>This, to my mind, is beyond the pale. The fact that you're unwilling >to 'stop and think' for other people's comfort. The fact that you >are either willfully or ignorantly conflating 'technically acceptable' >and 'I can call people whatever I want and not care about eir >feelings'.
Of course, and my own comfort counts too. Needing to think of pronouns all the time is a big headache lol. Please consider me as well.