10 Commandments! *By Sri V Sridharan as snt24 5 23 Senior citizens retired from work after marrying all their children; The last pages of life will be very interesting and sweet if they follow the following ten commandments. . *
KR It cannot be any commandment in my view since in life there is discipline but not commandments; anyone who is running a military regime, will be only get back what he gave to family; even otherwise there is a Moses who is a character; and his lessons are out of his mind as he felt, and as he imagined, which cannot be equated to, even his neibors; if so cannot be said as relevant universally. Afterall, the life is not any bed of Roses; even if, thorns will prick; every one is born in some background, as he never even, would like to be, (later in life when he will be munching the thoughts). Whether one believes in Karma or not,, whether one is thinking only GOD does all or strongly confirms all are his own actions, all that passes through, in his life, are not even dreamt of him, though some occur, as he desired and many, turns him into the surprises. THAT IS LIFE. KR We are only now rewinding; but on those dates we wished we had, but what we had made us happier or unbalanced. We keep trying but what we went through were all, nothing but, th unexpected only or at least, not as we planned; bigwigs and liars, may say so many things as to, how hard they planned and achieved, but the real truth is only what he truly knows, which dies as secret. Every man and woman live for many years, but take with them a lot of secrets. In that order, you did not choose your parent nor they did. You have not married anyone whom you dreamt or had as a picture, and not even whom you wished. Even in love, you did not love the woman you really wanted to love, but by choice went with her to break up or marry her. In the long run of life, both the partners learnt by experiences, fights and scolding and love and talks, many adjustments and became so pally. In those circumstances alone the couple gave birth to children, whom you did not imagine who will he be actually; but had a lot of wishes, either realised or partly realised or not at all as you wished. Roughly after an approximate 10000 days of life, due to conversions of thoughts of relationship with the wife and children, due to the interactions the parents of both and relatives and friends of both, a certain qualitative life is reached, with the entanglement of surprises like atoms, between wife and children. In this life story expectations, words, arguments, advises, conversations helping each other and so many live currents. must happen, taking the shape in some manners, away from the atom or towards the entanglement, till last breadth. KR All that is written below, if your wife or any child or relatives, were to make against you or your parent do adapt, what will be your thinking must be the universal basic current. Every closely knitted family members have in each of them, the right to demand and take as well to yield and let go. LIFE WILL GO AND THE LIFE WILL HAVE TO GO. THAT IS THE HISTORY OF YOUR FAMILY. In that all can live according to the individual opinion as lived in the past and ALSO TAKE ACCORDINGLY THE CONSEQUNTIAL EFFECTS, ARISING OUT OF THY CAUSES. END *01) In any situation, do not think to live with children in the last part of life. (Freedom will all be taken away)* KR IT IS NOT A T ALL FEASIBLE, LEAVE ALONE POSSIBLE. NEITHER THEY NOR BOTH OF YOU MAY. ESPECIALLY YOUR WFE SHALL NOT YOU HAVE LEARN TO LIVE AS YOU DID ATLEAST 10000 DAYS IN THE PAST. There is a proverb water will hit each other as waves, but yet they are only a water pool. *02) Don't forget that grandchildren have no right. Don't give any advice to your son or daughter in raising a child. They don't value advice and experience* KR Again it all depends. Why grand children? Even with your wife and children even as kids you cannot go deeper in advising them. So advising is not an anathema, but wrongly advising at the wrong times shall be avoided. As elders you hold a right. *இடிப்பாரை* *இல்லாத* *ஏமரா* *மன்னன்* *கெடுப்பா* *ரிலானுங்* *கெடும்**.