I can't stand taking a shower either, so I've resorted to lukewarm tub baths---which bring along their own set of problems. I hate the feel of the washcloth on my skin, so use my hands to lather. Also, a tip from my doctor re: making things easier. A small squirt of no tears baby shampoo into the tub water makes lathering much easier and is actually good for the skin. Still, the whole bathing scene is one huge pain.
Grace