Re: [tips] The season of the deceased grandparent

2014-09-01 Thread drnanjo
Hello everyone - Hope you had a nice summer and holiday weekend. So, I need to know if my two choices in a matter are the dichotomy of total patsy and heartless b-word. As I've often joked to students, May and December are bad times for grandparents (and other distant relatives) who seem

RE: [tips] The season of the deceased grandparent

2014-09-01 Thread Tim Shearon
Nancy Short version- you are doing the right thing and it's her environmental factors and lack of self-reflection that lead to her response. (I.e., it's her - not you) Long version: I've had exactly the same thing happen - even getting abuse from a parent for being heartless in their time of

Re: [tips] The season of the deceased grandparent

2014-09-01 Thread Claudia Stanny
Nancy, Given your institution's policies, you had no choice but to drop her if she did not show up. I expect she had the same experience in multiple classes if she was out of town for a funeral, which probably adds to her stress but should send her a clear message that this is what happens at