GUNNY,I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MY PRAYERS OR WITH YOU. PLEASE GET THAT SCANNER SO WE CAN SEE THAT PIC OF YOUR MOM. PAM SANDY, YOU GOT ALOT OF GOOD ADVICE ABOUT YOUR DILEMA. I HOPE YOU WILL FORGIVE YOUR HUSBAND.IF HE TOLD YOU THEN LETS HOPE AND PRAY AND DO SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF LIKE OTHERS HAVE TOLD YOU. I WISH YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND THE BEST AND I WILL PRAY ALL WILL WORK OUT FINE. PAM