what you hear

Many years ago I inadvertently insulted a young black man when I said "Yeah boy" as Andy would do when he expressed pleasure in something good. I don't remember what transpired that made me say this but the man's face fell and I asked what was the matter. He answered that I had denigrated him

Rafe Hollister

 I figured it out without a doubt. Say both words out loud, and notice the position of your lips when saying the bad word vs. when you say the word well.. Then compare them to Rafes lip position when he says the word. He said the bad word for sure. Anyone who can reads lips will tell you