* கடிந்து அறிவுரைக் கூறும் பெரியாரின் துணை இல்லாதக் காவலற்ற அரசன், தன்னைக் கெடுக்ககும் பகைவர் எவரும் இல்லாவிட்டாலும் கெடுவான். *Itippaarai Illaadha Emaraa Mannan Ketuppaa Rilaanung Ketum* The king with none to censure him, bereft of safeguards all,Though none his ruin work, shall surely ruined fall The careless king whom none reproves Ruins himself sans harmful foes The king, who is without the guard of men who can rebuke him, will perish, even though there be no one to destroy him *03) Stay Away . Relationships are the sweetest. Don't worry that my child is my child. **be calm thinking they are birds with wings* KR Only a pessimist and drunkard may think that way. Every individual has the right and duty with every person whom he meets. And inner ring has a better value. Even a sanyasi did not leave HIS mother. *04) There is no world for the meaningless. If there is no money in hand, children will not have respect, respect and rights. Don't share savings and self earned assets until you are alive. If shared completely, stand is in the middle of the street. * KR WHAT WE SOW SO, WE REAP. Money is not everything if you have not learnt then, your mind will interpret all only in that line. Karma is hence only appears to be relevant. *05) You would have faced many losses throughout your life by struggling for their promotion. Don't say them over and over again. You have done your duty. That's it! * KR NO GOOD PARENT WILL SAY THAT; A MOTHER MAY LAMENT OF HOW SHE BROUGHT THEM UP; BUT EVEN SHE WILL NEVER SAY ON MONEY COUNT ETC. THEY ARE THE ELDERS. BAD PERENTS ARE EXCEPTIONS. *06) Don't forget that we live in a generation where joint family life is ruined. If necessary, go once a year with gifts and be happy with grandchildren. Don't stay there much. * KR May be Lakshmi dialogue in the film samsaram adhu minsaram may sound nice, but such dialogues are not spoken and loved and lived. Even that type of woman will not do that. Of course due to the factors of ability to live separately many may live independent of each other; but their love is entangled. *07) Never give up your wife/husband and talk to your daughter-in-law. Don't forget to give a opposition to anyone who talks down on each other. When children go home, take necessary medicine, oil, powder, oil, soap etc. * KR Whose bad thinking are these; a bad daughter in law must be reprimanded and corrected; or son will suffer for 60 years. *08) Don't criticize their luxury life. Don't be insulted by the need of savings. There is no struggle life like your life they live. The modern corporate life. Those who thought 1000 rupees as big. They are a million turn around and look. * KR Asking for a simple life is nit a crime. Had you not spoken about it culturally, only you will suffer later, financially and mentally. *09) Too much affection, desire is bad. They take care of their baby. Avoid the advice! * KR That is our philosophy and had you done it before marriage, all these things would not have arisen. Too late to think now. *10) Accept that they are better in knowledge and skills than you. Or just act as fools. Only then will you survive! * KR Again yes, but a NO is also there. After all knowledge is not what you define. *Much advices are not liked by the generation. * *Even if they study well or retired from a good post, they are illiterates in front of them.! * KR It is not that way. But you shall think as advisor your office hours are only 10 to 5 . Limited Period. Never so. Good son will not think so (daughter also son in law also; May be a bad patch might have run in; but time changes all. You have to be really an elder in all respects. KR IRS 24 5 23 On Tue, 23 May 2023 at 21:17, 'venkat giri' via iyer123 < [email protected]> wrote: > *Respected Sir/s,* > > *படித்ததில் ரசித்தது* > > * · *10 கட்டளைகள்!** > **🌹பிள்ளைகள் அனைவரையும் திருமணம் முடித்துக் கொடுத்து, பணியிலிருந்து ஓய்வு > பெற்ற மூத்த குடிமக்கள்; கீழ்கண்ட பத்து கட்டளைகளை பின்பற்றினால் வாழ்வின் > கடைசி பக்கங்கள் மிகவும் சுவாரசியமாகவும் இனிமையாகவும் இருக்கும்.. 🌹.** > **01) எந்த நிலையிலும் வாழ்வின் கடைசி பகுதியில் பிள்ளைகளுடன் சேர்ந்து வாழ > நினைக்காதீர்கள். (சுதந்திரம் அனைத்தும் பறிபோகும்)** > **02) பேரக் குழந்தைகளின் மேல் எவ்வித உரிமையும் இல்லை என்பதை > மறக்கவேண்டாம். குழந்தை வளர்ப்பில் மகனுக்கோ மகளுக்கோ எவ்வித அறிவுரையும் > சொல்லாதீர்கள். அறிவுரை மற்றும் அனுபவங்களை அவர்கள் மதிக்க மாட்டார்கள்** > **03) விலகியே இருங்கள். உறவுகள் இனிமையாகத் தான் இருக்கும். என் பிள்ளை என் > பிள்ளை என பதறாதீர்கள்.** > **சிறகு முளைத்த பறவைகள் அவர்கள் என்பதை நினைத்து அமைதியாக இருங்கள்** > **04) பொருள் இல்லார்க்கு இவ்வுலகம் இல்லை. கையில் பணம் இல்லாவிட்டால், > பிள்ளைகளிடம் மதிப்பும், மரியாதையும், உரிமையும் நிச்சயம் இருக்காது. > சேமிப்பு மற்றும் சுய சம்பாத்திய சொத்துக்களை உயிருடன் இருக்கும் வரை > யாருக்கும் பகிர வேண்டாம். முழுவதும் பகிர்ந்தால், நிற்க வேண்டியது > நடுத்தெருவில் தான்.