The real truth is that you are interested in that person. When she shows opinions, experiences and feelings, that is interesting. When she is sleeping, that is interesting.
The current moment is full of interest. If we attend to that, then we attend to people, their opinions, the help they could use, the help they can offer, the dew in the morning, and the weather, as appropriate. On Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 7:05 AM, ED <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > Bill, > > Exactly! And the same is true about experiences and feelings. Imagine the > conequences of telling your partner the real truth: > > That you are not really interested in her opinions, experiences or > feelings, but only pretend to do so to make her happy! ;-) > > --ED > > > > --- In [email protected], "Bill!" <BillSmart@...> wrote: > > > > ED, > > > > If I might jump in here... > > > > You think this. You think that. So what? > > > > Just be. Just experience. Just THIS! > > > > ...Bill! > > > > --- In [email protected], "ED" seacrofter001@ wrote: > > > > > > JM, I think the Buddha would have been a lot more laid-back and a lot > > > less gung-ho than you! ;-) > > > > > > > --- In [email protected], Jue Miao Jing Ming wrote: > > > > > > > > ED, you slipped away from my net again. :-) Yet, is it my net? or > > > > Buddha's? > > >
