finally. good job.
it may take a few days, but i would imagine that erika MIGHT push a muffin your way... On 12/19/06, D F <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Thanks for that. It did give me something to think about. > > Socially speaking I would be the first one to admit that I have shortcomings. > Perhaps the way I burst in like you said is one of them. > > As I mentioned earlier... my intention was to be a 'part of' -- perhaps it > came out wrong..perhaps I was insensitive to the current discussion and > dynamic of the group. Perhaps a wait and see approach would have served me > better. > > But certainly one has to agree that the community response was a tad over the > top, highly innapropriate and inordinatley aggressive and insulting > considering the circumstances. > > I like discussing things that for me, have depth and for me anything else I > tend to view as a waste. Maybe this is a social shortcoming as you say. Hey, > I'm not perfect... I'm me. In all my own quirkyness and oddities...that > belong to me and to me alone. I see that I probably should have started a new > topic... I was unaware of the group consciousness here. > > > > > > > > > >Why come in with any "intent" other than fellowship? > >If this was a bar, would you approach and burst into the first > >conversation that you heard with a speech intending to inflame, that is > >completly off topic to the conversation? > >Would you not expect to be flamed (or worse in a bar situation) for it? > >Do you understand that whatever intent that you've had is completly lost > >in the delivery > > > >Like I said before you've come across like you're testing us to see if we > >are worthy of you. > > > >Whatever happened to "Hi, i'm Daniel, I'm a ColdFusion Developer..." > > > >Scott A. Stewart > >REAC/PASS-IT > >(202)-475-8875 > > > > > > > > > >D F <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > >12/19/2006 02:11 PM > >Please respond to cf-community > > > > > > To: CF-Community <cf-community@houseoffusion.com> > > cc: (bcc: Scott A. Stewart/REAC/HHQ/HUD) > > Subject: Re: Pet Peeve > > > > > >>i still have no idea why every one is upset? > >>threads get jacked every 30 minutes around here? > >>no i didnt read all 50+ posts on the last thread. > > > >This is what I'm trying to figure out. > > > >And I have asked for specifics as to where I went wrong. But people would > >rather gang up simply because it is part of the group mentality. The > >Simpsons parody this social quirk constantly. > > > >In short I have endured a lot of abuse today. if one were objective enough > >to look over all the really negative barbs throughout the course of this > >thread, the light of truth would shine in. > > > >Few people ( maybe one or two ) have provided examples of what their > >thoughts were...but sadly, many would rather use terms such as 'asshole', > >'idiot', 'weirdo' etc... rather than knowing the truth or really knowing > >my my intention was. > > > >I would expect an educated group such as this would have better comments > >to make. > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Create robust enterprise, web RIAs. Upgrade & integrate Adobe Coldfusion MX7 with Flex 2 http://ad.doubleclick.net/clk;56760587;14748456;a?http://www.adobe.com/products/coldfusion/flex2/?sdid=LVNU Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/message.cfm/messageid:222669 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5
