Is 3 months prior really "stealing thunder"? I could understand 1 month, maybe 2 but thats a quarter of the year? What's beyond stealing thunder for your sister? 4 months? 6 months? maybe even a year? I wouldn't see a wedding 3 months around mine by someone in my family as stealing the thunder.. Then again, I'm not a woman..
On 5/24/07, Charlie Griefer <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > ultimately it's your fiancee's choice (and yours). I'm not saying > that you guys should just cave for the sake of caving... but i'm > suggesting that you both at least consider your sister's feelings (as > irrational as they may be). this is your family and soon to be your > fiancee's family. > > you'll both have to live with the ramifications for a long, long time. > > weigh the consequences and whether or not you think it'll be worth > dealing with long term. > > On 5/24/07, Tony <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > my sisters wedding date is 6/7/8 my old wedding date. i didnt care > > too much, whatever, its her shit, whatever. > > > > however, now that i am engaged, my fiance and i would like to have > > our wedding on march 1st of 08. over 3 months before hers. > > > > she is complaining in a VERY crazy manner, that we are going to > > steal her thunder, yadda yadda yadda... > > > > i say, its my fiance's first, its her date to choose, she shouldnt have > > to worry about ANYONE elses date, not one bit. > > > > the only crossovers will be my family's attendance and even that > > only my IMMEDIATE family will be there, not really too many others > > who will be at both. > > > > should i wait till AFTER hers, or is it my fiances choice, and i should > > roll with her wishes? > > > > help :( > > > > -- > > 'Never have anything in your life that you can't walk out on in thirty > > seconds flat, if you spot the heat coming around the corner' > > > > robert deniro - heat (1995) > > > > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Create robust enterprise, web RIAs. Upgrade & integrate Adobe Coldfusion MX7 with Flex 2 http://www.adobe.com/products/coldfusion/flex2/?sdid=RVJP Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/message.cfm/messageid:235494 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5
