I`m going to Utah.
   Never would move to Nevada!
  Marshalee

  Hi Marshalee, I seen where you said you were thinking about moving to Nevada, 
Be sure and check to see if you can still get SSI there. I had a friend move 
from Ca. back here to rent a room from me and he lost his SSI, I think he went 
back to Ca now.
  Yours Hank
    ----- Original Message ----- 
    From: Shirley Reed 
    To: silver-list@eskimo.com 
    Sent: Friday, July 30, 2004 12:07 AM
    Subject: CS>Marshalee's situation


       I agree with the lady who said you need to get some help and good 
counsel.  We can't afford to lose you or not have you hitting on all 8, 
Marshalee!!   Regardless of your sister's circumstances, you must remember that 
nothing, that's NOTHING, gives anyone abuse rights.  And your sister is taking 
advantage of your reluctance to leave her to abuse you.  Also, you can get a 
different roommate if your financial situation demands it.  But it just may be 
possible to get a small place of your own.  And yes, I do mean small.  Some 
small studio apts. do exist.  The owners will be glad to have someone of good 
character who is realistic in what she expects of the place.  You do have 
options.  They may not be all that desirable, but they will all be better than 
what you presently are enduring.   You can make a change for the better.  
Frankly, your sister sounds like a very undisciplined person!!    C'mon, 
Marshalee.  Do what needs to be done and be done with it.   Very best wishes,  
pj


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