On Oct 17, 12:31 pm, Jayakhmer <[email protected]> wrote: > Let me take the time to explain. Perhaps, I did not do a good job of > explaining myself before. > > Let‘s start with some ground rules. Let both of us agree that we are > not going to engage in personal attacks. Let’s stick to the ideas. > Because you often use this phrase “Cambodian People,” I would like to > deserve the rights to defense any Cambodian or any political party if > necessary that includes the CPP, the SRP, The FUNCIPEC, and other. > They are all Cambodian people to me. Since I am a Cambodian, they are > my people. >
OK! > One of the things that make it hard for anyone of us who are Khmer to > respond to your statement is this. Your statements often are very > general. General statement is very difficult to understand let alone > to respond. > You are right. Most of my response is toward the general culture, behavior etc... of the Cambodian people. > For example, you said, “Cambodian people think about their own > righteousness. > They would bully themselves into situation. Then they would turn to > attack one's personality instead when they have no way to back up > their own claim. This is a typical Cambodian behavior.” > And! > The phrase “Cambodian people” is very general. With that phrase > alone, I have no idea to whom you are alluding. Cambodian people are > those who were born or migrated to a country that is known > internationally as Cambodia. Now, when you made statement such as > this, “Cambodian people think about their own righteousness,” I > scratched my head. It is a false statement. A few may have this > attitude, but Cambodian people? All of us think about think about our > own righteousness? That does not make sense. > My friend, If you believe that you are a Cambodian, then my message is very clear. You don't need to translate. My opinion is targetting Cambodians. I bring out behavior, culture as the forefront of my criticism. That is very clear. However, there are some people who choose not to believe what they are reading. As you have seen many discussion around here, you see it again and again that they would come out and attack one's personality because they can't argue with the reality. Cambodians have been fighting each other and blame it on others. How can you argue with that statement? You just can't. Unfortunately, some have been trying. > The rest of your statements contain the same characteristics. > > What is a typical Cambodian behavior? Unless you want to write a book > about a typical Cambodian behavior, I don’t think you can justify your > statement with just a few paragraphs. Otherwise, I will continue to > say that your statements are not valid. And it makes no sense to > debate on invalid statements. > Whatever you want it to be, that is yours to translate for yourself. I put it out there. You can do anything you want. > This is the type of frustration we Khmer run into when we try to > debate or to dialogue with you. Even I try to do it in good faith, I > cannot possibly keep up. It is not that I am not capable to defense > myself. Most of the time, your statements do not make any sense. > OK! What is the frustration? You are trying to bring out the dialogue. What kind of dialogue is that? Are we supposed that Vietnamese has been behind the destruction of Cambodia in the last five decades as many of the people out there trying to make us believe? Do you know what they do when they are asked for evidence to prove their claim? They would turn around and attack you if you dare to ask. That's the typical Cambodian behavior. It's not hard to understand. > Thus far, I stick to the statements and the idea. No personal attack > here. > I don't know about that. Go back and read it. -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Cambodia Discussion (CAMDISC) - www.cambodia.org" group. This is an unmoderated forum. Please refrain from using foul language. Thank you for your understanding. Peace among us and in Cambodia. To post to this group, send email to [email protected] To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [email protected] For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/camdisc Learn more - http://www.cambodia.org

