Hi N,

I’ve always known you are that person whose presence warms me up when I see
your name on Twitter. I didn’t know you were on Silk! Good to see you here.

On Thu, 16 Nov 2017 at 5:05 PM, Chandrachoodan Gopalakrishnan <
chandrachoo...@gmail.com> wrote:

> Hello.
>
> Let me see, it's been 10 years on the list. After initial enthusiasm in
> responding to all messages, I lurked, first actively and then passively.
> And now occasionally read a thread or two till the first point of drift.
>
> Things outside were happening.
>
> Today I got added to a Whatsapp group which reminded me of Silk again. It
> helped that about 95% of the group members are silklisters.
>
> And then I saw Udhay's thread about changing one's opinion and the other
> one about optimising priorities.
>
> So.
>
> Re introductions.
> Some of you may have known me as Chandrachoodan. Or as Ravages.
>
> I've since changed. A lot.
> After years of trying to figure it out, and worrying about family, friends,
> etc., I began to transition. Socially, medically, and internet-ly.
>
> I am still afraid of family's reaction. I am still worried about what
> friends will say. But since 2014 I have learnt that the number of people
> who don't give a fuck who I am, one way or other, far outnumber the number
> of people who do give a fuck. Which is cool.
>
>
> Some of you have known me after transition.
>
> For the others,
> I am Nadika.
>
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Regards

Harnidh Kaur
Lady Shri Ram College for Women '15
St. Xavier's College, Mumbai '17
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