And on a lighter note, I've just signed off with my dog Lilly's name. Calling back the dog and writing emails at the same time...Not the best combo. :D
Thanks everyone for your input here. I have lots of things to think about and I thank you all for your time. Cheers Elly On Thu, Mar 19, 2015 at 12:52 PM, StartUp Mosman <mosmanstar...@gmail.com> wrote: > Hi Geoff M > > My comment was for Geoff Langdale. I apologise if you thought my comment > was direct at you. It wasn't at all. I appreciate all the feedback on here. > I do think Geoff L's feedback was coming from an insecure place, hence the > barrage of negativity and "can't do" attitude. Some people just aren't > mentor material. > > I agree with Simran's well articulated response: "but if it comes from a > really negative place (egotistical, know-it-all, you have no idea, i'm the > king of the world types) then it's not even considered - and the person > giving it has wasted his time and the other person's time." Well said, > Simran. > > Certainly, Geoff M, I valued your advice. I'm okay with frank and > constructive advice. It's the destructive advice that has no place here. > > Cheers > > Lilly > > On Thu, Mar 19, 2015 at 11:25 AM, Geoff McQueen | AffinityLive < > geoff.mcqu...@affinitylive.com> wrote: > >> Right, good to clarify that discouraging and uninspiring advice from >> someone with a lot of experience in this sort of thing isn't welcome. In >> that case, my advice at the top should have been: >> >> - *Quit your job. *Now. Carpe Fucking Diem. If you get to the end of >> this email without jumping up and shouting "I'm out of here to pursue my >> startup dreams" you're just not cut out for it as you'll have proven your >> lack of energy, passion and risk taking isn't up to being an entrepreneur. >> - *Move to the Bay Area. *Now. This is where it is at and starting a >> company anywhere else is a waste of your life. Visualize the success you >> deserve, truly deserve, and then go out and snatch it. There's money >> falling from the sky here - small companies that do nothing (Yo) raise >> millions and pin boards for homemakers to daydream with are worth over 10 >> billion dollars. The only real step to achieving your dreams is to get >> over >> to San Francisco and you're made. The investors will be impressed by your >> willingness to move across the world where you have no networks, no >> connections, no credibility, no product, no customers and no traction and >> were still brave enough to do it!! Crazy brave! That's what they're >> looking >> for - crazy brave thunder lizards!!!! Why shouldn't it be you? >> - *Dream big and don't let anyone tell you you're wrong. *You've >> thought about your idea a lot longer than them, so what would they know? >> We >> all know contrarians changed the world so going against the tide is a sure >> sign you're onto something big. The secret to success is to just keep >> going, no matter what, and you'll get there in the end - so taking outside >> advice and opinions on board is really just a sign for the weak who want >> an >> excuse to give up. >> - *Keep your idea secret and don't tell anyone - it is too valuable!* >> There are so many vultures out there with almost limitless technical >> talent >> resources and commercial experience and connections die for, but they're >> just unable to think of their own good ideas - and if you're not careful >> they'll steal yours. They hang out at the Grove and the Creamery just >> trying to overhead incredible original ideas and then steal them - the >> only >> way to make sure they can't is to never tell anyone anything. >> >> Seriously though, you've come onto a list and asked for help and advice >> and experienced people have offered to help. They could have said "another >> non-technical wantrepreneur trying with an idea for a tech business who >> thinks their idea is awesome and wants to know the secret in getting from >> underpants to profit; yet another deluded fool and wasting their life on >> something that will never get anywhere". But they didn't. And now I'm >> genuinely concerned for the next guy or girl who posts to this list and >> asks for help and having experienced operators like Geoff Langdale just >> ignore their request for advice because it isn't what someone wants to >> hear, because while they probably won't read your post and disrespectful >> response to someone answering a request for advice, the people who can help >> on this list will all remember it and the community will be the worse for >> it. >> >> Good luck. >> >> Geoff >> >> >> >> On Wed, Mar 18, 2015 at 4:49 PM, simran <sim...@dn.gs> wrote: >> >>> Good point Mike, although if i may, i'll give a slightly different >>> perspective (not referring to *any* of the earlier posts or with reference >>> to any person - my comment is solely a response to your statement): >>> >>> Encouragement is perhaps equally valuable if not more. Hearing an >>> opinion from anyone (and it is just an opinion albeit, sometimes based in >>> more experience) can be really valuable, it's always worth considering and >>> then discarding if need be... but if it comes from a really negative place >>> (egotistical, know-it-all, you have no idea, i'm the king of the world >>> types) then it's not even considered - and the person giving it has wasted >>> his time and the other person's time. >>> >>> It's *always* worth trying to understand the context the question is >>> coming from, and then responding in a way that can be understood. >>> >>> If after all, we *only cared* about "hard facts as we see them" >>> (according to our experience) - then each schoolteacher would be yelling at >>> every school kid all day... and i for one don't think that would produce >>> good results :) >>> >>> On a separate note, i think we can learn a HUGE amount from dog >>> trainers... you'll be amazed at how totally *positive* driven training >>> is... it's got there as positivity bought forth much better results... i >>> think we can learn a lot from that. >>> >>> Having said that, absolutely, one needs to give their opinion, >>> factually, unmasked and as they see it, but it *is possible* to do it >>> without yelling / screaming as that usually never gets the point across... >>> :) >>> >>> >>> >>> On Thu, Mar 19, 2015 at 10:29 AM, Mike Gardiner <m...@limerocket.com> >>> wrote: >>> >>>> Elly some of the most valuable advice will be things you dont want to >>>> hear and at these early stages you dont need to be inspired and patted on >>>> the back you need people telling you how it is. >>>> >>>> Cheers,Mike. >>>> >>>> -- >>> -- >>> You received this message because you are subscribed to the Silicon >>> Beach Australia mailing list. 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