I need some direction. 

My wife is 46 years old suffering from depression, anxiety and menopause. She 
has been seeing counselors and she was recommended to again take an 
depressants. She has tried Wellbutryn once for a month which gave her bad side 
effects like headaches and anxious and the latest Lexapro which also she can 
not stand the side effects. They are making her feel even worse, then better. 
Lexapro has been making her feel nauseas and dizzy which are some of the side 
effects is what I read. I finally got her to think about the natural route and 
I am trying to see if anyone out there can give me some solid holistic 
direction of what see can take to help her feel better to alleviate the 
depression anxiety and the usual hot flashes and everything else that comes 
with menopause, without these side effects..Can anyone direct me.

Thanks
Lou 
from NY