Of course other people can have different values, but it does not mean their values are the correct ones. There can only be one correct set of values for humanity when it comes to right and wrong.
If you are for an open marriage, you are obviously not a Christian. I think you have the right to have an open marriage and the right to call yourself a Christian if you want. But I will state for the record that according to the Bible an open marriage is absolutely wrong, and immoral. However, as a small govt. advocate I would openly stand up for your right to be in an open marriage, or be married to a dozen women if you want. But at the same time I would say that you were living an immoral life that I thought was wrong. In my opinion, rights and freedoms are not to make your life better. They are about keeping you free. Being free may not always be easy or a good experience. Expressing your freedom can get you killed in many areas of the world. However, we are all born with certain rights and freedoms that come from our creator. We have to stand up for those rights and freedoms. Of course people have the choice not to. If they do not stand up for ALL their rights I think they have less moral grounds to complain when someone violates a certain right. For example, those who have no problem with inventors having their technology stolen if it benefits the planet have no moral authority to compalin if an evil person steals from them. Theft is theft. ________________________________ From: Jarold McWilliams <oldja...@hotmail.com> To: thesteornpa...@yahoo.com Sent: Friday, February 24, 2012 6:41 PM Subject: RE: [Vo]:Test day in Greece time Can't someone have different values than you? I am all for open marriage. How am I not a Christian if I favor open marriage? The only purpose of having rights and freedoms is to make your life better. If life is better without freedoms, I don't want freedom. According to you, don't people have the right to support war if they want to? Do people have the right to sell themselves into slavery? Believe it or not, I'm actually more of an outcast than you are, especially on the internet. I don't care what people think about me, either. I don't like to call people names on the internet, but you are making it very hard:). ________________________________ Date: Fri, 24 Feb 2012 14:57:43 -0800 From: thesteornpa...@yahoo.com Subject: Re: [Vo]:Test day in Greece time To: vortex-l@eskimo.com One, the fact is that when it comes to me standing up for my principles, I don't care what people think about me. I would rather they think favorably of me, but if they do not I am not going to let it change my behavior. I have been called all sorts of names for supporting my various beliefs, but I kept on going. I kept on going when it made me an outcast. I eventually embraced it and realized that when people react strongly against you, that is a sign you were bold enough in your declaration of values. If no one opposes you or reacts negatively, you were either preaching to the choir, or cowardly in your presentation. Secondly, when it comes to divorce and marriage, I think the moment someone has sexual relations with someone who is not the spouse the marriage is broken. First of all, it is broken spiritually. This is my personal religious belief. I think the spiritual connection that makes a couple married is cut. Secondly, I think the relationship is severely damaged even on a non-spiritual level. It will be very difficult for one partner to trust the other. I don't think the person who was cheated on will ever view the cheater in the same way again. Third, there are all kinds of other issues to do with. For example, the FACT that if someone cheats once they are likely to cheat again. If a couple wants to stay married that is one thing, but I think it is unprincipled. I am not married and have never been, but if I were married and my spouse cheated on me, I would strive to get the divorce done and over with ASAP. Thankfully, I've not been in a situation this horrible personally, but I've been in other situations were principled decisions yielded significant consequences. Of course if a couple are not Christian and have an "open marriage" and have no problem with sex outside the confounds of marriage, then "cheating" is not an issue at all. Third, I am a Christian, but many Christians are not real Christians. For example, consider the countless neo-cons in the United States that promote the idea of going to war with Iran and other Middle Eastern nations. They are rabid about this, and despise liberals. I have brought up the fact that many so called Christians have turned into blood thirsty warmongers by supporting wars with Iran and other nations, and have been attacked for it. I know how Christians think about this issue. Fourth, the simple fact is that when it comes to certain issues, there can be no ethical compromise. My religious views on marriage is one example. Standing up for rights and freedoms (property rights) is another example. For many things there is a need for compromise. But when it comes to rights and freedoms there is no room for compromise. ________________________________ From: OrionWorks - Steven V Johnson <svj.orionwo...