Rahul
I don't have any special recorder
but I use my phone to record lectures


On 12/1/11, Pamnani <kanchanpamn...@gmail.com> wrote:
> Rahul, get rid of him immediately. Dont even wait for next February or
> March.
> You have heard from everyone and you agree so take theplunge. Dont waste
> time.
> Kanchan Pamnani
> Advocate & Solicitor
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> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Rahul Bajaj" <rahul.bajaj10...@gmail.com>
> To: <accessindia@accessindia.org.in>
> Sent: Thursday, December 01, 2011 7:06 PM
> Subject: Re: [AI] Socialising
>
>
>> Vamshi Sir,
>>
>> No, the sighted guide doesn't actually sit with me, but, yes, he does
>> sit at another place in the class to take notes for me.
>> However, the suggestions that you all have given about using a laptop
>> or something similar are actually quite executable.
>> In fact, I have myself been thinking about doing something along those
>> lines after completing 12th.
>> Anyway, they don't really give you a lot of stuff to write in college.
>> I can also ask the teachers to give me a copy of their own notes.
>>
>> But the main thing that I need to change, if I wish to do these
>> things, is my attitude.
>> I have this feeling that I might unnecessarily bother someone by
>> asking that person to help me.
>> The only good thing is that  I can at least openly say that these are
>> the problems that I have.
>>
>>
>> On 01/12/2011, Vamshi. G <gvamsh...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>> Rahul,
>>>
>>> Now, this is something serious.  Are you saying your sighted guide
>>> sits with you in the class and takes down the notes?  This is not
>>> good, not just for your academics, but also from the socialising point
>>> of view.
>>> You write your mails without any mistakes.  So, as others advised, Use
>>> portable devices for your academics.  Once you take a laptop with Jaws
>>> installed and use it in your class, see how many friends you will be
>>> getting.
>>>
>>>
>>> On 12/1/11, Asudani, Rajesh <rajeshasud...@rbi.org.in> wrote:
>>>> Why don't you use the laptop to take down the notes?
>>>>
>>>> Or record them?
>>>> Maybe, because the teachers don't vocalize all that they write on the
>>>> blackboard, right?
>>>> We have to press for it as it  is the reasonable accommodation in
>>>> education
>>>> for blind...
>>>>
>>>> Anyway, all through  my educational career, I hardly found notes given
>>>> by
>>>> teachers in the classroom worth noting down or preserving, and so never
>>>> bothered to ask them to vocalize, even though some sweet-voiced  madams
>>>> did
>>>> do it on their own...
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> -----Original Message-----
>>>> From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in
>>>> [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Rahul Bajaj
>>>> Sent: Thursday, December 01, 2011 3:46 PM
>>>> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
>>>> Subject: Re: [AI] Socialising
>>>>
>>>> Yeah, that is a good idea.
>>>> Even I was thinking that I should do that after 12th.
>>>>  Usually, when the sighted escort is not available, I go with my driver
>>>> only.
>>>>   A driver is more than enough.
>>>> But the only problem is that I need someone to note down what is
>>>> taught in the class.
>>>>
>>>> On 01/12/2011, Asudani, Rajesh <rajeshasud...@rbi.org.in> wrote:
>>>>> Good Rahul.
>>>>> My theory about escorts says that totally blind person should opt for
>>>>> escort
>>>>> if the escort is available, affordable and there are no privacy
>>>>> concerns.
>>>>> In your case, escort is available/affordable.
>>>>> But there are privacy concerns.
>>>>>
>>>>> However, Rahul, when you have a driver, I don't think you require a
>>>>> separate
>>>>> sighted escort.
>>>>> Driver can drop you wherever you wish and then mobility inside is not
>>>>> such
>>>>> a
>>>>> big issue.
>>>>> Friends and people around are sufficient.
>>>>>
>>>>> So, with a driver, I do not think you need a separate escort.
>>>>>
>>>>> Learning basic handling of cane etc. is of course called for.
>>>>> I advocate escorts mainly for outside mobility which is of course
>>>>> reduced
>>>>> in
>>>>> your case, since you use a private transport with a fixed driver.
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> -----Original Message-----
>>>>> From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in
>>>>> [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Rahul
>>>>> Bajaj
>>>>> Sent: Thursday, December 01, 2011 2:19 PM
>>>>> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
>>>>> Subject: Re: [AI] Socialising
>>>>>
>>>>> Rajesh Sir,
>>>>>
>>>>> I completely agree with you.
>>>>> In fact, even I think that privacy can be an issue when one is with an
>>>>> escort.
>>>>>
>>>>> It is for this reason that I always try to ensure that my friends
>>>>> don't feel like they're being constantly scrutinized by an outsider.
>>>>> Once, when a very good sighted friend of mine had called me for his
>>>>> birthday party, I asked my sighted guide to drop me to the place where
>>>>> I and my friends were going to meet.
>>>>> I told him that I would call him after the party and asked him to wait
>>>>> in the car till then.
>>>>>
>>>>> On another occasion, when me and my friends went for a movie, I asked
>>>>> my sighted guide to drop me to my seat and to go and sit at a
>>>>> different place.
>>>>>
>>>>> Am I doing enough?
>>>>> Is there anything else that you can suggest to deal with this issue of
>>>>> privacy?
