KR Absolutely painful; but the malais is with that stupid son. A man must respect the equality but when that equality is misused, whether a man or woman, must act in such a manner, even a bit rude and crude, or love and methodical, the defaulter must be taught change; just because he is dependent on her 1 lakh all the problems were set in. As I do respect the woman, the Guna of both X and Y DNA must be analysed also, which if termed as ego let it be. A man may live without a woman with great difficulty as he won't be able to invent anything in time; so the need of a woman for the sake of home is a must; but he has nothing to fear about his respect , in any corner of this earth as he has nothing to lose. However, just think, is there any woman in her 11th year, who will say I can remain unmarried; no; her aspirations as biologically made is only to procreate and live as grihini. Because every woman even at 80 years old knows that she is dependent to protect that one part which would pain her, left without protection. It is the truth. Hence only, in this process, the egoistic woman becomes a tennis ball, hit by so many men and regrets that her life is not good. Thus, she needs support. Had the men understood it properly (but always understood as wrongly as a male chauvinism), all women would be amenable. This you can know from the fact, does she behave with her father that way ? why?. Men are stupid who are afraid of her histrionic shouts and screams. In 1980, one of my friend who married a wealthy girl, and in a very senior position was regretting to me about the screaming attitude of his wife; and said he is patient; etc; I suggested to him, hereafter, whenever she shouts and scream, unafraid of the status, to scream back; and to do so wherever she was in public; either she changes or she resigns for a divorce; now he is also of my age; and thereafter she never opened her mouth. Men must decide early as life is so short; and a kid shouting against the mother, is silent against the wife? If he is unwilling to do so, he is the criminal and not the wife. And father can go separate and live the balanced life even as an independent beggar. KR IRS 16 623 NB we add up the problem by trying to be so decent . Civilisation is mutual and make it so.
Venkata Giri: The greatest asset a man should not lose in his last days is his wife It has been 16 days since Lakshmi passed away today. Everything is over with yesterday and all relations have gone to town. To Murugesan At 5 in the morning the storm came and left. This is his 78-year habit. He got up slowly, opened the door and came outside. They were spraying everything in the neighboring houses. It was as if Lakshmi was standing beside him and asking if he would bring a bucket of water. The dot color kolam she puts... He came to mind and disappeared. Grief turned the guts…. Everyone says men shouldn't cry... A man cries twice in his life. When one loses a mother…. When two strings are lost. It is 6 o'clock. As if the son and daughter-in-law are sleeping. The bedroom door is still not open For a minute he looked back at the horse Is Lakshmi 5 .25 still copy ready? Wait a minute... After saying 5 minutes, she appears with a steaming tumbler of coffee... When the bell touched the poor stomach, the hunger came to the limit of the mouth. Suddenly, the bedroom door opened and the boy and daughter-in-law came out He thinks that the coffee will arrive in another 5 minutes.,. The daughter-in-law took the telegram paper in her hand and started reading. In ten minutes she got up from her place... He is ready to drink coffee.. Drinking coffee this morning is such a happy thing for him. If Bondati is gone, does she also lose her hunger, desire, taste, everything? In no time the daughter-in-law brought a cup of brown and coffee colored liquid... Amma tell me that I have a habit of drinking coffee and tavara tumblers... To that she In our house from today No coffee... He was very hurt to say that he was uncle. Lakshmi disappeared in front of Kanna with Kumbakonam degree copy The boy looked at his father's face 8 Maniana Lakshmi Dining Table Diffen Vacchidua.... By nine o'clock nothing had come to the table. After a while, daughter-in-law came and uncle said that from now on breakfast and lunch are not going to be done separately. 78 years of breakfast habit For the second time, the boy looked up and looked at his father. At night, when Lakshmi is having dinner, she does various things That the son and daughter-in-law who go to work eat rasichu only at night, Well, I think we'll see what we do at night What.. When you go to the shopping street, buy 12 chapatis from that North Indian shop. Dal Daruan to touch. Tell me to eat for the night.. The son looked up at his father for the third time. I understood my father's anger and helplessness. Dad, I am going to the shop... I will ask if you will come... He knew that the boy wanted to talk to him about something and they both left the shopping street When he came near the temple Dad, sit here, I want to talk to you Tell me. I see your face since morning and I understand the pain in it. Mom is gone and sixteen.. By tomorrow everything that tastes good in your mouth is gone with her. Dad.... When you come to get your mother married, tell her that she is eighteen years old and you are twenty three years