> ED, > > IMO... > > My point is if you are purposely or consciously performing a 'kind' act, then you have missed the mark.
Bill, IMO ... Until performing acts of kindness become second nature and are performed without thought, do perform them consciously. > Like all such labels or categorizations, the qualifier of 'kind' or 'good' or 'bad' or 'compassionate', etc..., is placed on actions by your discriminating mind, or someone else's discriminating mind. Until performing acts of kindness become second nature and are performed without thought, do perform them consciously. > If before you take the action you classify it as 'kindly' you miss the mark by a large margin. (In this case you are projecting an action, judging or classifying it and perhaps only acting if it passes judgement or is classified as 'good'. Until performing acts of kindness become second nature and are performed without thought, do perform them consciously. > If while you are engaged in the action you classify it as 'kindly' you miss the mark. (In this case you may have acted spontaneously and without motive, but your discriminating mind has kicked in and is starting to judge and classify.) Until performing acts of kindness become second nature and are performed without thought, do perform them consciously. > If after the action has been completed you classify it as 'kindly' you miss the mark only slightly. (In this case you may have not missed the mark before or while acting, but you have missed the mark by applying judgement or categorizing your action after-the-fact.) Until performing acts of kindness become second nature and are performed without thought, do perform them consciously. > As in the zen teaching story I related, only if you do not consider anything you do 'kindly' or 'special' do you squarely hit the mark. Until performing acts of kindness become second nature and are performed without thought, do perform them consciously. > Others may observe your actions and call them 'kindly' or 'selfish', but that's up to them to make that judgement. It should not a concern of yours at all. > > ...Bill! Until performing acts of kindness become second nature and are performed without thought, do perform them consciously. --ED > > Bill, > > > > Non-judgmentally, every person is 'just THIS' in the evolution of > > his/her 'kindness'. > > > > --ED