>>>>>
>>>>> BTW, which are the other requirements of your theory about
>>>>> desirability of escorts? :)
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> On 01/12/2011, Rahul Bajaj <rahul.bajaj10...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>> Ravindra Sir,
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I really appreciate your suggestions.
>>>>>> However, it would be wrong to assert that I'm concentrating on
>>>>>> socialising at the cost of my studies.
>>>>>>  In fact, my parents and others who know me say that my main problem
>>>>>> is that I study way too much :P
>>>>>> Studies can only take you so far in life.
>>>>>> Anyway, thank you for your wishes, and I'll keep your suggestions in
>>>>>> mind.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> On 01/12/2011, Asudani, Rajesh <rajeshasud...@rbi.org.in> wrote:
>>>>>>> Well, I can fully understand rahul's predicament.
>>>>>>> So, advice to concentrate on studies and so on is too, too moralistic
>>>>>>> and
>>>>>>> beside the point.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Specifically Rahul, here the third requirement of my theorum about
>>>>>>> desirability of escorts is being violated, i.e. the constant sighted
>>>>>>> escort
>>>>>>> is intruding upon your privacy and your friends may not like it and
>>>>>>> consider
>>>>>>> you an intrusion.
>>>>>>> So, try to restrict your sighted escort to the essential tasks and
>>>>>>> not
>>>>>>> use
>>>>>>> him/her for collective activities such as outings with friends.
>>>>>>> I know you will have to work your way to it.
>>>>>>> All the best.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> -----Original Message-----
>>>>>>> From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in
>>>>>>> [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra
>>>>>>> Jadhav
>>>>>>> Sent: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 7:00 PM
>>>>>>> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
>>>>>>> Subject: Re: [AI] Socialising
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> High Rahul,
>>>>>>> Why do you like someone's company?
>>>>>>> I fully agree with this sentence.
>>>>>>> I think first of all you concentrate more on your study.
>>>>>>> Best of luck for your HSC exam.
>>>>>>> Don't thinks negative.
>>>>>>> Now see how many reply come to you?
>>>>>>> These are all friends, so why are you worry?
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> On 11/30/11, ekinath ekinath <ekin...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>>>> Hey Rahul,
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>  Got some time from office work so couldn't stop butting in.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> All brilliant points except one where there is a need mentioned for
>>>>>>>> discussing it out with your friends. In my opinion, should not be
>>>>>>>> done
>>>>>>>> so, you will only seek sympathy and would emotionally induce your
>>>>>>>> friends to hang out with you but they would not get convinced. DO it
>>>>>>>> through action and performance.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> How?
>>>>>>>> Buddy, think little practically by keeping aside depressing emotions
>>>>>>>> for a little time. Why do you like someone's company?
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Are you getting some answers?
>>>>>>>> It's your independence of mobility, body language, personality,
>>>>>>>> talking skills, knowledge of relevant things, flexibility and
>>>>>>>> rendering help. Cheerful smile and sense of humor attract embrace
>>>>>>>> from
>>>>>>>> people.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> You must be possessing many of above mentioned qualities. Capitalize
>>>>>>>> on it. People will not come to you unless they believe that you add
>>>>>>>> value to their lives in any which way. To be specific, try to
>>>>>>>> normalize your life style as much as you can with your mainstream
>>>>>>>> peers.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> You should be at least partially independent in mobility to gain
>>>>>>>> others confidence in you.
>>>>>>>> How do you walk to your place after getting down from your car?
>>>>>>>> Who picks up your bag and carry it?
>>>>>>>> Does always your aid only find things for you before you extend your
>>>>>>>> hands?
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Then time to thing and act my friend.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Even though blessed with multiple difficulties, I have lived an
>>>>>>>> excellent college life. And those joyous moments and friends are
>>>>>>>> real
>>>>>>>> treasures of my life. Therefore, make the most of it. That time
>>>>>>>> never
>>>>>>>> comes back.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Finally, keep your head high exuberating brilliance, confidence and
>>>>>>>> substance with a little smile and things will fall in place.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Good luck
>>>>>>>> Do call me on Sundays if need be. I would like to know about a girl
>>>>>>>> you
>>>>>>>> like.
>>>>>>>> Joking. Haha!
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Pardon me if you didn't like any of the things mentioned above.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> ~Cheers
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> On 11/27/11, Rahul Bajaj <rahul.bajaj10...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>>>>> Hi all,
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> I hope you all are well.
>>>>>>>>> Like I've mentioned in my earlier posts, I'm 17 and am currently in
>>>>>>>>> 12th
>>>>>>>>> grade.
>>>>>>>>> I have quite a few sighted friends, but I've noticed that they
>>>>>>>>> hardly
>>>>>>>>> ever call me when they go for movies, have birthday parties or have
>>>>>>>>> get-togethers.
>>>>>>>>> I feel that my visual impairment is a major reason for this.
>>>>>>>>> We have appointed a sighted guide who goes with me everywhere.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> So, I often get depressed and frustrated when my friends don't call
>>>>>>>>> me.
>>>>>>>>> In fact, for me, this is the biggest challenge that I currently
>>>>>>>>> have
>>>>>>>>> to face due to my visual impairment.
>>>>>>>>> I can't even ask my friends if they don't call me because of my
>>>>>>>>> visual
>>>>>>>>> problem, because none of them will ever admit it.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> So, has anyone here faced this problem?
>>>>>>>>> Please share your views and suggestions.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> Cheers,
>>>>>>>>> Rahul
>>>>>>>>>
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