Leslies in the US; I think all the females I've known have been Leslie. At 11:04 PM +0100 8/27/06, Margery Allcock wrote: Tamara wrote: in Polish, "Marian" is a male

Re: [lace-chat] Names and titles

2006-08-28 Thread Helen
"My lover" is quite common in Bath. It may sound strange, but it's normally said with a really thick burr and is just used instead of "love" or "dear". I don't mind the name being used as long as it's being used almost out of habit, not in any sort of "little woman" way. Title/name-wise I'm

[lace-chat] Names and titles

2006-08-28 Thread Jean Nathan
Carol wrote: In some areas you could be called be called by the not-intended-to-be-derogatory term of "chuck" or "lass", and in Scotland "hen". I'm sure there are lots more, but these spring immediately to mind. Jean in Poole, Dorset, UK To unsubscribe send email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] cont

Re: [lace-chat] RE: names & titles

2006-08-28 Thread Carol Adkinson
Hi All, I answer to almost anything - 'Carol' spelled Carole, Carroll, Carrolle, Caroll . all sound the same, and when correspondence is sent, it usually says 'Mrs C. E. Adkinson' on the envelope, so there's no problem at all there.The problems come with the surname - 'Adkinson' spelled wi

Re: [lace-chat] Names & Titles

2006-08-28 Thread Carol Adkinson
Hi All, This thread is making me chuckle!When I first went to Newcastle, in the north of England, I couldn't wait for someone - anyone! - to call me 'Pet'. And when I stopped to ask for directions, I could have kissed the chappie who obliged by calling me 'Pet' - I have never thought that call

[lace-chat] RE: names & titles

2006-08-28 Thread Helen Bell
I went to school (in Australia) with a Vivian who was a female. The other interesting one is when selecting names for a baby, which spelling do you choose? We named our son Jonathon, because I didn't realize there was 'Jonathan', but for Katie we chose Katharine, because we thought it was a lit

Re: [lace-chat] Names and titles

2006-08-28 Thread David in Ballarat
Dear Lise-Aurore, And then, there's the usage in French, where I am referred to as Madame le docteur. I'm not to crazy about that, but it is difficult to make people believe that I'm a Monsieur. I was rather distressed this spring, when everyone in France seemed to want to call me Mademoiselle.

Re: [lace-chat] Name genders, spelling and confusion

2006-08-28 Thread Brenda Paternoster
On 28 Aug 2006, at 13:52, Jean Nathan wrote: So when he died, we were most interested to see if he'd got married under the name of Edward or Edwin. If Edward, would it mean that he and his "wife" weren't really married? No it wouldn't - in England your name is what you call yourself; a change

[lace-chat] re: the spelling of names

2006-08-28 Thread Agnes Boddington
At work we had a Chinese secretary. One day she reorganized our pigeon holes and mine said: Angus (instead of Agnes). I went to see her and told her that I may be a cow, but I am not Scottish! She did not understand it, but was enlightened by one of her colleagues. The upshot was that I remained

[lace-chat] Names and titles

2006-08-28 Thread Lapalme, Lise-Aurore
Wow! What an interesting thread. Personally, I cannot abide being called Miss, Mrs or Ms. Never could, before marriage, during marriage, or after, always hated them, from as far back as I can remember. I see them as sexist and degrading to women, since their sole purpose is to indicate marriage

[lace-chat] Name genders, spelling and confusion

2006-08-28 Thread Jean Nathan
My name, Jean, in the UK and a lot of other countries is female. In France (and probably others), it's male. Name confusions can be interesting and in some cases rather worrying. My father-in-law was born in 1919 and was always known as 'Ted', which for as long as anyone can remember, he said

Re: [lace-chat] RE: The Spelling of Names

2006-08-28 Thread Vickie McKinney
My name is spelled as Vickie on my birth certificate; yet most people spell it every way but the correct way. At work, there is a Vicky. Even when people see my name spelled correctly in the To: field on the e-mail, they know my name is spelled Vickie, or they see that I signed the prior e-mail

[lace-chat] RE: The Spelling of Names

2006-08-28 Thread Barrie & Julie Todd
If you request a copy of a birth certificate or similar and it arrives with a strange spelling of a name, don't presume that it is correct, especially if you can back it up with other documents. When we applied for our marriage license, the lady at the desk told my husband that his future mother-i

Re: [lace-chat] Gender of names

2006-08-28 Thread Brenda Paternoster
Hello David As a genealogist I think you'll find it's often the way the Registration Clerk happens to right it down at the time. At the front of every English/Welsh birth register there are instructions as to how the register should be filled in according to different circumstances, there is a