@gmail.com> To: vortex-l <vortex-l@eskimo.com> Sent: Friday, February 24, 2012 4:17 PM Subject: Re: [Vo]:Test day in Greece time It's been a slow-news Friday afternoon, so please accept my apologies for continuing this protracted discussion with noone noone: The world according to noone noone: > If I invented a billion dollar technology and someone copied > it without my permission, I would not accept a trillion > dollars from a lawsuit. > > The only thing I would accept is for the other company to be > forced to re-call all their products. Then I would make money > by selling the products from my own company. > > When it comes to sticking to my principles, it does not > matter what people think of me. It's been my experience that when I hear people boast that they don't care "...what other people think about [them]." they are essentially trying to convince themselves that they have found a magic bullet that allows themselves to become immune to what other people think about them. It matters, noone. It always matters. It's learning how to DEAL with how others think about you... that is a lesson in life we all must face. Its learning to find one's personal center. It's learning how to discover one's sense of personal integrity so that one can subsequently withstand the onslaught of external pressures demanding that we conform to specific social taboos. Quite frankly, it looks to me as if you are trying to remove yourself from having to deal with the anticipation of personal pain you fear you will feel based on what you fear others might say about you or think about you. You think you can avoid this lesson? Think again. Avoiding that lesson only means it will come back in another scenario again, and again, until you have the courage to pass through that fire. > I'm the kind of person who goes into church and asks > Christians, "who would Jesus bomb." At that point I'm > automatically considered an evil liberal. I have no idea how making such a statement about whom "...Jesus would bomb" could possibly cause ANYONE to assume that you must therefore be an "evil liberal." Are you sure you are reading their responses accurately, or is it possible that you hope you will be labeled as an "evil liberal" so that it gives you additional justification to dismiss how others will perceive you. From what you have told me so far, what all this seems to boil down to is the fact that you seem to be fishing around for convenient ways in which to avoid having to deal with how you fear others will perceive you. > In this life you can usually take two roads when it > comes to most decisions. The first road is the one that > is a compromise of your principles, and branches out to > many different roads. This road is often easier to ride > on, has fewer bumps, and makes a commute easy. The second > road is the one where you refuse to budge one inch on your > principles. It is full of bumps, and can easily get you a > flat tire. For example, a woman divorcing her husband after > being cheated on (THE FIRST TIME) despite having ten kids > and no way to financially support them, and her husband > apologizing. Divorce is the only appropriate answer, even > if it could mean the kids end up being sent to orphanages > and never seeing each other again. Some may say she should > have not divorced her husband, but I believe her principles > are more important than anything else. I get the sense that certain elements pertaining to this hypothetical "divorce" scenario you have brought up may have touched on something that actually happened to you. In what capacity, I don't know. Nevertheless, you have my sympathies. Seeking counsel from individuals one has learned to trust is recommended. It can help. Now, in regards to the infidelity issue you cite here... quite frankly, noone, you are NOT dealing with "principle" here, even though you claim you are. The actions you cite have NOTHING to do with sticking to one's "principles". To be perfectly blunt, you just don't want to deal with the complexities of what a dynamic relationship sometimes brings forth between two individuals. Sticking to the principals you cite here means you don't want to deal with WHY a spouse might have in the first place temporarily wandered from the sacred bonds and emotional security of marriage. You are using the excuse of sticking to your principles so that you can avoid some potential unpleasant soul-searching on your own part. What are you really afraid of? That maybe you'll discover the fact that you're just as imperfect as your spouse? After entering into discussion maybe a couple WILL discover the sad fact that they actually SHOULD separate, but then maybe such a drastic decision is unwarranted. Your "principals" would allow for no opportunity to explore all the choices - except for your "principal" of avoiding the whole matter altogether. > If I were Andrea Rossi and if my technology had been copied > without permission (I'm not saying it has) I would let the > world consider me the most evil man in history. I would > sleep just fine at night knowing that I did the right > thing, by standing up for not only my rights, and the > property rights of all other inventors. > > A world without absolute rights is not worth living in. Sadly, > the way the world is going, individuals are having their > rights violated more and more each day. You seem to be battling some interesting windmills in your life. You might want to listen to Sancho on occasion. Regards Steven Vincent Johnson www.OrionWorks.com www.zazzle.com/orionworks