Ex. 2 I think the blame gets thrown around by everyone depending on
who you
talk to... I see your point, but consider this one.
Would a wife that continually belittles her husband and
doesn't even care to
have sex with him have *any* accountabillity in the affair?
Do women that, for what ever reason, "want what they can't
have" and go after
another woman's husband have *anything* do with the affair?
OR.... when a man cheats he is the sole guilty party
because the actions of
women do not matter and the man is the only one who can be
assigned guilt?
actually the man is the one who made the vow to not cheat he alone has the opportunity to say yes or no so yes for the affair he is solely responsible
to say its because the girl went after him or the wife wasnt loving enough is the same thing as these people today who shift blame on the parents for what the teenagers do it all goes with the ol shrink adage if you do something wrong its not your fault blame the mother
yes the wife is responsible for not being a good wife but shes not responsible for the man cheating and yes the mistress is responsible for being immoral and choosing to sleep with someone else husband but shes not responsible for the mans action because in the end it was his choice.
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