RE: [tips] the 27th and 28th victims in Newtown

2012-12-24 Thread Shearon, Tim
From: Beth Benoit [beth.ben...@gmail.com] Sent: Monday, December 24, 2012 9:23 AM To: Teaching in the Psychological Sciences (TIPS) Subject: Re: [tips] the 27th and 28th victims in Newtown I am also very annoyed by people saying there must have been something the parents

Re: [tips] the 27th and 28th victims in Newtown

2012-12-24 Thread Beth Benoit
I am also very annoyed by people saying there *must *have been something the parents - particularly the mother - were doing wrong to make Adam behave as he did. It sounds like the mother was known to be a caring, kind and generous person. NOT someone with a lack of affect, isolation and withdrawa

Re: [tips] the 27th and 28th victims in Newtown

2012-12-24 Thread Carol DeVolder
But still, to Beth's point, a mother and her son were also lost. The son--to what terrible cause? The mother, simply by being. There are people who will miss them. At the least, a father, brother, son. As terrible as it is for the 26 others, and it IS unimaginably terrible--it is also terrible for

Re: [tips] the 27th and 28th victims in Newtown

2012-12-24 Thread Paul Brandon
You might also discuss why a hundred times as many people are killed in car crashes as in plane crashes, but plane crashes get more publicity. On Dec 24, 2012, at 8:26 AM, Mike Palij wrote: > Cullen's main point is that in situations like Columbine and Newtown, most > of the initial information

Re:[tips] the 27th and 28th victims in Newtown

2012-12-24 Thread Mike Palij
On Sun, 23 Dec 2012 15:12:33 -0500, Beth Benoit wrote: The count of victims seldom includes Adam's mother and, of course, himself. I hope that most of us on TIPS can dig a little deeper than to join the thoughtless, unprofessional armchair psychologizing that blames Nancy Lanza for her son's a