Re: [QUAD-L] Dawn, the quad girl upstairs from me

2014-04-29 Thread Elizabeth Treston
Tell Dawn to find her own Pete. You and your husband enable this woman. On Apr 28, 2014, at 8:15 PM, Gmail wrote: BINGO, BINGS, BINGO. She waste's so much of her SSI check on BINGO week after week, month after month, year after year! Dawn has a 2002 Mimi van with 130,000K on it. I

Re: [QUAD-L] Dawn, the quad girl upstairs from me

2014-04-29 Thread Gmail
Yes, we do help her quite a bit but she is completely on her own. Her family has been here, in the past 15 years, maybe six times. But she does not make it easy. There were times when Pete helped her with something that was already half broken and when it broke she would make Pete pay for it to

Re: [QUAD-L] Dawn, the quad girl upstairs from me

2014-04-29 Thread Gmail
We have given her the number of the company for the bed but she doesn't want to call because it cost $200 for them to walk in the door. D.A.W.N's birthday was April 15 she told me that her friends were having a birthday party for her but she didn't feel good so she didn't go. I asked her why

Re: [QUAD-L] Dawn, the quad girl upstairs from me

2014-04-29 Thread Gmail
Sometimes she plays midnight bingo. But most of the times she is home on the computer playing games up till 4:00am or 5:00am Smile Everyday On Apr 28, 2014, at 2:29 PM, Don Smith scamper2...@att.net wrote: I would have told her 10pm and if she couldn't be home by then she would have to

Re: [QUAD-L] Dawn, the quad girl upstairs from me

2014-04-29 Thread Gmail
Yes, and we both have a lot of compassion and empathy for her. I first got to know her when she was first in rehab, I was her Peer counselor. I followed her to her home to visit her and that's when I met her indescribable horrific BAD mother of hers. To get her out of the house and away from

Re: [QUAD-L] Mouth stick sleeves

2014-04-29 Thread Quadius
Lol Sent from my iPad On Apr 26, 2014, at 11:15 PM, Don Smith scamper2...@att.net wrote: I never thought about using the bed bag tubing, I only hope it was not prevusley used for the on the bag, that might take the fresh minty flavor away From: Quadius quad...@gmail.com To: Don

Re: [QUAD-L] Dawn, the quad girl upstairs from me

2014-04-29 Thread RONALD L PRACHT
That's why even when you want to help someone you have to be careful. If they  have no help at all they are likely to take you down with them like a drowning individual. I guess helping at a distance is the best way to handle it.The paraplegic I know that's in the nursing home stuck in bed 24

Re: [QUAD-L] Dawn, the quad girl upstairs from me

2014-04-29 Thread Gmail
Ron, those are easy words to say, but when you SEE the person eye to eye quite often ... it's difficult to ignore ALL the time. Bobbie Smile Everyday On Apr 29, 2014, at 8:21 PM, RONALD L PRACHT r.pra...@sbcglobal.net wrote: That's why even when you want to help someone you have to be

Re: [QUAD-L] Dawn, the quad girl upstairs from me

2014-04-29 Thread RONALD L PRACHT
Sure since she is a woman you helped all along plus she lives in your building would make it impossible to ignore. I was more less telling people to try not get in the positions to allow needy people to set you up for abuse. I know myself not to ask people for things all the time or I will