That's the sort of thing that's always got me in trouble in the past... I have a lot of unconventional opionions / interests... and I'm a very gregarious person, so I find it difficult (almost painful) not to talk about things... and then I end up getting fired over things like being bisexual (this is when I discover the boss is horribly homophobic) and polyamorous or relating things I've read about human sexuality from even as innocuous a location as a Time Life book (Sex and Spirit has a passage about incest which says it's as close as humans have come to a universally accepted/applied taboo, although even at that it's not evenly applied because there have frequently been exceptions, particularly tribal cultures, such as one culture where a boy's first sexual experience is _supposed_ to be with his mother). Apparently the mere fact that I would read something like this is an indication that I'm so horribly deviant that I may as well be infected with some fast-acting and deadly contagion to which other employees can't be exposed.
> rolf > no nothing like that (I would never have agreed to that > anyhow in > either the two cases that come to mind drug testing and > I'm not that > kinky for the other) - it was about a website I designed > and manage. > larry > On 4/14/05, jerry johnson <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > wrote: >> Did it involve peeing in a cup? >> >> Jerry Johnson >> Web Developer >> Dolan Media Company >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: Larry C. Lyons [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] >> Sent: Thursday, April 14, 2005 10:55 AM >> To: CF-Community >> Subject: Re: Working for Big Ass Companies >> >> I found how easy it is to get lost in the >> crowd, until the CEO came up to me at a company function >> to talk with >> me about some of the stuff I do outside company hours. s. isaac dealey 954.522.6080 new epoch : isn't it time for a change? add features without fixtures with the onTap open source framework http://macromedia.breezecentral.com/p49777853/ http://www.sys-con.com/author/?id=4806 http://www.fusiontap.com ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Discover CFTicket - The leading ColdFusion Help Desk and Trouble Ticket application http://www.houseoffusion.com/banners/view.cfm?bannerid=48 Message: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=i:5:153988 Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/threads.cfm/5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5 Donations & Support: http://www.houseoffusion.com/tiny.cfm/54