if i had just five minutes:
 
1.  teach the swing, teach it well.  point out that the person always ends up 
on the right or left (dep on gender) and drill that in.  tell them that if 
whoever they're dancing with doesn't put them on the appropriate side, just go 
there.  then i emphasize that in teaching the first few dances (end that 
swing/right and left through/promenade/etc. wtih the gents on the left, etc).  
i also point out to them that the place where they swing their partner can be 
considered their "recovery point" if they get lost - just go to that place and 
wait and everything will be ok.  now they have two ways to self-correct on the 
dance floor, which is empowering and tends to diminish that "frozen" feeling.  
i mention the recovery point during the walk-throughs of the first couple 
dances as a reminder.
 
2.  the caller's in charge of crowd control, anything that goes wrong is the 
CALLER's (MY) fault.  take the pressure off.
 
3.  it's a party - let's go have some fun!  
 
at the end of every class i teach, i have a huddle, a round of applause, ask 
them if they're ready to dance (make them yell "yes") - more like a pep rally 
than a class.  in fact, i think of myself as the party hostess.  i can't MAKE 
anyone have a good time, but if i'm a good hostess i'll set up the right 
situation so that everyone CAN have a good time.  the biggest part of that is 
getting people to relax, and that means YOU have to be relaxed.
 
***********************
 
most useful thing i EVER did to increase my calling skills was to start calling 
for non-dancers, ie wedding and birthday parties.  
  

 

> Date: Thu, 1 Sep 2011 12:16:10 -0400
> From: twirly-g...@bellsouth.net
> To: call...@sharedweight.net
> Subject: Re: [Callers] Implied Messages in First-Timer's Orientation (Was: 
> Head Mikes and Mike Heads)
> 
> If I just had 5 minutes with a new dancer, I would teach three things: 
> 1) We are all here to enjoy each other and the dance. Have Fun! 2) Your 
> greatest survival tool is a firm connection through your hands to your 
> body. Keep some tension in your arm so people can help guide you 
> through the dance. Floppies=no connection=no help. Eye contact 
> functions the same way. (OK, that might be slipping a spare in). 3) 
> Swing. We do lots and lots of it, so it would be good to understand how 
> it works. You and everyone else will enjoy the dance more if this part 
> works well. Obviously, if I get to do a real lesson, many of the points 
> Michael, Greg and David make are ones i would touch on. Many of the 
> basic figure will be accessible to new dancers simply by observing the 
> rest of the dancers. Little teaching is needed for them. CT is a bit 
> counter-intuitive for some, but figures will come if you give the dancer 
> and open mind and a little survival technique.
> Andrea
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