It is said that one of the biggest challenges with communication lies in
"perception" by the receiver. Personally, i have painstakingly learnt over time
to detach emotions when receiving info.
I am left wondering how west nile as a region will progress given our levels of
tolerance among the "elite". BTW, tolerating does not tantamount to condoning.
May the soul of H.E. John Atta Mills rest in peace. I trust the maturity
of Ghanaians to sail thru this period. Can Uganda emulate when the time comes?
Patrick Onen Ezaga
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+256-70-1511947
"God never makes mistakes ... you are therefore not a mistake”
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From: anthony ajiku <aaj...@yahoo.com>
To: A Virtual Network for friends of West Nile <westnilenet@kym.net>
Sent: Tuesday, July 24, 2012 4:40 PM
Subject: Re: [WestNileNet] Fw: De-registration
Thank you very much Robert............Kefa too, but please do not de-register
because of this.............
Awadifo
A
From: Robert Ejiku <ejikurob...@gmail.com>
To: A Virtual Network for friends of West Nile <westnilenet@kym.net>
Sent: Tuesday, July 24, 2012 11:13 AM
Subject: Re: [WestNileNet] Fw: De-registration
Christine, we can now let go of this as Kefa promptly apologized. We make his
apology sound unacceptable by continuing with these arguments..
Good day my sister..
Ejiku
On Tue, Jul 24, 2012 at 10:08 AM, Christine Munduru <cmund...@gmail.com> wrote:
Thanks Richard for this comment and the questions you have raised. I really
dont think that nobody in this forum is still unaware of these things happening
but we are saying, whatever motive this person had, it does not address any of
the problems, instead it is a toxic communication, it causes no alarm for
anybody in this forum in my view. If we need to sensitize our youth, this kind
of packaging is very toxic instead. I would go by Ejiku's comment that it was a
mistake, we should accept this was a mistake and should not be done again in
this forum instead of defending using lame excuses. As leaders we should stand
for something, not fall for everything.
>
>Christine
>
>On Tue, Jul 24, 2012 at 9:51 AM, Okuti Richard <ok...@asili.co.ug> wrote:
>Now some humor to crown this discussion,
>>
>>Let’s learn and let go personally I feel differently about the postings
>>especially after being one of the first people to caution the person who
>>posted. There has been increased advancement in media and technology that
>>everything you see, you must be careful to study and understand before you
>>reach conclusions or share…
>>
>>Some of the questions that come to mind include;
>>
>>1. What was the motive of the photographer?
>>2. Are these genuine original pictures? Were they taken in a public place
>>etc
>>3. Would this then be the best way to package a warning to the minors or
>>parents?
>>4. Many many more queries …
>>
>>Personally I found them irrelevant for our group and indeed not in bad faith,
>>but because they were very mixed what if adults in love may have thought they
>>were private in some cases (Caught!)? And the story goes on and on. Some of
>>them were actually disgusting and poor, if they were meant for warning or
>>entertainment which ever way one looks at it.
>>
>>I love romance on the beach, in gardens and many other places (of course I do
>>not make love in public places …) but with todays media it is difficult to do
>>this one has to watch out for spying information hangry hombres J. I actually
>>even write about romance eg read twisted spirit on my blog:
>>okuti.blogspot.com
>>
>>Anyway Men & Women of the forum life is a journey lets relax sometimes
>>
>>
>>Richard
>>
>>From:westnilenet-boun...@kym.net [mailto:westnilenet-boun...@kym.net] On
>>Behalf Of Robert Ejiku
>>Sent: Monday, July 23, 2012 9:37 PM
>>To: A Virtual Network for friends of West NileSubject: Re: [WestNileNet] Fw:
>>De-registration
>>
>>Thanks Caleb,
>>
>>Interestingly if Kefa was just seeing this for the first time, these pictures
>>have been beamed to the world before about two years ago supposedly taken
>>from a park in Kisumu.
>>
>>Kamunye and the onion have these pictures on the front pages of their
>>publications. Everytime you stop to buy papers these are the first things we
>>see.
>>
>>This is an adult forum and I dont think it was really intended to cause its
>>propagation but to demonstrate what our society has become.
