thats a tough one General and interestingly its a topic which we were discussing at cell last week. l don't find it too difficult to forgive but my challenge comes when l forgive and the same person does the same thing again then eish now its complex! What l have adopted as my way of looking at it is 99 out of a 100 chances wen people hurt me it is not their intention to do so, in other words they didn't actually sit down and say right, how l am going to hurt this person? and how do l make it so painful? NO. l take this lesson from my experience where iv hurt someone but inside me l had zero intention to do so.
So like what other guys are saying openly talking abt it and looking at it by saying its not the person that is the problem here there must be something else. in some instances it cld actually be very spiritual or just understanding their past- u knw the saying "hurt people, hurt people!" But panozondinetsa is when it happens again then yah, ma 1!!! -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "tribewithavibe" group. To post to this group, send email to [email protected]. To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [email protected]. For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/tribewithavibe?hl=en.
