Yes, Huck, I'm sure that's true. It's also true that men need to speak up when women are being overly agressive. I am pretty sure that the guy massaging my neck didn't feel like dancing at that moment, but he didn't have the "cohones" to say so.
Robin On 9/2/08, Huck Kennedy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > On Tue, Sep 2, 2008 at 10:57 AM, Cherie <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > I remember when I lived and danced in Los Angeles, one Argentine man there > > told me he used to hide out in the bathroom to get away from the aggressive > > women. And this was years and years ago. > > I can only imagine how much worse it is today. > > > In fairness to women, I've seen men behave just as poorly here in > Phoenix when the ratio is such that there are way more men than women > (which happens from time to time here). The same nonsense, guys who > are already dancing picking off women before they even leave the > floor, instead of letting somebody else have a turn. You pretty much > have to be a totally aggresive jerk to get a dance, hovering around > the women like a seedy horndog waiting to pounce, something which I > for one refuse to do. > > > Huck > > _______________________________________________ > Tango-L mailing list > Tango-L@mit.edu > http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l > _______________________________________________ Tango-L mailing list Tango-L@mit.edu http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l