Re: Biting in children

2003-06-03 Thread Donald McBurney
For all the same legal and other reasons given for not using lemon juice, etc, to discourage biting, the one treatment that has been used by generations of mothers with great effectiveness cannot be given either: Bite the kid back. don Donald McBurney --- You are currently subscribed t

Re: Biting in children

2003-06-03 Thread J L Edwards
Hi all: I'm curious: have any of you ever advised a parent of a biting child to bite the child in return? If not, why not, given it's "great effectiveness"? Is it ethical and practical to recommend methods that are not as effective and which prolong the problem? Is there any generalization from th

Re: Biting in children

2003-06-03 Thread Betsy Spaulding
Hi everyone I have to jump in also, having had a child who went through a very short phase of being a "biter" when she was about 15 months.  I'm certain she began to do it in earnest after having found it an effective and entertaining way to stop another baby (with whom she shared a babysitter) fr

Re: Biting in children

2003-06-03 Thread Drnanjo
"Bite the child back" was alleged to be effective. Produce the evidence for such a claim, please. I dispute the effectiveness of such a method...it's just cruel and childish. Nancy Melucci Long Beach City College --- You are currently subscribed to tips as: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To unsubscribe send

Re: Biting in children

2003-06-03 Thread Beth Benoit
Isn't one of the basic tenets of a young child's egocentric cognition that he/she can't put herself in another's shoes?  That's one (of the many) reasons why "showing a child how it feels" to be bitten won't be effective.  She won't take the next step and think, "I won't bite that child beca

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2003-06-03 Thread Judith Roberts
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Re: Biting in children

2003-06-03 Thread James Guinee
From: "J L Edwards" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Hi all: I'm curious: have any of you ever advised a parent of a biting child to bite the child in return? If not, why not, given it's "great effectiveness"? Is it ethical and practical to recommend methods that are not as effective and which prolong the pro

Re: Biting in children

2003-06-03 Thread Stephen Black
In reference to Don McBurney's suggestion (which I suspect was made more facetiously than seriously) that a parent bite a biting child back, Beth Benoit replied: > Isn't one of the basic tenets of a young child's egocentric cognition > that he/she can't put herself in another's shoes? That's on