Re: [Tango-L] Keep away!

2007-12-28 Thread Keith
I'm sorry Krasimir and probably Igor, but I still can't agree. Tonight I hope to dance with many women. I will embrace them, they will embrace me. I will feel their hearts beating, I will share their breath, inhale their smell, feel their warmth and, hopefully, we'll both be smiling at the end

Re: [Tango-L] The Suggested Lead

2007-12-28 Thread Tango For Her
Michael wrote: "If the frame is weak, she can't track the center." I just wanted to clarify ... if you go to the extreme of providing no frame for your follower, here is what happens: 1. She follows the best that she can. 2. You become acutely aware of where she is, how she is following, her t

Re: [Tango-L] The Suggested Lead

2007-12-28 Thread Michael
Tango for her wrote: > Michael wrote: > > "If the frame is weak, she can't track the center." >> > I just wanted to clarify ... if you go to the extreme > of providing no frame for your follower, here is what > happens:

Re: [Tango-L] Keep away!

2007-12-28 Thread dwyliu
Igor, That was interesting. I think I actually agree with you that it has ... little to do with _dance_. However, they have _a lot_ to do with _social_ dance. They also have a lot to do with being human (although it is everyone's prerogative to decide how much of themselves they want to share w

Re: [Tango-L] Don't blame your follower

2007-12-28 Thread Tango For Her
I just checked my Bulk email folder and found a bunch of emails that I missed. Sorry for the delay in writing back. I still say, to myself, "Don't blame my follower." with rare exceptions. In general, I become a better dancer by always looking to me to modify the dance. If my follower is st

Re: [Tango-L] The Suggested Lead

2007-12-28 Thread Tango For Her
If the frame is weak, she doesn't move with the man's frame and is left behind. Try having a weak frame, or no frame at all. Your follower, being aware of your center, will follow you. She will not be left behind. She might not follow you 100%, but, she will follow you. And, if she does not fo

Re: [Tango-L] Keep away!

2007-12-28 Thread Igor Polk
I do not like when "feelings" are a substitute for the quality of dance. Neiher when tango is a substitute of lap dancing. There are things happening in dancing as well as in other activities, but they are better kept private. Igor Polk. PS Thanks for the supporting - that is exactly what I mean

[Tango-L] Keep away

2007-12-28 Thread Keith Elshaw
Igor wrote: >I do not like when "feelings" are a substitute for the quality of dance. Now, ladies - I know you are dying to have a dance with someone with this attitude, but - please - take a number. And be patient. A man who doesn't respond to feelings is SO popular. You understand. Igor: thi