you are right avinashji, it depends on family structure. if both the parents are disabled then we get major role in all the functions. in my home both of us are visually impaired. our son's birthday party or any function related our house we actively participate in arrangements. i feel if one partner is sighted then definately it will happen what you said. i have seen some visually impaired friend's families where wife is sighted and she takes mmajor decisions in arranging things. husband gives only money but cannot participate in arrangements of functions. though he knows more his opinions are not considered much.
On 11/15/19, avinash shahi <shahi88avin...@gmail.com> wrote: > It sounds you are thinking too much sir,. > I have attended birthday parties of kids whose both parants are > totally blind. They plan and execute arrangements quite well amidst > limitations. But I agree if a blind person is in minority in his/her > family then he/she refrains from doing those things which he/she would > happily do otherwise in his/her community of blind people. > > On 11/15/19, Asudani, Rajesh <rajeshasud...@rbi.org.in> wrote: >> Disability is a supervening factor. >> It affects not only bargaining power, but all facets of life. >> >> Let the deniers deny that endlessly to boast their self confidence. >> >> For Instance, my son is celebrating his eighth birthday today and I find >> myself highly restricted to do anything significant for the occasion, >> while >> my wife is busy arranging and planning without blaming me. >> >> >> सादर / With thanks & Regards >> राजेश आसुदानी Rajesh Asudani >> सहायक महाप्रबन्धक AGM >> बाजार आसूचना ईकाई MIU >> भारतीय रिजर्व बैंक Reserve Bank of India >> नागपुर Nagpur >> >> 0712 2806846 >> >> President >> VIBEWA >> Co-Moderator >> VIB-India >> President >> DARE-Disability Advocacy, Research and Education >> A-pilll = Action coupled with Positivity, Interest, Love, Logic and >> laughter >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >> Behalf >> Of turab chimthanawala >> Sent: 14 November 2019 18:04 >> To: accessindia >> Subject: [AI] Bargaining power being limited by disability >> >> Hi all, >> While I have come a long way in terms of acceptance and independenb >> operation with disability, a couple of days back as I was upset with my >> mother for calling out out my domestic help for a filthy kitchen (out of a >> fear that she might not come to work the following day). 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