old... They didn't even look at each other before marriage.. However, there was a wonderful understanding between the two of you. So mother has changed herself according to you in every matter. Every minute she looked at your face and fulfilled your need You and I are your husband even the mother who did that. Get rid of the model that always does what I say. Even if you drive away like that, mother will value your words and live as if your happiness is her happiness. Like you scolded mom... If I had scolded once in all these years of marriage... My marriage will be over that day Yours is a sweet marriage. A wonderful marriage without any ego, fuss, or anti-expectations. Now your daughter-in-law and I are united in marriage. I am the man who tramples Ammi till I fit and says to Arundhati that I will save you till the end. She should also be the woman who says she will never part with you in any life. That is the understanding of a marriage. But our marriage was not like that... When we wake up, there is an ego clash between us. She who gets a salary of one lakh thinks that I am a slave to him... I will see you talking with the arrogance of earning and think of me... Not a single drop has changed in these 25 years of marriage. . We are walking on the daily knife in our life. I am 55 years old and she is... 50 years old. After this division is ugly. Atleast come to your grandson Even if you go and ask her, she will tell you the same thing. Our marriage is not like yours. I got married when I was 29 and she was 24 After we understood each other we dated each other for eight months... In those eight months, everything seemed to be made for each other. After tying a yellow string called thali around her neck... Being who she is, she can no longer take any decision so easily on her own. Man's arrogance that we are the most important person in her life and can't do anything against me.. Oh, so much difference of opinion, what to do? She is also afraid that if she takes a wrong decision, she will have to answer to her husband and relatives around her. Now, we both are playing a beautiful play called a united marriage. I said this is like walking on a knife. This is today's marriage. Dad, all your appetite and taste went with my mother. So, like me, get used to eating what you get when you get it. But spend the remaining days of your marriage, which is a gift from God, father. He said it might be time to buy. Our generation is really the ones who have stuck to his hand. A beautiful family with a wonderful wife, son, grandfather and grandmother who understand each other..... A blessing from God. I understand the life you live.. Looking at all of you, it is really very bad. I will change myself from now on. Don't worry. He said, I will not cause any problem in your family, so be calm. This is the reality of life.. *Life..is to live....*Justice of the story :- If husband and wife live as you or me, that life is definitely hell will be...Married life is paradise only if you and I live together... The greatest asset a man should not lose in his last days is his wife... Real va(li)ries On Fri, 16 Jun 2023 at 08:42, SRIRAMAJAYAM <[email protected]> wrote: > நிஜமான வரி/லிகள். > துயரம் என்னவென்றால் > விவரிக்கப்பட்டுள்ள நிகழ்வு ஒரு ஜாயிண்ட் ஃபேமலியில்... > இன்றைய நிலையில் பல குடும்பங்களில் மகன் மகள் குடும்பங்கள் கலர் கலர் > கார்டுகளுடன் அயல்நாடு வாழ் இந்தியர்களாக இருப்பது தவிர்க்க இயலாத ஒன்று. > முதியோர் இல்லங்கள் பெருகி வருவது இதற்கு சான்று. > நகரமயமாக்கலின் நீட்சியாக பணி நிமித்தமாக அயல்நாடு செல்வதின் சைடு எஃபெக்ட். > 🙏🙏 > > > On Fri, 16 Jun, 2023, 7:38 pm 'venkat giri' via iyer123, < > [email protected]> wrote: > >> *அன்புடையீர்,* >> >> உண்மையான வ(லி)ரிகள் >> ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ >> * Whatsapp Mas as received * >> >> * ஒரு ஆண் தன்னுடைய கடைசிக் காலத்தில் இழக்கக்கூடாத மிகப் பெரிய சொத்து >> அவருடைய மனைவி மட்டும் தான்* >> >> *இன்றுடன் லட்சுமி போய் 16 நாள் ஆகிறது. * >> *நேற்றுடன் எல்லாம் முடிந்து உறவுகள் எல்லாம் ஊருக்கு போயாச்சு.* >> *முருகேசனுக்கு* >> * காலை 5 மணிக்கு முழிப்பு வந்து விட்டது. * >> *இது அவருடைய 78 வருஷ பழக்கம்.* >> *மெதுவாய் எழுந்திருந்து வாசல் கதவைத் திறந்து வெளி வாசல் வந்தார் . * >> >> *பக்கத்து வீடுகளில் எல்லாம் பெருக்கி தெளிச்சு கொண்டு இருந்தார்கள். * >> >> *லட்சுமி பக்கத்தில் நின்று ஏனுங்க ஒரு பக்கெட் தண்ணீர் கொண்டு வந்து >> தருவீர்களா.. என்று கேட்கிற மாதிரியே இருந்தது .* >> *அவள் போடும் புள்ளி வைத்த கலர் கோலம்...* >> *அவர் மனத்தில் வந்து மறைந்தது. * >> *துக்கம் குடலை புரட்டியது....* >> >> *ஆண்கள் அழக் கூடாது என்று எல்லோரும் சொல்வார்கள்...* >> >> * ஆணும் அழத்தான் செய்கிறான் வாழ்வில் இரண்டு முறை. * >> >> >> *ஒன்று தாயை இழக்கும் போது.... * >> *இரண்டு தாரத்தை இழக்கும் போது.* >> >> >> -- > You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups > "iyer123" group. > To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an > email to [email protected]. > To view this discussion on the web visit > https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/iyer123/CAPpJEvrcE8aoKpD01QqyffBgnBc1HWAEE1pT7vbaBgL7rD3R0w%40mail.gmail.com > <https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/iyer123/CAPpJEvrcE8aoKpD01QqyffBgnBc1HWAEE1pT7vbaBgL7rD3R0w%40mail.gmail.com?utm_medium=email&utm_source=footer> > . > -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Thatha_Patty" group. 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