----- Original Message ----- From: "Keith Henson" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "Killer Bs Discussion" <brin-l@mccmedia.com> Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2005 9:59 PM Subject: Re: Co-dependency
> At 09:37 PM 01/05/05 -0500, Dan Minette wrote: > > snip > > >With all due respect, Keith, how familiar are you with the literature on > >abusers returning to their spouse? I understand why you want to explain > >everything in terms of evolutionary psychology, but I tend to be biased > >more towards experimental studies than broad theoretical statements. > > I was rather up on this area of study a few years ago. > Are you aware of any studies that don't support this EP model? Sure. There are a number of things that don't support this. First, there is a pattern of repeatedly finding spouses that are abusive. After divorcing an abusive spouse, an abused woman is more likely than the average woman to find another abuser. With the Stockhome syndrome, getting the woman out of the position where the man has power over her should lead to as low a level of still supporting the kidnapper months after being freed. Are there instances of them asking to be reunited with the kidnappers months after they are free? This happens quite frequently with abusers. I think that family dynamics and a co-dependant family of origin are much better explainations for this behavior. > Also, I presume you don't really mean there have been experimental > studies. I can't imagine an ethics committee permitting the behavior that > activates capture bonding/Stockholm syndrome. Actually, my wife did her master's thesis on the issue of relative power and the probability that an abused women returns to her abuser. Dan M. _______________________________________________ http://www.mccmedia.com/mailman/listinfo/brin-l
