Hello. Let me see, it's been 10 years on the list. After initial enthusiasm in responding to all messages, I lurked, first actively and then passively. And now occasionally read a thread or two till the first point of drift.
Things outside were happening. Today I got added to a Whatsapp group which reminded me of Silk again. It helped that about 95% of the group members are silklisters. And then I saw Udhay's thread about changing one's opinion and the other one about optimising priorities. So. Re introductions. Some of you may have known me as Chandrachoodan. Or as Ravages. I've since changed. A lot. After years of trying to figure it out, and worrying about family, friends, etc., I began to transition. Socially, medically, and internet-ly. I am still afraid of family's reaction. I am still worried about what friends will say. But since 2014 I have learnt that the number of people who don't give a fuck who I am, one way or other, far outnumber the number of people who do give a fuck. Which is cool. Some of you have known me after transition. For the others, I am Nadika.
