Saya pribadi sangat-sangat menentang yg namanya perceraian...
Dan sekedar bagi-2 cerita dari saya nihh....
Ada suatu kejadian di deket kampung saya,
Mereka adalah pasangan suami-istri dan mempuyai 2 orang anak,
dalam kira-2 kurun waktu 7 tahun dari perkawinan mereka.
Kemudian muncul ketidak cocokan dari kedua pasanagan tsb,
Sang Istri minta untuk di ceraikan,tetapi sang Suami sama sekali tdk mau
di ceraikan...hingga pada suatu hari pertengkaran itu terjadi lagi,
sampai pada adu fisik, apa yg terjadi..?? sang Istri meninggal dunia
selanjutnya Sang suami masuk penjara, dan anak-2 ikut terlantar.
Mohon maaf kalau ada yg tidak berkenan dgn cerita di atas.
Kalau menurut saya," semaksimal mungkin kita harus mempertahankan
perkawinan kita,akan tetapi,kalau sama sekali sudah tidak
cocok..mendingan di diskusikan baik-2 mengenai hak perwalian
anak,kemudian perceraian di laksanankan secara baik-2.Agar supaya pada
hari-2 yg akan datang kita bisa saling mengunjungi.
Salam,
Papa Jesse
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From: Frieza Diane Gabriel [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Thursday, September 30, 2004 2:36 PM
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kalau sudah tidak cocok lagi, gimana donk? masa mo dipaksa? hehehehe
sori jika jadi diskusi soal perceraian......
Maklum, dulu pernah ada tanteku yang ingin bercerai krn suaminya kawin
diem2...tapi sulit amat. Jadinya dia mau nikah sma yg lain pun juga
susah.
Frieza Diane Gabriel
PT Datascrip
Kawasan Niaga Selatan Blok B-15
Bandar Kemayoran - Jakarta 10610
Telp.: 021-6544515 Fax.: 021-6544811-13
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From: rita mardalina [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Thursday, September 30, 2004 12:19 PM
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Karena "apa yang sudah dipersatukan oleh Tuhan tidak bpleh dipisahkan
oleh manusia" begitu bunyinya
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From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Thursday, September 30, 2004 11:35 AM
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Wah...kalau perceraian tidak pernah bisa lewat gereja, karena itu
bertentangan dengan ajaran. Selama ini sih, kalau orang Kristen mau
bercerai, mungkin secara hukum (catatan sipil) bisa, tapi kalau secara
agama (Gereja)., tidak pernah bisa.
Thanks,
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Office Towers,
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Eh, bukannya kalo pernikahan lewat gereja (terutama yg Katholik) agak
susah nih??
Kan biasanya nih... inget temen yg dulu juga mau cerai, yang agak sulit
ijinnya justru dari gereja tuh.
"Wening Pusparini" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Others, 30/09/2004 11:23 AM
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Kalau melalui Catatan Sipil, perceraian harus dengan keputusan
Pengadilan
Negeri.
Berbeda dengan perceraian pasangan muslim yang harus melalui Pengadilan
Agama.
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Sent: Thursday, September 30, 2004 10:36 AM
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> Menikahnya dengan catatan sipil yang dipanggil ke gereja.
>
>
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> From: Ina Ratnawulan [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> Sent: Thursday, September 30, 2004 10:25 AM
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> agamanya apa Pak? (dulu menikahnya melalui casip atau KUA?)
> soal harus pake pengacara, tentu engga.
> Kalau bisa diselesaikan sendiri pasti lebih baik, at least lebih
ekonomis
ya
> :))
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> From: "Juli Muliyanto" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> To: "'Balita Anda'" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> Sent: Thursday, September 30, 2004 10:14 AM
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> > Deall All,
> >
> > Ada pertanyaan dari milis sebelah.
> > Kalo mau cerai, proses awalnya harus gimana ya.
> > Apa harus selalu pake pengacara ?
> > Kalo iya, berapa biayanya.
> > Apa kalo cerai, boleh diwakilkan oleh orang lain/pengacara di
pengadilan
?
> >
> > Thanks
> > Juli
> >
> >
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