>>
>>The church theft by the same argument could be naively interpreted as a war
>>against our good christians, depicting them as thieves. Why believe in the
>>church. I think it really tells has how far we have come or are prepared to
>>go.
>>
>>My humble opinion.
>>
>>
>>Ejiku
>>On Mon, Jul 23, 2012 at 9:16 PM, Caleb Alaka <calebal...@yahoo.com> wrote:
>>Kefa,
>>
>>This forum is not owned by any person. It is owned by you, me, and the rest.
>>Having appropriately, conveyed your apologies, why have you decided to be
>>de-registered. By the way, some person on the forum applauded your posting. I
>>think I too did the same. We learn a lot from such forum. To seek your
>>de-registration is to acknowledge that you are the problem. My humble opinion
>>is that, we should inculcate the culture of tolerance of divergent views.
>>This fora is a market place were ideas are traded. Not every one may buy the
>>others idea and there is no rule of the thumb or universal interpretation for
>>determining the morality of any posting. It is noteworthy that the starting
>>point to the understanding any posting or document is that it must be read in
>>its entirety and contextualise the same. What will those who are posturing
>>and pontificating as moral crusaders do when a bisexual person wants his/her
>>voice to be heard on this forum, shall we say that
their we're no bisexual persons in the bible(what of Lots Story), shall we say
that it's against African culture, (what will the scholars of African
traditional Religion who knew that several African communities practiced the
same say, Historians will tell u some thing else. Yes we have mothers, sisters,
daughters aunties. But who said the posting at Botanical gardens was about the
female gender alone, ev
>>It was about irresponsible men and Women. No gender should therefore cry foul
>>as if the posting targeted only the female gender. When the play "Vagina
>>Monologues" was banned by Government was it not the highly rated female
>>gender oriented NGO's and Civil societies led by highly qualified women who
>>cried foul. Kefa, you exposed rot at beaches, you should not have apologized
>>after all you put a rider akin to movies were some are rated as VS (violent
>>and sex ..) you haven't insulted the Pope, the ArchBishop of Canterbury or
>>the Supreme Mufti. You have exposed moral decadence and those who want to
>>pretend that it is the first time they have seen such should as Jesus said be
>>the first to hurl a stone on you.
>>
>>Sent from my iPhone
>>
>>On Jul 23, 2012, at 20:02, atibuni kefa <atibu...@yahoo.com> wrote:
>>Dear all,
>>>Accept my sincere apologies for the terrible misnomer. My intent was not to
>>>split this nice electronic meeting table. I deeply regret the injury the
>>>posting tagged “Botanical garden…” has caused.
>>>I thought I was only sending an alert to the huge West Nile community in
>>>Entebbe where those pictures were taken. They were not computer tricks as
>>>insinuated by some colleagues. I did make an innocent mistake.
>>>Dear Kiggs Kindly deregister me from the List serve so that folks can
>>>continue discussing development as usual.
>>>Kefa
>>>
>>>--- On Mon, 7/23/12, leku joel <lekuj...@yahoo.com> wrote:
>>>
>>>>From: leku joel <lekuj...@yahoo.com>
>>>>Subject: Re: [WestNileNet] Fw: De-registration
>>>>To: "A Virtual Network for friends of West Nile" <westnilenet@kym.net>
>>>>Date: Monday, July 23, 2012, 5:43 AM
>>>>Members are getting de-registered,,,,,,,,,the nudity was regrettable on
>>>>this forum
>>>>
>>>>From:harriet alioru <hartie...@yahoo.com>
>>>>To: westnilenet@kym.net
>>>>Sent: Monday, July 23, 2012 5:07 AM
>>>>Subject: [WestNileNet] Fw: De-registration
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>Please deregister me from this too.
>>>>Thank you
>>>>--- On Mon, 9/12/11, Pamela Paparu <pamela.obe...@hotmail.com> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>>From: Pamela Paparu <pamela.obe...@hotmail.com>
>>>>>Subject: [WestNileNet] De-registration
>>>>>To: "Westnile Foundation" <westnilenet@kym.net>
>>>>>Date: Monday, September 12, 2011, 7:26 AM
>>>>>Dear Kiggundu,
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>>>>>Please kindly de-register me.
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