Let me clear something up... I'm not saying his comment is a cheap
shot because he called me a woman's name. The reason its a cheap
shot is because its an insult in which he is trying to get me to
insult him back, to make me look like a fool.
And I'm not going to get into this argument, but what's the problem
if I am offended with being called a woman's name? Am I not allowed
to have pride in myself and be proud of who I am because I am a
straight male? Does having self pride, just like women and
homosexuals do in themselves, make me sexist or homophobic???
--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, "Gabrielle Obre"
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> "You calling me by female names is actually pretty much a cheap shot
> at me." - Arcman
>
> sorry..you may be clear, but arcman is NOT. and i don't say this as
a
> rabid feminist, merely pointing it out. sexist men, homophobes,
> racists and the like are simply people with a virus that is rampant
in
> our culture. they are ill, not scary. and arcman, i realize you are
> upset and probably typing quickly so i am not judging seriously
here.
>
>
> --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, "justifiedright"
> <justifiedright@> wrote:
> >
> > Uh uh, Gabby.
> >
> > Neither Arcman or claimed any resentment of being called a female
> > name.
> >
> > We each simply pointed out the bad intent of the speaker.
> >
> > I just went though this recently with someone who tried to insult
me
> > by calling me Gay.
> >
> > Same thing happened - when I pointed out it was no insult to me
but
> > he was the homophobe for hoping it would be an insult, he just
kept
> > repeating himself over and over that I was homophobic for
pointing
> > out that I wasn't gay.
> >
> > I didn't let him get away with it and you aren't getting away
with
> > it either.
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, "Gabrielle Obre"
> > <gabrielleobre@> wrote:
> > >
> > > Arcman and Tommy...being upset at being called a female name is
at
> > > least as anti female as using it (John) as a derogatory remark.
It
> > > assumes (pretty obvious to anyone with a minor amount of
> > linguistics
> > > or ability to think) that there is something wrong with being
> > female.
> > > Our culture is still very sexist, probably more than racist.
> > >
> > >
> > > --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, "arcman210" <acme87rangers@>
> > wrote:
> > > >
> > > > --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, Jersey Shore John
> > > > <jerseyshorejohn@> wrote:
> > > > >
> > > > > Your gutter language isn't very becoming, Delores.
> > > > >
> > > >
> > > > You calling me by female names is actually pretty much a
cheap
> > shot at
> > > > me. Obviously just trying to aggrivate me and make me come
back
> > at you
> > > > by calling you something. I'm actually not angry with you,
I'm
> > just
> > > > pretty much amused at how immature and out of touch with life
a
> > grown
> > > > man as yourself could actually be. I'm sorry, you're
right... I
> > > > shouldn't swear. I don't do it in front of children, and I
> > treat
> > > > adults who act like children in the same manner.
> > > >
> > >
> >
>
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