Dear Jude,
I am so sorry that your family doesn't understand that you are not in any
condition to visit them. Heck, this isn't anything new for you or them, yet
they choose to behave this way and make you miserable again and again. It's
just not fair how they treat you and I am very sorry for you. They should
have
figured it out by now if they would have paid any sort of attention to what
has been going on with you.
So many of us have had friends and family treat us differently after we've
had TM. I have lost a couple of what I thought were good friends, and many
have had family and/or friends turn on them as well. It hurts, yet we must
continue on with our lives the best we can.
Just know that we all care about you on TMIC. Just wish that more of us
lived closer together and could visit back and forth more.
Hugs, Barbara
In a message dated 12/29/2008 2:07:40 P.M. Pacific Standard Time,
heyjude48...@aol.com writes:
Have many of you had pressure sores that have become infected and are
extremely painful?
I know I only post when it's "rainy weather" but I really need some help.
The problem is that there are two major sores, one on each butt cheek.
I can find no comfortable position.
And my family came through at Christmas time as usual...not one phone call,
not one visitor, not one email.
They were angry because we didn't make it to the get together. I told them
I can only travel by ambulance because I am not allowed to sit at all. They
thought it was a joke.
It's not fair...
I love you guys.
Jude
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