[Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-08 Thread Bob Youngson
Here are some thoughts that I picked up from my BsAs teacher and ladies in the traditional milongas in Buenos Aires recently; they certainly give much food for thought and are provocative in making us re-evaluate our dancing. 1. The man & the woman need to be able to dance independently in

[Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-08 Thread Patricia Katz
Over the years, I have heard these pointers mentioned by various teachers except for the first one: "1.The man & the woman need to be able to dance independently in order to achieve true connection." I'm wondering what is meant by dancing independently? Thanks, Patricia http://www.torontoargentin

[Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-13 Thread Pat Petronio
n to the music. It can also bestow in the man an attitude of "whatever he says goes". None of these contributes to good connection. Pat - Original Message - From: "Michael" To: "Pat Petronio" ; Cc: "Michael" Sent: Saturday, November 13, 2010

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-08 Thread Gordon Erlebacher
Those are my feelings as well. And to achieve this, one needs to develop technical skills, from which, good connection ensues. Gordon - Original Message - From: Bob Youngson Date: Monday, November 8, 2010 6:56 am Subject: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection To: tango-l@mit.edu

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-08 Thread Gordon Erlebacher
Mimi Santapa (Buenos Aires) states that both partners should be able to execute any step and figure on their own (we are not talking about colgadas and volcadas obviously) and not depend on their partner. That is how would define dancing independently. I have heard that from a few other teacher

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-12 Thread Pat Petronio
Hi fellow tangueros, I find the following point made by Bob most thought-provoking of all: > 4. To achieve connection in tango, the man & the woman need to dance > as equals. Although I fully subscribe to the traditional roles in this dance (the man proposes, etc.), the terminology of "lea

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-12 Thread Michael
;following." It's how you define them that matters. Michael I danced Argentine Tango --with the Argentines - Original Message - From: "Pat Petronio" To: Sent: Friday, November 12, 2010 7:49 PM Subject: Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection > Hi fellow tangueros,

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-13 Thread Vince Bagusauskas
Message- From: Pat Petronio Sent: Saturday, November 13, 2010 11:14 PM To: tango-l@mit.edu Subject: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection Words are powerful in influencing behaviour. "Leading" & "following" can create a different mindset to &

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-13 Thread Cherie
If there is only "inviting" and "responding" it's a whole different ballgame. With respect, this is all so "foreign tango!" There is a leader who plays music with the body of the woman, during which the woman can express her feelings for the music and the connection. Yes, whatever he says does g

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-14 Thread Sergey Kazachenko
Well said Pat! AFAIK, in Spanish the roles are simply called "hombre" and "mujer", regardless of the gender of the dancers. I usually avoid saying "leading" and "following" for exactly the reasons you mention. I will make a mental note from now on to use "invite" and "respond" when explaining in E

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-14 Thread HBBOOGIE1
Leading and following is something we do from the moment we’re born, it’s in our nature. In tango no matter what you name it someone is leading and someone is following. The question is who’s doing what? The man leads the woman into a figure and then he follows her movement. That’s right the

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-14 Thread Vince Bagusauskas
Kazachenko Sent: Sunday, November 14, 2010 12:46 AM To: Pat Petronio Cc: tango-l@mit.edu Subject: Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection I usually avoid saying "leading" and "following" for exactly the reasons you mention. ___

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-14 Thread Jack Dylan
> From: Pat Petronio petro...@adam.com.au > "Leading" & "following" can create a different mindset to "inviting" & >"responding", >  I'm uncomfortable with both of these terminologies. 'Leading and following' seems to imply that there's a concious lead by the man, which the lady recognises an

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-15 Thread Gordon Erlebacher
I believe there is a point where one over analyzes vocabulary: lead, mark, follow, etc. In my opinion (having done ballroom and argentine tango), I find that both dances have lead and follow, but the technique for execution is different. In essence, if a man stands still, with no muscle action

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-15 Thread HBBOOGIE1
Jack you gave a perfect explanation of lead and follow. this is the lead:..."The simplest example is the walk. It seems that I merely walk forward, with my initial movement coming from the torso" this is the follow.."and the lady walks backward with her initial movement" Brilliant

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-15 Thread HBBOOGIE1
Gordon excellent analogy I agree with you 100% David In a message dated 11/15/2010 4:06:10 A.M. Pacific Standard Time, gerlebac...@fsu.edu writes: I believe there is a point where one over analyzes vocabulary: lead, mark, follow, etc. In my opinion (having done ballroom and argentine tango)

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-16 Thread Bob Youngson
It seems to me that the posts lately regarding the 4th of the 5 statements I made in my initial email: "To achieve connection in tango, the man & the woman need to dance as equals", has developed into a constructive discussion on leading/following. Nevertheless, the other 4 points that I made s

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-16 Thread HBBOOGIE1
Bob I think what you’re trying to say is you should never dance over the woman’ s level of skill. For those that think the codes of tango are old and unimportant here is a perfect example of why tandas are played. When you invite a woman to dance the first song is intended to keep it simple

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-21 Thread Sandhill Crane
--- On Mon, 11/15/10, Gordon Erlebacher wrote: > What one perceives as simultaneous could be one behind the > other, as long as the time separation between the two is > sufficiently low. The best female tango dancers respond > to indications from the leader "almost" instantaneously. > Just as lig

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-21 Thread Sandhill Crane
--- On Mon, 11/15/10, Jack Dylan wrote: > The man 'Inviting' seems to imply that the lady then > has a choice to either accept or decline, which, surely, > isn't the case. Well, in response to the invitation, she has to do something, true enough -- it's not much of a dance if she'll just stand

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-21 Thread Gordon Erlebacher
Right and wrong are such absolutes. Almost nothing is "wrong" in tango. However, consider the following two scenarios: 1) the one you describe: the lady does not respond in the way you anticipated and you work with it. However, she only has 1 year experience. 2) same scenario, with a woman how

Re: [Tango-L] Some thoughts on connection

2010-11-21 Thread Jack Dylan
> From: Sandhill Crane > > --- On Mon, 11/15/10, Jack Dylan wrote: > > > The man 'Inviting' seems to imply that the lady then > > has a choice to either accept or decline, which, surely, > > isn't the case. > > Well, in response to the invitation, she has to do something, > true enough -- it