** > **05) காலம் முழுதும் அவர்கள் உயர்வுக்காக பாடுபட்டு பல இழப்புகளை சந்தித்து > இருப்பீர்கள். அவற்றை திரும்பத் திரும்ப சொல்லி காட்ட வேண்டாம். கடமையை > செய்தீர்கள். அவ்வளவே!** > **06) கூட்டு குடும்ப வாழ்வு சிதைந்துபோன தலைமுறையில் வாழ்கிறோம் என்பதை > மறவாதீர்கள். தேவைப்பட்டால், வருடம் ஒருமுறை பரிசுப் பொருட்களுடன் சென்று > பேரன் பேத்திகளுடன் சந்தோஷமாக இருந்து வாருங்கள். அங்கே அதிகம் தங்க > வேண்டாம்.** > **07) எந்த நேரத்திலும் மருமகள் முன் மனைவியை /கணவனை விட்டுக் கொடுத்து > பேசாதீர்கள். இருவரில் ஒருவரை யார் குறைத்து பேசினாலும் எதிர்குரல் கொடுக்கத் > தவறாதீர்கள். பிள்ளைகள் வீட்டிற்கு சென்றால், கூடவே தேவையான மருந்து > மாத்திரை, எண்ணெய், பவுடர்,சீப்பு,சோப், போன்றவற்றை எடுத்து செல்லுங்கள்.** > **08) அவர்களின் ஆடம்பர வாழ்வை விமர்சிக்க வேண்டாம். சேமிப்பின் அவசியம் > பற்றி சொல்லி அவமானப்பட வேண்டாம். அவர்கள் வாழ்வது உங்கள் வாழ்க்கை போல் > போராட்ட வாழ்க்கை இல்லை. நவீன கார்பரேட் வாழ்க்கை. 1000 ரூபாயை பெரிதாக > நினைத்தவர்கள். அவர்கள் லட்சங்களை புரட்டி பார்ப்பவர்கள்.** > **09) அதிக பாசம், ஆசை வைத்தால் அது மோசம். அவர்கள் குழந்தையை அவர்கள் > கவனித்துக் கொள்வார்கள். அறிவுரைகளை தவிருங்கள்!** > **10) உங்களை விட அறிவிலும், திறமையிலும் அவர்கள் சிறந்தவர்கள் என்பதை > ஏற்றுக் கொள்ளுங்கள். அல்லது, முட்டாள்களாகவே நடியுங்கள். அப்பொழுது தான் > பிழைப்பீர்கள்!** > **அதிக அறிவுரைகள் இக்கால சந்ததியினருக்கு அறவே பிடிக்காது.* * > **நன்கு படித்திருந்தாலும் நல்ல பதவியிலிருந்து ஓய்வு பெற்றிருந்தாலும் > அவர்கள் முன் தற்குறிகளே.!** > **தலையாட்டும் பொம்மைகளே!!** > * #🤗குடும்ப பாசம் #🚹உளவியல்* > **10 Commandments ! ** > **🌹Senior citizens retired from work after marrying all their children; > The last pages of life will be very interesting and sweet if they follow > the following ten commandments.. 🌹. ** > **01) In any situation, do not think to live with children in the last > part of life. (Freedom will all be taken away)** > **02) Don't forget that grandchildren have no right. Don't give any advice > to your son or daughter in raising a child. They don't value advice and > experience** > **03) Stay Away . Relationships are the sweetest. Don't worry that my > child is my child. ** > **be calm thinking they are birds with wings** > **04) There is no world for the meaningless. If there is no money in hand, > children will not have respect, respect and rights. Don't share savings and > self earned assets until you are alive. If shared completely, stand is in > the middle of the street. ** > **05) You would have faced many losses throughout your life by struggling > for their promotion. Don't say them over and over again. You have done your > duty. That's it! ** > **06) Don't forget that we live in a generation where joint family life is > ruined. If necessary, go once a year with gifts and be happy with > grandchildren. Don't stay there much. ** > **07) Never give up your wife/husband and talk to your daughter-in-law. > Don't forget to give a opposition to anyone who talks down on each other. > When children go home, take necessary medicine, oil, powder, oil, soap etc. > ** > **08) Don't criticize their luxury life. Don't be insulted by the need of > savings. There is no struggle life like your life they live. The modern > corporate life. Those who thought 1000 rupees as big. They are a million > turn around and look. ** > **09) Too much affection, desire is bad. They take care of their baby. > Avoid the advice! ** > **10) Accept that they are better in knowledge and skills than you. Or > just act as fools. Only then will you survive! ** > **Much advices are not liked by the generation. ** > **Even if they study well or retired from a good post, they are > illiterates in front of them.! ** > ---- > *Regards* > *V.Sridharan* > *Trichy* > > -- > You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups > "iyer123" group. > To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an > email to [email protected]. > To view this discussion on the web visit > https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/iyer123/2056130102.1133419.1684901231950%40mail.yahoo.com > <https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/iyer123/2056130102.1133419.1684901231950%40mail.yahoo.com?utm_medium=email&utm_source=footer> > . > -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Thatha_Patty" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to [email protected]. 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