Hi Daniel and thank you.

I  have already done the things you suggest for FaceTime.
That’s what frustrates me a little.

But I guess having the same Apple ID brings a couple of trade offs.

> On 12 Nov 2019, at 11:37 am, Daniel Kerr <wa...@macwizardry.com.au> wrote:
> 
> Hi Stephen
> 
> You can’t really “Decide” who gets the calls coming in. Do you both get each 
> others iMessages as well? Or just the calls?
> But one “work around” you can use is the following - 
> Go to Settings - FaceTime. Under “You can be reached by FaceTime at”, untick 
> your wife phone number. - you can do the same on hers for your number too if 
> her’s rings for yours.
> You can also do this in iMessage as well if you get the same text messages.
> Settings - Messages - “Send & Receive” will show a number of addresses. Tap 
> that. Deselect the one you don’t want to show.
> 
> That’s a quick and nasty way to do it if sharing the same AppleID.
> There’s a “better” way you can have seperate ones….but it’s quite involved to 
> set it u (kinda).
> But you can both have seperate ones and still have access to shared Contacts 
> and Calendars.
> 
> When sharing the same AppleID you can’t iMessage or FaceTime each other - as 
> you’re both on the same AppleID so it naturally assumes you can’t call 
> yourself :)
> 
> Kind regards
> Daniel
> 
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>> On 12 Nov 2019, at 9:23 am, Stephen Chape <chap...@bigpond.com> wrote:
>> 
>> Thank you Peter.
>> I will take a look at Family Sharing.
>> 
>>> On 12 Nov 2019, at 8:34 am, Peter Hinchliffe <hinch...@multiline.com.au> 
>>> wrote:
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>>> On 12 Nov 2019, at 8:02 am, Stephen Chape <chap...@bigpond.com> wrote:
>>>> 
>>>> Hi Peter.
>>>> I assume iTunes = iCloud.
>>>> 
>>>> Yes we do … and I figured that could be the reason.
>>>> But we do this so that we don’t keep (and update) two separate Contacts 
>>>> and Calendars.
>>>> 
>>>> If this is the reason, is there no way around both iPhones receiving the 
>>>> same FaceTime calls ?
>>>> Seems crazy to me !
>>> 
>>> Well, not really, because the call is coming to the account, not the 
>>> device. And sorry - I should have said Apple ID rather than iTunes or even 
>>> iCloud. You want to share the Contacts and the Calendars, but Facetime 
>>> calls come in the same bag. 
>>> 
>>> I’ve never used it, but you might want to look at the options available in 
>>> Family Sharing. Others might have more useful advice in that regard.
>>> 
>>> 
>>> Kind regards,
>>> 
>>> Peter Hinchliffe        Apwin Computer Services
>>> FileMaker Pro Solutions Developer
>>> Perth, Western Australia
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>> Regards,
>> Stephen Chape
>> 
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