All the best families have their occasional punchups, and in fact without them, they wouldn't be the best families. They just have to stop well short of murder, that's all, and that's obvious. I haven't seen anything on the UR-List that approaches murder for a long time now. There is such a thing as free speech, you know.... Just because somebody complains, that shouldn't be an excuse for the police to move in. In real life, that often happens because they are itching to do it anyway, or because they are afraid and too "up tight".

That said, all conflicts that escalate schismogenetically into a war usually happen because the 2 sides are symetrically similar to one another, and there are no 3rd parties present to create "impurities" and more complementary relationships. That is not the case of the UR-List, especially nowadays. Obviously, ListMom is a little afraid that things will get out of hand, as they have sometimes done in the past. So the logic that "nipping it in the bud" seems to apply and be a practical solution. But I don't think it is. This is an ongoing situation of learning, and personally, I have seen that the UR-List is perfectly capable of regulating itself - and very well - most of the time.

I DO hope this is not considered to be a taboo subject or a challenge to authority in any way, because it is not meant to be. I think we should all remember that "being provocative" is one of the most essential elements in creativity. For example, I was very grateful that Richard accidentally "pressed my button" a little bit the other day, and I think it led to results which from my point of view (and possibly from his too) were highly positive.

I now suggest that those of you who are much better at humour than I am step in and do your job! Let's lighten it up folks! Live and LET LIVE (and don't forget the 2nd part of the saying)!

Bob

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