--- Ecsedy Áron <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote a lot in a
previous post that gets me to thinking ....
Here's a much better psychology to have in dance:
If any of my partners has a bad dance, or sucks then,
it wasn't that she was a bad dancer or she sucks!
Rather, if any of my partners has a bad dance, then,
it was me who did not find a good connection with her.
Therefore, if anyone didn't have a great dance with a
milonguero, it's best that the milonguero looks at it
as his short-coming and the follower should look at it
as her short-coming.
That's the way that I improve my dance. I see
everything as something that I can improve. Like I
said, "Women can dance!" It's up to me to find a
connection with each and every one of them.
... where's that "Don't Blame the Follower" thread?
...
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