I’ve been too stunned to find the words today – but you have all said it so 
beautifully.  I had heard so much about Lou, the mysterious yoga teacher who 
had swept Claire off her feet and blazed all sorts of new trails with her in 
New Zealand, before meeting him at the 2015 reunion, and he was just the 
sweetest and most grounded guy, so humble and generous and appreciative of 
everything and everyone around him.  It was radiantly clear that week, as 
Tarissa and others have said, that the two of them shared something truly 
special together – something deeper than just their far-flung adventures as 
travelers and their business ventures as leaders in the yoga field.  Some kind 
of inner light, and toughness and courage too.  Like Bruce, I just can’t 
conceive of this news as reality.  We love you Claire -- and David you’re as 
great and true a friend as there ever was.  Thanks for breaking this to us, 
Madge, I know that wasn’t easy.

cs

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Date: Monday, May 13, 2024 at 2:14 PM
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Oh, Madge, this is exactly what Terry wrote. Horrible and terrible. Lou was a 
lovely, calming, devoted human being and a perfect companion to Claire. If you 
or anyone hears of any way to help Claire from afar, I know we all would hope 
to be there for her.

Please tell David thank you for his wrenchingly loving report.

Love,
Alice



On May 13, 2024, at 12:33 PM, 'TERRY GALLOWAY' via Shakespeare at Winedale 
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This is shocking g , terrible news! Lou was the sweetest man alive.
 Madge, please tell Claire we love her and grieve his death with her.
Love
Terry
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On May 13, 2024, at 12:15 PM, Madge Darlington <mmdarling...@gmail.com> wrote:

Hi friends,

Sad news this morning. Lou Cassella, Claire Szabo-Cassella's husband and one of 
her main caregivers, died last night. David Ziegler is with Claire. He told me 
he would give more detail on this list later, but I could let people know.

Lou came to the 45th Reunion with Claire so she could participate. He was a 
loving, gentle presence with us that week.

If you do not already follow Claire's Red Scooter 
Diaries<https://redscooterdiaries.com/>, please have a look. You can read Lou's 
contributions under Confessions of a 
Caregiver<https://redscooterdiaries.com/2018/02/21/confessions-of-a-caregiver-vol-1-first-comes-love/>.
 The website also offers ways to support Claire.

Claire, we are all sending you so much love. David, thank you for being there 
for both Claire and Lou.

Much love to all,
Madge
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The University of Texas at Austin
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